‘My Wife And Two Kids...:' Indian Techie's Post Amid H-1B Visa Row Strikes A Chord
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An Indian engineer's Reddit post highlights the personal struggles faced amid US visa uncertainties.
Once a sought-after pathway for skilled professionals to work in the US, the H-1B visa is now under increased scrutiny amid tightening regulations. Indian nationals, who historically receive the largest share of these visas, are among the most affected.
Adding to their concerns is a controversial executive order issued by US President Donald Trump. The order proposes revoking birthright citizenship for children born in the US to parents on temporary visas like the H-1B, unless one parent is a citizen or permanent resident. This move has sparked anxiety among immigrant families already grappling with visa uncertainties and long green card wait times.
Amid growing uncertainty surrounding immigration policies, a Reddit post by an Indian engineer has brought attention to the emotional and practical dilemmas faced by many expats. The anonymous user revealed that after spending the majority of his career in the US, he recently received a lucrative job offer in India, based in his home state. However, he currently resides in the US with his wife and two young children—one of whom has just started kindergarten. Although his current income only covers basic expenses, he cherishes the work-life balance and quality family time that living in the US affords, making the decision to relocate all the more difficult.
'I am in my mid-30s, working in the IT industry. I worked mostly in the US. I have 2 kids, 1 of whom is in Kindergarten and the other one is a toddler. I just got a job offer in India with decent pay and in my native state. I am working for an Automotive company through an Indian consultancy. Though the pay in the US is not so great and my wife is not working, the pay in the US is just enough to meet the ends and hardly any savings left out. It's getting really hard as the prices are increasing, and the added pressure of keeping the visa status alive. But at the same time, I will not get the same Quality of Life in India that I enjoy here. Also, I like the family time and weekend joys with my family. I may not get it in India, where the work demands more additional work time. I am unable to choose. What would you do if you were in my situation?" he asked.
Shared on May 29, the post grabbed responses, reflecting the diverse perspectives of others facing similar dilemmas.
A user commented, 'It's a hard choice, and honestly, no one can really help you decide. You just have to commit to one option, not look back, and accept that you can't have the best of both worlds."
Another advised, 'Move back before the kids grow up. Getting adjusted will be difficult as they get older."
'If you can't increase your salary in the U.S. and can live comfortably in India with additional savings, then it makes sense to move back," an individual said, adding, 'Your expenses will only rise once both kids start school.
Many commenters highlighted the emotional comfort and cultural connection that come with moving back to one's home country.
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