'I'm 53, $50K in Debt, and I Want a Divorce': Truck Driver Tells Dave Ramsey He Has Nothing Saved And Owes IRS — 'You're in a Jar of Pickles'
At 53, Donnie from Fayetteville, North Carolina, called into "The Ramsey Show" with a brutally honest update:
"I'm 53, have nothing for retirement, $50,000 in debt, and want a divorce."
That was the actual title of the episode — and pretty much the entire plot. A truck driver with decades on the road, Donnie laid out his financial and emotional dead ends in one breath, prompting Dave Ramsey and co-host John Delony to react with a mix of concern, tough love and a few chuckles at the sheer weight of it all.
"Man, it's an honor to talk to you," Donnie began optimistically. "Dave, I'm in a pickle."
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That's putting it mildly.
"I'm 53 years old, have absolutely nothing for retirement, I'm $50,000 in debt... and I want a divorce," he confessed in one breath.
"Sounds like you're in a jar of pickles," Ramsey quipped.
The trouble started slowly, Donnie said. After 32 years of marriage, things had been slipping — both emotionally and financially. As an over-the-road trucker, Donnie spent most of his time on the highway while his wife handled the finances back home.
"We were doing great," he recalled. "COVID hit, I was home. We got debt free, paid off everything we had. I had six months of living expenses saved up."
Then things swerved.
"She just got a wild hair up her britches," Donnie said, "wanted to move into a house and doubled our rent. Emptied the savings. Then she got crazy and went and got all these credit cards."
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And just when it seemed like things couldn't get worse, they did.
"I found out I'm $30,000 in debt to the IRS for years of taxes that she didn't pay," he added. "I guess I should've been a little more on top of it."
Ramsey didn't sugarcoat it. "You didn't achieve y'all's goal. You achieved your goal," he said. "She got debt-free for you."
The lack of financial alignment — and communication — was obvious. Donnie admitted he had introduced his wife to Ramsey's famous "debt snowball" method and pushed hard for a financial overhaul.
"I just sort of put my foot down and said, 'Look, this is the way it's gotta be,'" Donnie said.
But Ramsey wasn't impressed with the forceful approach: "You stomped on her toes... you didn't really do anything."
Delony added, "You've been doing the dance of the victim. 'She did this to me.' 'He left me.' That dance keeps you stuck."Despite their financial success during the pandemic, the marriage kept unraveling. Donnie described himself as being in "full panic mode" since turning 50. Still, he showed up to the call with humility and humor, asking for a clear path forward.
"My biggest issue right now is figuring out what to do about these taxes," he said.
Ramsey offered a starting point, advising Donnie to connect with a qualified tax professional who could help him negotiate a payment plan with the IRS.
But he warned Donnie — without alignment in the marriage, financial recovery might not mean much.
"You're going to continue to have financial problems as long as you're not communicating and aligned," Ramsey said. "Aligned doesn't mean demanding. It means we both see the same future and both agree on how to get there."
The message was clear: no amount of money will fix a relationship built on miscommunication, mistrust, and misaligned goals.
If Donnie can't get his wife back on the same team, Ramsey added bluntly, "You are divorced. And then you get to go fix your money problems."
Feeling stuck like Donnie? You're not alone.
If you're staring down $0 in retirement, mountains of debt, or financial betrayal, all hope is not lost. A licensed financial advisor or tax professional can help you make sense of the mess and create a plan that actually sticks. And if your relationship is part of the problem, it might be time to have the hard conversations — together.
Even when you're "in a jar of pickles," there's a lid... and a way out.
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