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3 days ago
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How incel language infected the mainstream internet — and brought its toxicity with it
This excerpt from Adam Aleksic's Algospeak: How Social Media Is Transforming the Future of Language has been abridged for online publication. The book is out on July 15th. The modern-day incel is entirely an invention of the twenty-first century. Before the internet, lonely men simply didn't have a way to gather and share ideas. That all began to change in 1997, when a Canadian student started a website called Alana's Involuntary Celibacy Project to connect with others over her shared lack of sex. As the name implies, the site wasn't a place for just straight men; rather, it was used by people of any gender or sexual orientation. In subsequent years, that initial 'incel' community then dispersed to several other websites. These were more male dominated and less moderated, meaning that increasingly misogynistic discussion was able to take root. The largest of these forums, 4chan, doubled as a gathering place for right-wing extremists, whose ideas began to fuse with those of the incels. In their world-view, the sexual hierarchy was dominated by an elite group of Chads (highly attractive men), who could rely on their good looks as a form of 'sexual market value' to seduce women at the expense of betas (average men who exchange loyalty to Chads for their romantic leftovers). At the very bottom rung were the incels, who believed they were unable to have sex because of their appearance. Acceptance of the lookism philosophy — known as getting blackpilled — meant adopting very specific slang and ideas. For example, a Chad was understood to always 'mog' (dominate) and 'cuck' (emasculate) a beta, but the beta could attempt to improve their status through 'looksmaxxing' (enhancing their physical appearance). This might take the form of working out (gymmaxxing) or even seeking physical modifications through 'Surgerymaxxing.' With this cynical, deterministic cognitive frame dominating 4chan's discussion boards, the modern 'blackpill' began in earnest. Notably, 4chan didn't have any user accounts. Every poster was anonymous, meaning that the only way to differentiate yourself as an experienced user was to demonstrate a performative proficiency in shared slang. This unique pressure to show a sense of in- group belonging ended up giving us numerous foundational internet words, such as 'troll,' 'dank,' 'shitpost,' and 'rickroll.' Using these words was an important way to show that you weren't a 'normie' on the website. Because they had wide applicability, they eventually spread beyond the site. In the same way, most of the highly specific incel vocabulary was built up by 4chan extremists to match their burgeoning ideology. Words like 'mogging,' 'cucked,' and 'maxxing' became metalinguistic indicators that the anonymous poster was truly a blackpilled member of the community and not some random outsider. You needed to demonstrate a certain level of prerequisite knowledge to truly fit in. Beyond the technological catalyst of 4chan's user interface, incels have long faced a self- imposed social need to adopt new slang to prove their status. Those within the community fight a constant battle to prove their 'purity' as incels and avoid being labeled as 'fakecels' or 'volcels' (voluntary celibates). Even within the deepest echelons of the incel filter bubble, many believe that most of their peers still have potential to 'ascend' to beta status through looksmaxxing, moving location, or accumulating wealth. Only the bottom 1 percent of the population are truecels — incels with unchangeably unattractive features and no hope of ascension. In the online space, these truecels are able to dominate the discussion due to their purer status. Within the incel community itself, language serves the same function as language in a cult: It's a recruitment tool creating an 'us versus them' mentality. Since incel vocabulary is used to mark 'correct' blackpill philosophy, the incel feels alienated from normies— family and friends who don't use the language. Meanwhile, truecel rhetoric pushes recruits to accept more extremist beliefs, since those ideas are associated with higher social status within the community. Those who use the language sound experienced, appearing to understand the ideology well. While extreme, the basic structure of the incel filter bubble mirrors all other filter bubbles online. Those who are further in the in- group are more likely to dominate discourse, creating and spreading words for those on the periphery. As users familiarize themselves with the group vocabulary, they identify more with that group, and more readily adopt language to fit shared social needs. The basic structure of the incel filter bubble mirrors all other filter bubbles online. Those who are further in the in- group are more likely to dominate discourse, creating