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Adults Reveal Special Things Their Parents Did For Them

Adults Reveal Special Things Their Parents Did For Them

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Most of us never realize everything our parents did to make our childhoods special. From holiday traditions to family vacations, kids often take these special, wholesome things for granted. However, once we grow up, gain perspective, and perhaps even become parents ourselves, we can appreciate just how magical our childhoods truly were, all thanks to our parents...
That's why when Redditor u/MisterRocCity asked, "What was something your parents did for you as a child that you didn't fully appreciate until you became an adult?" adults were more than happy to share the heartwarming ways their parents made their childhoods special. From secret science labs to parental chauffeurs— here are 19 of their sweetest memories:
"Beginning around age seven, I had an insatiable desire to write. I would write pages and ramblings almost every day, whether it was full accounts of my day, idealized accounts of my day, stories set in fantasy worlds, or long, dialogue-only scenes. I always gave them to my mom, and she would read them all the way through."
"My parents were adamant about not raising 'iPad kids' so we had very limited screen time. We could only use the family desktop if we wanted to play games. If we wanted to talk to friends, we had to use the landline. We could only watch TV a few hours a day after chores and school were finished."
"I had terrible menstrual cramps when I was in middle school. Every month I had to go to the school nurse, and she'd call my mom to come get me."
"My parents built a secret room in our house and filled it with lab supplies — rocks and minerals, a kaleidoscope, a magnifying glass, books, a microscope, a chemistry kit, and all other kinds of Tandy and Radio Shack stuff we got to discover on our own. Whenever we went into the room, there would always be something new."
"When I was sick, my parents would give me a little bell that I could ring if I needed something. Now I realize they were doing it so I didn't have to yell for them if I had a sore throat or felt too sick. I never had to wait more than a minute for them to help me."
"When I was in tenth grade, I had a difficult biology course. Both of my parents studied with me and made up songs for me to use as mnemonic devices."
"My parents worked hard to educate us outside of school hours: Taking trips to museums, teaching us to research things at the library, staying in historic hotels, going on nature hikes, camping trips, etc. My mom also ran two Girl Scout troops (one for me and one for my sister)."
"My parents pinched pennies on everything except for a big family vacation every summer. We had a 30+ year old kitchen, a small house, 20-year-old cars, shopped the sales, etc., so they could afford to take us traveling."
"My mom let me pick out my clothes, they were always within a reasonable budget and age-appropriate, but when we shopped for them, I got to pick what I wanted. I took it for granted that I should have that choice."
"My parents (specifically my dad) didn't want me to have a job as a teenager, but all my friends were getting jobs and earning money, and I wanted to do the same."
"Starting in late elementary school, my mom let us decide if we were too sick to go to school. At the time, I hated it because on days when I'd wake up with a headache or a stuffy nose, I really just wanted her to give me the out and tell me I could stay home because I knew I was well enough to go in but didn't want to."
"My parents took me to Disney when I was little. I'm nearly 50, single, with no kids, and the realization hit me last year. I started tearing up when I thought about it. I saw something on TV that showed lines at Disney, and I thought, 'Wow, there are a lot of parents who have to stand in those lines for rides. I'm glad it's not me.'"
"My dad was the official 'taxi.' He always wanted me to get home safe, so he would come to get me at 11:30 p.m. every Friday and Saturday."
"My parents encouraged and supported my love of reading. They read to me, taught me how to read before I was in school, let me order books from Scholastic magazines and buy books at the book fair (one of my absolute favorite events at school), and took me on weekly trips to the library where I felt like Matilda with my wagon of books."
"I did appreciate it at the time, but the fullness didn't hit me until a year later: My dad took me to get my first gender-affirming haircut before I came out to him. He didn't say anything about it other than offering to show me how to trim it myself and style it with light gel."
"My brother and I loved school and needed intellectual stimulation, so every summer, my mother would make school-like activities at home for us. She worked at our school, so she had summers off with us, and we'd do themed weeks where we learned about different things."
"My mom is and has always been 'Mrs. Make-it-happen.' A good example of this was once when my siblings and I wanted the ultimate sleepover with all of our cousins at our house. I didn't know at the time, but my parents were low on funds, but it didn't stop them from giving us what we wanted."
"I'm thankful my mom homeschooled me. Having been diagnosed with ADHD and getting tested for autism now as an adult, I would NOT have done well or had a good time in public school. I would have been severely bullied for being 'weird' and fallen behind academically because of my difficulties learning in the standard ways. I never thought of it as a big deal, but looking back, I am so incredibly grateful that she did that for me."
"My mom grew up deprived of life's 'simple pleasures', so when she became an adult and had five kids, she made sure we got to enjoy the little simplicities. She would buy us chocolates for Valentine's Day or celebrate St. Patrick's Day with the green and pinching, etc."
Which one of these memories was your favorite? What was something special your parents did that you didn't appreciate until you were an adult? Tell us in the comments or answer anonymously using the form below!
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"My mom is and has always been 'Mrs. Make-it-happen.' A good example of this was once when my siblings and I wanted the ultimate sleepover with all of our cousins at our house. I didn't know at the time, but my parents were low on funds, but it didn't stop them from giving us what we wanted." "I'm thankful my mom homeschooled me. Having been diagnosed with ADHD and getting tested for autism now as an adult, I would NOT have done well or had a good time in public school. I would have been severely bullied for being 'weird' and fallen behind academically because of my difficulties learning in the standard ways. I never thought of it as a big deal, but looking back, I am so incredibly grateful that she did that for me." "My mom grew up deprived of life's 'simple pleasures', so when she became an adult and had five kids, she made sure we got to enjoy the little simplicities. She would buy us chocolates for Valentine's Day or celebrate St. Patrick's Day with the green and pinching, etc." Which one of these memories was your favorite? What was something special your parents did that you didn't appreciate until you were an adult? Tell us in the comments or answer anonymously using the form below!

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