Paresh Rawal Compared Marriage To War: 'Difference Is, You Get To Sleep With Enemy'
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Paresh Rawal also likened marriage to going to a restaurant and liking another person's order.
Veteran actor Paresh Rawal, renowned for his impeccable comic timing in films like Hera Pheri and Oh My God, shares a heartwarming love story with his wife, Swaroop Sampat. Their journey from a chance meeting to a lasting partnership is a testament to love, patience, and mutual respect. When the duo starred together in the play Shaadi@Barbaadi.com, they chatted with fans on Rediff, and Paresh Rawal's replies about marriage caught everyone's attention.
When a fan asked, 'Paresh bhai are U online or not?" The actor responded, 'Dialogue: Marriage is like a war. The only difference is in a marriage, you get to sleep with the enemy…" Another fan asked, 'Paresh Ji Hume gussa aa raha hai. Aap Humare sawaal ka jawab nahi de rahe hain ??? — Joke sunao tumhare kisi natak ka???" The actor responded, 'Getting married is like going to a restaurant.. You order something, and when you get the food, you prefer the dish the other guy ordered…"
Paresh Rawal and Swaroop Sampat's paths first crossed in 1975 during a college play. Paresh, struck by Swaroop's presence, boldly declared to his friend, 'This girl will be my wife." Despite the unconventional proposal, Swaroop was intrigued but didn't hear from him for nearly a year.
When they reconnected, Swaroop was impressed by Paresh's acting skills and agreed to date him. Their relationship blossomed over time, leading to a deep bond. In 1987, after 12 years of courtship, they married in a private ceremony at Mumbai's Lakshmi Narayan Temple, keeping the event intimate with just close family and friends.
Swaroop, a former Miss India and actress known for her role in the iconic TV series Yeh Jo Hai Zindagi, transitioned into education and child development. Her dedication led her to become a finalist for the Global Teacher Prize in 2019. Paresh has been a steadfast supporter of her endeavours, often attending events and launches to show his unwavering support.
Together, they have two sons, Aditya and Anirudh. Aditya has pursued a career in screenwriting, while Anirudh has worked as an assistant director in the film industry.
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