and spreading words for those on the periphery. I would argue that, if anything, the incel example is very important to understand, for it has probably contributed more to the development of 'modern slang' than any other online community. It's precisely because of their radicalized and insular echo chamber that they've created so much language and have many more avenues to influence the mainstream. It is because of their extreme views that their ideas are so easily spread through memes. We can, in fact, use the spread of incel ideas as a case study to examine how memes carry information across social media platforms. Real incels never had access to algorithmic recommendations, since their ideology was too unpalatable and subject to content moderation. So how did their concepts and language move from website to website until eventually arriving, in diluted form, on our social media feeds? Let's start where the philosophy began in earnest: 4chan. Despite the forum's early importance, it remained a place where incels mixed with normies. The Incels Wiki page for /r9k/, their main discussion board on 4chan, calls it a 'pseudo-incelospherian' space: Although it was a medium 'for some genuine incel discussion,' it was never purely an incel forum, and 'also served as a place for people to pretend to be incel' and troll actual truecels. Seeking a more insular and supportive community in the mid- 2010s, the incel subculture largely turned to Reddit, where subreddits like r/Incels were able to accrue tens of thousands of blackpilled followers. From there, they slowly began pushing their philosophy in other subreddits. Forums like these were fruitful recruiting grounds, but the incels found their greatest success on 'rate me' subreddits, where people would post pictures of themselves and ask for feedback. Here, incels were able to promote a more accessible version of their philosophy by disguising looksmaxxing language as helpful suggestions. Posters were evaluated on pseudoscientific lookism beauty standards like 'interocular distance,' 'canthal tilt,' and 'hunter eyes.' They were encouraged to improve their facial structure through 'mewing' and jaw surgery so that they could 'mog' others. If they were interested in exploring further, the blackpill was waiting around the corner. Even once the incel subreddits were eventually shut down by Reddit, forums like r/RateMe continued to normalize incel jargon, making it easier to both put stock in it and parody it. In the same way that my Discord server jokingly used incel language, jokes about mogging and canthal tilts began to show up in 2021 across Instagram and Twitter, in memes that eventually became viral through TikTok and Instagram Reels. Ironically, the first people to bring looksmaxxing to TikTok appear to have been women, who unknowingly began repurposing incel concepts from the early 'rate me' subreddits. Beauty influencers on #GirlTok would demonstrate how to use canthal tilt to put on eyeliner, or post video filters rating themselves on metrics like forehead size and interocular distance. Eventually, people began picking up on the phrenological absurdity of these ideas and turned them into more memes. The deeper people poked into the underlying philosophy, the more the jokes multiplied, and words like 'pilled' and '- maxxing' were fully trending by late 2023. Most people thought that the concepts were funny and went on to spread them; those who knew the story and were offended by it also helped the terms spread through the ragebait cycle of attention. Once algorithms got involved, the incel terms were amplified by the online Matthew effect: a phenomenon where content that is slightly better at grabbing your attention performs exponentially better on social media. As their memes were recombined into other 'phrasal templates' and caught on as comedic references, they were eventually able to reach mainstream popularity. Many words also spawned their own spin- off memes. Starting in 2021, for example, the term 'sigma' began going viral as an ironic reference to the incel hierarchy of alphas and betas. In this particular joke, a sigma was nominally equal to a Chad, but opted to live outside the normal social structure of their own volition. The phrase started out as a genuinely idolized position within the incelosphere, but was then blown up through memes like the 'Rizzler song,' which contained the lyric 'I just wanna be your sigma.' A lot of subsequent 'brainrot' content focused on similar incel classifications, like an analysis of the power dynamics between dancers in a ' TikTok Rizz Party' or viral 'sigma face tutorials.' By this point, the words were out of the incels' hands. The community never had the opportunity to gather on major social media apps once their subreddits were shut down, and instead had moved to Discord servers or more specific, hard-to-find forums online. There have been past problems with algorithmic filter bubbles leading to extremism: ISIS infamously