Unlocking the power of conversations: A Review of Jefferson Fisher's 'The Next Conversation'
This book didn't just teach me how to speak better—it taught me how to show up in conversations with purpose, confidence, and clarity. Fisher, a skilled trial lawyer, knows the stakes of every word, and he brings that high-pressure wisdom into everyday life with practical, actionable advice that anyone can use.
As I read, I couldn't help but draw parallels to ideas from Mel Gibbons' The Let Them Theory and Sahil Bloom's The 5 Types of Wealth. Those books were about relationships, self-control, and balance, and Fisher's book tied it all together for me in a way that felt deeply personal.
Fisher's insights reminded me that conversations aren't just exchanges of words—they're opportunities to grow, connect, and even redirect your energy toward the things that matter.
Key Tips from the Book
Fisher organises his book into three main pillars: "Say it with control, say it with confidence, and say it to connect."
Here are ten tips from the book that absolutely changed how I think about conversations:
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