Father's Strength and support: Bonds beyond words
While the day is traditionally marked on the third Sunday of June in many countries, others observe it on dates of local significance – such as May 8 in South Korea, December 5 in Thailand and March 19 in Italy, which coincides with the feast of Saint Joseph, the patron saint of fathers.
In Oman, Father's Day is not celebrated officially, but it is steadily gaining recognition, particularly among younger Omanis and social media users. The occasion reflects a broader global movement to appreciate the emotional and guiding roles that fathers play in everyday life.
To understand how Omanis view this growing tradition, Muscat Daily spoke with residents from across the social spectrum.
'My father taught me to stand tall in life,' said Fatma al Kindi, a teacher and mother of three. 'He worked quietly behind the scenes, never asking for recognition. On Father's Day, I make sure to tell him how much that means to me.'
For 29-year-old marketing executive Mohammed Said, the day carries a deeper, more personal significance. 'My dad passed away three years ago,' he said.
'On this Father's Day, we want you to know how much we admire and love you. Your strength, wisdom and unwavering support have shaped us into the men we are today. You were our greatest role model – teaching us what it means to work hard, care deeply and face challenges with courage.'
Social workers and family counsellors say the role of fathers in Oman is gradually shifting. Traditionally seen as primary providers, today's fathers are more involved in the emotional and developmental aspects of their children's lives.
'Fathers are more hands-on now,' said Dr Aisha al Maawali, a sociologist. 'Whether helping with homework or guiding their children through career choices, fathers are building deeper, more visible relationships. Celebrations like Father's Day help acknowledge and encourage this bond.'
Retailers in Muscat – including gift shops, florists and cafés – have responded with special packages for the occasion. But for many, simple expressions of love resonate the most.
'Last year, my daughter wrote me a letter,' said Ali al Balushi, a taxi driver. 'She's studying abroad. Her words made me cry. That meant more to me than any gift.'
For 21-year-old Samer al Nabahani, the day is also a time to recognise those who step into fatherly roles.
'It's a moment to honour stepfathers, grandfathers, uncles, older brothers and mentors – people whose influence can be just as powerful.'
'As Oman continues to evolve, the core values of family, love and guidance remain central. And this Sunday, whether through a phone call, a shared meal or a heartfelt note, many will find a moment to simply say: Thank you, Dad,' said Nabahani.
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