used YouTube as a recruitment tool in the early 2010s, and the QAnon movement spread in part thanks to Facebook echo chambers. Thankfully, the big platforms had cracked down on more obvious threats by the time incel slang became mainstream. If you look up 'incel' on TikTok, for example, it redirects you to a page warning you that your search term is associated with hateful content. Nevertheless, it's fascinating how far incel humor has reached. One of the most common meme templates on the internet is a crudely drawn comparison of a 'Chad walk versus virgin stride.' In the original version, the characters are labeled like diagrams in a biology textbook, with annotations pointing out why the Chad's behavior mogs the virgin. Another widely shared format contrasts the opinion of a crying loser character with that of a confident Chad. Both templates perpetuate incel ideas about social hierarchies, but to the uninitiated they're simply funny conduits for categorizing ideas. These memes— and many others, from 'Pepe the Frog' to the 'Gigachad'— started on incel- associated 4chan boards before reaching greater popularity on other websites for their easy applicability to everyday situations. By now, we know that the dissemination of incel memes across platforms points to how fringe ideas can become mainstream, and that algorithms can perpetuate dangerous concepts in the name of engagement optimization. The lookism concepts from r/RateMe, including jawline angle, eye distance, and facial symmetry, are eugenics- based talking points that were already regarded as pseudoscientific by the nineteenth century. Now, with beauty influencers making content about those metrics, it feels as if we've reverted to social Darwinist ideas about skull measurement. Phrenological theories barely scratch the surface of how incel memes open the door to eugenics. Since much of the early incel community was heavily influenced by the alt- right community on 4chan, they've adopted a lot of extreme ideas about interracial relationships. According to lookism philosophy, Asian men are considered the least sexually desirable, and many 'truecels' self-identify as 'ricecels' or 'currycels' as reasons for their incel dom. These men point to WMAF (white male/Asian female) relationships as a principal cause of their virginity— objectifying the women in these situations and depriving them of their agency to make their own dating decisions. The term 'brainrot,' now used to describe a genre of Gen Alpha humor, likely also came from incel circles, which used the expression to describe the perceived decline in intelligence resulting from their lack of social interaction. Incel slang is marked by its deeply negative views toward society, and these ideas frequently resonate with younger generations who are similarly pessimistic about the present. In the early 2020s, for instance, the catchphrase 'it's over' began making the rounds as a dejected reaction to an adverse situation. Partially a joke, partially a genuine expression of hopelessness, it was buoyed in popularity by incels, who had been using the phrase since it began making the rounds on 4chan. In her 2024 book, The Age of Magical Overthinking, Amanda Montell identifies the rise of 'doomslang' — dystopian or detached jargon mostly used by younger people. Hyperbolically negative phrases like 'everything sucks' and 'I want to kill myself ' have become shockingly commonplace, and everyday actions like lying in bed on your phone are bleakly described as 'dissociating,' 'doomscrolling,' or 'bedrotting.' This kind of language is especially common among incels, who were using phrases like 'LDAR' ('lay down and rot') before 'bedrotting' ever became a thing. The modern doomslang phenomenon appears to have evolved simultaneously with incel-speak, in some cases even being influenced by the latter. One of the stock characters in the Chad memes, known as the doomer, emerged as a way to voice the (frequently incel) dissociated perspective on 4chan, and eventually spread beyond those origins like all the other 4chan memes. Today, I regularly hear my friends calling each other 'doomers,' as well as using other depressive incel words like 'cope,' 'ropemaxx' (an algospeak replacement for 'commit suicide'), and 'wagecuck' (someone who works a mindless nine- to- five job). Meanwhile, the term 'brainrot,' now used to describe a genre of Gen Alpha humor, likely also came from incel circles, which used the expression to describe the perceived decline in intelligence resulting from their lack of social interaction. These terms spread partially because the algorithm thrives on negativity and partially because they confirmed our existing cultural outlooks. Phrases like 'doomer' and 'it's over' spoke to our disconnected reality, while 'brainrot' held a mirror up to our online addictions and 'wagecuck' reflected our growing disenchantment with the American dream. And since apocalyptic statements are good for engagement, the phrases