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No glamour, just grit: Indian student's Reddit post lays bare life in US

No glamour, just grit: Indian student's Reddit post lays bare life in US

India Today15 hours ago
As thousands of Indian students prepare to leave for the United States this autumn, a post on Reddit is drawing attention for its blunt but practical view of what lies ahead. Titled 'My honest experience working and grinding in the USA', the post offers a direct account of the challenges international students often face but rarely talk about openly.The anonymous author begins by asking readers to reflect before they move. 'Go to a cafe, get a coffee and a notebook, and write down what makes you want to come to the USA,' the post says.advertisementThe writer stresses that without family and familiar support systems, students must rely on themselves until they build meaningful friendships abroad.
The user also emphasised that Americans often carry a sense of superiority and tend to distance themselves from you.One of the first issues the post highlights is housing. Many students pick roommates from WhatsApp groups or social media, which, the writer warns, can lead to difficult or unhealthy living conditions.'Try to have people around you who are supportive and trustworthy. That can affect your mental health,' it reads.The post advises students to make the first move when it comes to making friends, especially in the early weeks. It notes that some American cities may feel distant to Indian students, but connecting with fellow Indians on campus can help ease the transition.
Career pressure is another focus. 'If you don't grind, it'll be more difficult to look for jobs after graduation,' the author writes. They suggest gaining experience early and putting in consistent effort to stand out.The overall tone is clear, not discouraging. The writer calls the experience one of the best times of their life, despite the demands. They end with a message to incoming students: 'Hope you guys love it here too. My DMs are always open.'In contrast to polished social media content, the post has struck a chord for its honesty. For many students about to begin this journey, it serves as a practical note from someone who has lived through it.Despite challenges on multiple fronts, the US remains the top choice for Indian students. In 2024 alone, over 2.5 lakh students opted to study in the US across various streams.Several Reddit posts in the past have also highlighted how, from navigating college campuses to securing a job, the journey has become increasingly difficult after arriving in the US.- Ends
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