EDEN CONFIDENTIAL: Mother of Lord Monson's 'devastating snub' to cancer-striker son

Daily Mail​

11-07-2025

He's contended with two unspeakable hammer blows – the murder, in the custody of the Kenyan police, of his elder son, Alexander, and the loss of his younger boy, Rupert, who took his own life while in the grip of cannabis-induced psychosis.
But I can disclose that Lord Monson, who has inoperable cancer, plus an acute cardiac condition and diabetes, now appears to have been comprehensively cut off by none other than his own mother.
The moment chosen for what friends describe as a devastating snub was a family celebration, held last Saturday in north Lincolnshire where the Monsons have ruled the roost for generations.
'A big invitation went out saying, 'Emma, Lady Monson and family invite you to join them to celebrate the 400th anniversary of the newly conserved Monson Monument',' I'm told by a chum of Nicholas, the 69-year-old peer.
'The monument's an astonishing thing, with alabaster effigies of Nick's forebears, in the crypt of the family church. The Bishop of Lincoln was leading an Act of Dedication and then everyone was invited for refreshments afterwards.'
But not the whole family. 'Nick wasn't invited. He didn't even know it was happening until someone got in touch with him and said, 'Thanks for the invitation'.'
Monson declines to comment, and his mother, 89, could not be reached yesterday. But I understand that their only communication is via Nicholas Monson's Brazilian wife, Silvana.
'I don't know what's caused the rift,' the chum adds. 'Nick's lived an unusual life and he's on his third marriage but it seems extraordinary that they couldn't have worked things out, at least for the weekend.'
It is indeed a sorry state of affairs for a family boasting ability, royal connections and glamour. Monson's cousins include investment guru Guy Monson, a former trustee of the Invictus Games, and the beautiful Debbie Bismarck, wife of Count Leopold Bismarck and mother of photographer Nikolai Bismarck, until recentlyKate Moss's longstanding toyboy lover.
'There's a big will to consider – Lady Monson's,' I'm told. In which, presumably, Nicholas, the eldest of her three sons, will go unmentioned...
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