eventually became a part of the zeitgeist, emergently reinforcing our pessimistic points of view. Words are memes, and memes are trends, but all are also ideas. While it's difficult to determine for certain the actual impact of incel vocabulary on our culture, the incels themselves certainly believe they've effectively spread their ideas. On incel sites, longtime truecels use the terms 'Newgen' and 'Tiktokcel' to describe those who only recently joined their forums from short-form video platforms. The Incels Wiki lists the looks-maxxing trend on TikTok as a primary driver of this recent incel influx, meaning that the meme pipeline has had at least some efficacy in making the blackpill more accessible. If incel memes are so dangerous, how were they able to spread so easily? It all comes down to the very blurred line between comedy and authenticity. To most of us, these memes were just funny. We weren't blackpilled by incel language, and we didn't perpetuate them to promote lookism or racism or sexism. Instead, we used them as a form of dark humor, flipping the script on the incel community to ultimately satirize them. When we repurposed the 'Chad versus virgin' meme template, the incels became the butt of the joke. When my friends and I used words like '- maxxing' and 'pilled,' we established a new in- group: the community of young people on social media. The terms were silly jokes to connect over, signaling that we knew something exclusive about popular culture. Since everybody wanted to feel like part of the in- group, the words spread, taking them out of the incels' hands and robbing them of their original power as they simply became 'brainrot' words. I suspect that the vast majority of people sharing the memes probably didn't even know they came from incels. The most disturbing concepts— like calling women 'foids' or Asian people 'currycels'— remained in- group, because these are far too offensive to become mainstream. But for other concepts such as mewing, there was simply no reason to assume the underlying idea would be problematic until you really looked into it. If incel memes are so dangerous, how were they able to spread so easily? It all comes down to the very blurred line between comedy and authenticity. Some time after the serious philosophy was turned into a joke, though, it began to be treated seriously again by some of those out of the loop. At least some of the beauty influencers talking about hunter eyes and interocular distance misinterpreted the ironic context of the lookism words and spread them as genuine beauty standards, which spawned more jokes, leading to more serious reinterpretations. After the jokes about canthal tilts and mewing went viral, we began seeing increases in canthal tilt eyeliner demonstrations and Google searches for 'jaw surgery.' On the one hand, that just made the jokes funnier; on the other, incel ideas about attractiveness became more culturally relevant. Again, how did this happen? Well, it's famously difficult to discern tone on the internet, to the point where there's an adage about it called Poe's law: 'Any sarcastic expression of extreme views can be mistaken for a sincere expression of those views,' and vice versa. Poe's law explains how dangerous ideas spread as memes. If something is meant genuinely, but it is also crazy enough to be interpreted as a joke, people may reward it with 'likes' and other engagement because they find it funny. Meanwhile, if something ironic is interpreted as genuine, people will be offended by it, which then also drives engagement as a form of ragebait. Either way, 'edgy' humor is able to worm its way into the mainstream via the algorithm. Incels themselves often introduce serious topics as jokes, which can normalize their idea until it is revealed in its entirety. You start out laughing at how funny a 'walkpilled cardiomaxxer' meme is, and then all of a sudden your For You page is dominated by incel memes, bringing you closer to the ideology. You can see this in how their language has spread. I think it's pretty clear that the word 'Chad' started out as a humorous archetype, but at a certain point incels began using it as a genuine classification to parallel the 'beta' and 'incel' social tiers. Then those tiers appeared so ridiculous to outsiders that they were able to spread as memes beyond their serious usage. Now we have people using the 'Chad' and 'virgin' characters as if they were stock characters in a new commedia dell'arte. Poe's law has created a dangerous game of hopscotch. We're jumping between irony and reality, but we're not always sure where those lines are. Interpreting words comedically helps the algorithm spread them as memes and trends, but then interpreting them seriously manifests their negative effects. From ALGOSPEAK: How Social Media Is Transforming the Future of Language by Adam Aleksic, to be published by Alfred A. Knopf, a division of Penguin Random House, LLC, on July 15, 2025. Copyright (c) 2025 by Adam Aleksic.
