Have the itch to be always right? Study reveals intellectual humility may be the smarter way to deal with disagreements
In a way, when you are open-minded, you begin to read the room and the people in it much better. The researchers examined three studies with 533 Jewish Israeli adults. They were made to watch videos of Jewish and Palestinian Israeli women narrating emotional stories, and were later asked how the speaker was emotionally feeling. Two types of reactions were analysed, empathetic concern and personal distress. People with high intellectual humility felt more concern than distress; they would actually listen rather than let it get personal, feel worked up, and lash out more.
Those who scored high on intellectual humility were much better at reading emotions. Moreover, this quality is helpful as the study revealed that humility may help clear misunderstandings. In a way, one can put oneself in someone else's shoes
While on the surface, it may overlap with empathy as some aspects require one to channel empathy in order to feel emotionally stronger. These individuals are not only empathetic but also intellectual, as they stay ahead by understanding and foreseeing what others feel.
The intellectual aspect especially comes from the quick ability to judge and anticipate emotions, rather than impulsively reacting. They, in a way, can anticipate reactions. So, not only can they feel, but they can also think about how things may unfold (like a clairvoyant.)
So, next time you feel the urge to chime in with 'I know I am right in an argument,' maybe think again and agree to disagree.
ALSO READ: Healthy ways of addressing an argument: Psychotherapist shares tips
Note to readers: This article is for informational purposes only and not a substitute for professional medical advice. Always seek the advice of your doctor with any questions about a medical condition.
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