The Verge
3 days ago
- General
- The Verge
Wordpilled slangmaxxing: how incel language infected the mainstream internet — and brought its toxicity with it
This excerpt from Adam Aleksic's Algospeak: How Social Media Is Transforming the Future of Language has been abridged for online publication. The book is out on July 15th. The modern-day incel is entirely an invention of the twenty-first century. Before the internet, lonely men simply didn't have a way to gather and share ideas. That all began to change in 1997, when a Canadian student started a website called Alana's Involuntary Celibacy Project to connect with others over her shared lack of sex. As the name implies, the site wasn't a place for just straight men; rather, it was used by people of any gender or sexual orientation. In subsequent years, that initial 'incel' community then dispersed to several other websites. These were more male dominated and less moderated, meaning that increasingly misogynistic discussion was able to take root. The largest of these forums, 4chan, doubled as a gathering place for right-wing extremists, whose ideas began to fuse with those of the incels. In their world-view, the sexual hierarchy was dominated by an elite group of Chads (highly attractive men), who could rely on their good looks as a form of 'sexual market value' to seduce women at the expense of betas (average men who exchange loyalty to Chads for their romantic leftovers). At the very bottom rung were the incels, who believed they were unable to have sex because of their appearance. Acceptance of the lookism philosophy — known as getting blackpilled — meant adopting very specific slang and ideas. For example, a Chad was understood to always 'mog' (dominate) and 'cuck' (emasculate) a beta, but the beta could attempt to improve their status through 'looksmaxxing' (enhancing their physical appearance). This might take the form of working out (gymmaxxing) or even seeking physical modifications through 'Surgerymaxxing.' With this cynical, deterministic cognitive frame dominating 4chan's discussion boards, the modern 'blackpill' began in earnest. Notably, 4chan didn't have any user accounts. Every poster was anonymous, meaning that the only way to differentiate yourself as an experienced user was to demonstrate a performative proficiency in shared slang. This unique pressure to show a sense of in- group belonging ended up giving us numerous foundational internet words, such as 'troll,' 'dank,' 'shitpost,' and 'rickroll.' Using these words was an important way to show that you weren't a 'normie' on the website. Because they had wide applicability, they eventually spread beyond the site. In the same way, most of the highly specific incel vocabulary was built up by 4chan extremists to match their burgeoning ideology. Words like 'mogging,' 'cucked,' and 'maxxing' became metalinguistic indicators that the anonymous poster was truly a blackpilled member of the community and not some random outsider. You needed to demonstrate a certain level of prerequisite knowledge to truly fit in. Beyond the technological catalyst of 4chan's user interface, incels have long faced a self- imposed social need to adopt new slang to prove their status. Those within the community fight a constant battle to prove their 'purity' as incels and avoid being labeled as 'fakecels' or 'volcels' (voluntary celibates). Even within the deepest echelons of the incel filter bubble, many believe that most of their peers still have potential to 'ascend' to beta status through looksmaxxing, moving location, or accumulating wealth. Only the bottom 1 percent of the population are truecels — incels with unchangeably unattractive features and no hope of ascension. In the online space, these truecels are able to dominate the discussion due to their purer status. Within the incel community itself, language serves the same function as language in a cult: It's a recruitment tool creating an 'us versus them' mentality. Since incel vocabulary is used to mark 'correct' blackpill philosophy, the incel feels alienated from normies— family and friends who don't use the language. Meanwhile, truecel rhetoric pushes recruits to accept more extremist beliefs, since those ideas are associated with higher social status within the community. Those who use the language sound experienced, appearing to understand the ideology well. While extreme, the basic structure of the incel filter bubble mirrors all other filter bubbles online. Those who are further in the in- group are more likely to dominate discourse, creating and spreading words for those on the periphery. As users familiarize themselves with the group vocabulary, they identify more with that group, and more readily adopt language to fit shared social needs. The basic structure of the incel filter bubble mirrors all other filter bubbles online. Those who are further in the in- group are more likely to dominate discourse, creating and spreading words for those on the periphery. I would argue that, if anything, the incel example is very important to understand, for it has probably contributed more to the development of 'modern slang' than any other online community. It's precisely because of their radicalized and insular echo chamber that they've created so much language and have many more avenues to influence the mainstream. It is because of their extreme views that their ideas are so easily spread through memes. We can, in fact, use the spread of incel ideas as a case study to examine how memes carry information across social media platforms. Real incels never had access to algorithmic recommendations, since their ideology was too unpalatable and subject to content moderation. So how did their concepts and language move from website to website until eventually arriving, in diluted form, on our social media feeds? Let's start where the philosophy began in earnest: 4chan. Despite the forum's early importance, it remained a place where incels mixed with normies. The Incels Wiki page for /r9k/, their main discussion board on 4chan, calls it a 'pseudo-incelospherian' space: Although it was a medium 'for some genuine incel discussion,' it was never purely an incel forum, and 'also served as a place for people to pretend to be incel' and troll actual truecels. Seeking a more insular and supportive community in the mid- 2010s, the incel subculture largely turned to Reddit, where subreddits like r/Incels were able to accrue tens of thousands of blackpilled followers. From there, they slowly began pushing their philosophy in other subreddits. Forums like these were fruitful recruiting grounds, but the incels found their greatest success on 'rate me' subreddits, where people would post pictures of themselves and ask for feedback. Here, incels were able to promote a more accessible version of their philosophy by disguising looksmaxxing language as helpful suggestions. Posters were evaluated on pseudoscientific lookism beauty standards like 'interocular distance,' 'canthal tilt,' and 'hunter eyes.' They were encouraged to improve their facial structure through 'mewing' and jaw surgery so that they could 'mog' others. If they were interested in exploring further, the blackpill was waiting around the corner. Even once the incel subreddits were eventually shut down by Reddit, forums like r/RateMe continued to normalize incel jargon, making it easier to both put stock in it and parody it. In the same way that my Discord server jokingly used incel language, jokes about mogging and canthal tilts began to show up in 2021 across Instagram and Twitter, in memes that eventually became viral through TikTok and Instagram Reels. Ironically, the first people to bring looksmaxxing to TikTok appear to have been women, who unknowingly began repurposing incel concepts from the early 'rate me' subreddits. Beauty influencers on #GirlTok would demonstrate how to use canthal tilt to put on eyeliner, or post video filters rating themselves on metrics like forehead size and interocular distance. Eventually, people began picking up on the phrenological absurdity of these ideas and turned them into more memes. The deeper people poked into the underlying philosophy, the more the jokes multiplied, and words like 'pilled' and '- maxxing' were fully trending by late 2023. Most people thought that the concepts were funny and went on to spread them; those who knew the story and were offended by it also helped the terms spread through the ragebait cycle of attention. Once algorithms got involved, the incel terms were amplified by the online Matthew effect: a phenomenon where content that is slightly better at grabbing your attention performs exponentially better on social media. As their memes were recombined into other 'phrasal templates' and caught on as comedic references, they were eventually able to reach mainstream popularity. Many words also spawned their own spin- off memes. Starting in 2021, for example, the term 'sigma' began going viral as an ironic reference to the incel hierarchy of alphas and betas. In this particular joke, a sigma was nominally equal to a Chad, but opted to live outside the normal social structure of their own volition. The phrase started out as a genuinely idolized position within the incelosphere, but was then blown up through memes like the 'Rizzler song,' which contained the lyric 'I just wanna be your sigma.' A lot of subsequent 'brainrot' content focused on similar incel classifications, like an analysis of the power dynamics between dancers in a ' TikTok Rizz Party' or viral 'sigma face tutorials.' By this point, the words were out of the incels' hands. The community never had the opportunity to gather on major social media apps once their subreddits were shut down, and instead had moved to Discord servers or more specific, hard-to-find forums online. There have been past problems with algorithmic filter bubbles leading to extremism: ISIS infamously used YouTube as a recruitment tool in the early 2010s, and the QAnon movement spread in part thanks to Facebook echo chambers. Thankfully, the big platforms had cracked down on more obvious threats by the time incel slang became mainstream. If you look up 'incel' on TikTok, for example, it redirects you to a page warning you that your search term is associated with hateful content. Nevertheless, it's fascinating how far incel humor has reached. One of the most common meme templates on the internet is a crudely drawn comparison of a 'Chad walk versus virgin stride.' In the original version, the characters are labeled like diagrams in a biology textbook, with annotations pointing out why the Chad's behavior mogs the virgin. Another widely shared format contrasts the opinion of a crying loser character with that of a confident Chad. Both templates perpetuate incel ideas about social hierarchies, but to the uninitiated they're simply funny conduits for categorizing ideas. These memes— and many others, from 'Pepe the Frog' to the 'Gigachad'— started on incel- associated 4chan boards before reaching greater popularity on other websites for their easy applicability to everyday situations. By now, we know that the dissemination of incel memes across platforms points to how fringe ideas can become mainstream, and that algorithms can perpetuate dangerous concepts in the name of engagement optimization. The lookism concepts from r/RateMe, including jawline angle, eye distance, and facial symmetry, are eugenics- based talking points that were already regarded as pseudoscientific by the nineteenth century. Now, with beauty influencers making content about those metrics, it feels as if we've reverted to social Darwinist ideas about skull measurement. Phrenological theories barely scratch the surface of how incel memes open the door to eugenics. Since much of the early incel community was heavily influenced by the alt- right community on 4chan, they've adopted a lot of extreme ideas about interracial relationships. According to lookism philosophy, Asian men are considered the least sexually desirable, and many 'truecels' self-identify as 'ricecels' or 'currycels' as reasons for their incel dom. These men point to WMAF (white male/Asian female) relationships as a principal cause of their virginity— objectifying the women in these situations and depriving them of their agency to make their own dating decisions. The term 'brainrot,' now used to describe a genre of Gen Alpha humor, likely also came from incel circles, which used the expression to describe the perceived decline in intelligence resulting from their lack of social interaction. Incel slang is marked by its deeply negative views toward society, and these ideas frequently resonate with younger generations who are similarly pessimistic about the present. In the early 2020s, for instance, the catchphrase 'it's over' began making the rounds as a dejected reaction to an adverse situation. Partially a joke, partially a genuine expression of hopelessness, it was buoyed in popularity by incels, who had been using the phrase since it began making the rounds on 4chan. In her 2024 book, The Age of Magical Overthinking, Amanda Montell identifies the rise of 'doomslang' — dystopian or detached jargon mostly used by younger people. Hyperbolically negative phrases like 'everything sucks' and 'I want to kill myself ' have become shockingly commonplace, and everyday actions like lying in bed on your phone are bleakly described as 'dissociating,' 'doomscrolling,' or 'bedrotting.' This kind of language is especially common among incels, who were using phrases like 'LDAR' ('lay down and rot') before 'bedrotting' ever became a thing. The modern doomslang phenomenon appears to have evolved simultaneously with incel-speak, in some cases even being influenced by the latter. One of the stock characters in the Chad memes, known as the doomer, emerged as a way to voice the (frequently incel) dissociated perspective on 4chan, and eventually spread beyond those origins like all the other 4chan memes. Today, I regularly hear my friends calling each other 'doomers,' as well as using other depressive incel words like 'cope,' 'ropemaxx' (an algospeak replacement for 'commit suicide'), and 'wagecuck' (someone who works a mindless nine- to- five job). Meanwhile, the term 'brainrot,' now used to describe a genre of Gen Alpha humor, likely also came from incel circles, which used the expression to describe the perceived decline in intelligence resulting from their lack of social interaction. These terms spread partially because the algorithm thrives on negativity and partially because they confirmed our existing cultural outlooks. Phrases like 'doomer' and 'it's over' spoke to our disconnected reality, while 'brainrot' held a mirror up to our online addictions and 'wagecuck' reflected our growing disenchantment with the American dream. And since apocalyptic statements are good for engagement, the phrases eventually became a part of the zeitgeist, emergently reinforcing our pessimistic points of view. Words are memes, and memes are trends, but all are also ideas. While it's difficult to determine for certain the actual impact of incel vocabulary on our culture, the incels themselves certainly believe they've effectively spread their ideas. On incel sites, longtime truecels use the terms 'Newgen' and 'Tiktokcel' to describe those who only recently joined their forums from short-form video platforms. The Incels Wiki lists the looks-maxxing trend on TikTok as a primary driver of this recent incel influx, meaning that the meme pipeline has had at least some efficacy in making the blackpill more accessible. If incel memes are so dangerous, how were they able to spread so easily? It all comes down to the very blurred line between comedy and authenticity. To most of us, these memes were just funny. We weren't blackpilled by incel language, and we didn't perpetuate them to promote lookism or racism or sexism. Instead, we used them as a form of dark humor, flipping the script on the incel community to ultimately satirize them. When we repurposed the 'Chad versus virgin' meme template, the incels became the butt of the joke. When my friends and I used words like '- maxxing' and 'pilled,' we established a new in- group: the community of young people on social media. The terms were silly jokes to connect over, signaling that we knew something exclusive about popular culture. Since everybody wanted to feel like part of the in- group, the words spread, taking them out of the incels' hands and robbing them of their original power as they simply became 'brainrot' words. I suspect that the vast majority of people sharing the memes probably didn't even know they came from incels. The most disturbing concepts— like calling women 'foids' or Asian people 'currycels'— remained in- group, because these are far too offensive to become mainstream. But for other concepts such as mewing, there was simply no reason to assume the underlying idea would be problematic until you really looked into it. If incel memes are so dangerous, how were they able to spread so easily? It all comes down to the very blurred line between comedy and authenticity. Some time after the serious philosophy was turned into a joke, though, it began to be treated seriously again by some of those out of the loop. At least some of the beauty influencers talking about hunter eyes and interocular distance misinterpreted the ironic context of the lookism words and spread them as genuine beauty standards, which spawned more jokes, leading to more serious reinterpretations. After the jokes about canthal tilts and mewing went viral, we began seeing increases in canthal tilt eyeliner demonstrations and Google searches for 'jaw surgery.' On the one hand, that just made the jokes funnier; on the other, incel ideas about attractiveness became more culturally relevant. Again, how did this happen? Well, it's famously difficult to discern tone on the internet, to the point where there's an adage about it called Poe's law: 'Any sarcastic expression of extreme views can be mistaken for a sincere expression of those views,' and vice versa. Poe's law explains how dangerous ideas spread as memes. If something is meant genuinely, but it is also crazy enough to be interpreted as a joke, people may reward it with 'likes' and other engagement because they find it funny. Meanwhile, if something ironic is interpreted as genuine, people will be offended by it, which then also drives engagement as a form of ragebait. Either way, 'edgy' humor is able to worm its way into the mainstream via the algorithm. Incels themselves often introduce serious topics as jokes, which can normalize their idea until it is revealed in its entirety. You start out laughing at how funny a 'walkpilled cardiomaxxer' meme is, and then all of a sudden your For You page is dominated by incel memes, bringing you closer to the ideology. You can see this in how their language has spread. I think it's pretty clear that the word 'Chad' started out as a humorous archetype, but at a certain point incels began using it as a genuine classification to parallel the 'beta' and 'incel' social tiers. Then those tiers appeared so ridiculous to outsiders that they were able to spread as memes beyond their serious usage. Now we have people using the 'Chad' and 'virgin' characters as if they were stock characters in a new commedia dell'arte. Poe's law has created a dangerous game of hopscotch. We're jumping between irony and reality, but we're not always sure where those lines are. Interpreting words comedically helps the algorithm spread them as memes and trends, but then interpreting them seriously manifests their negative effects. From ALGOSPEAK: How Social Media Is Transforming the Future of Language by Adam Aleksic, to be published by Alfred A. Knopf, a division of Penguin Random House, LLC, on July 15, 2025. Copyright (c) 2025 by Adam Aleksic.
Daily Mail
08-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
MasterChef star Pete Campbell shares major health update following cancer diagnosis
MasterChef Australia 's Pete Campbell has provided a health update, after revealing his secret cancer battle that saw him exit the show earlier this year. The beloved chef took to Instagram recently to share that he's 'cancer free' following his devastating Hodgkin lymphoma diagnosis. 'CANCER FREE, GNARLY,' the 40-year-old captioned the post, which has received over 17,000 likes. 'Thank you for all the messages and check ins, sorry if I didn't write back, I had cancer.' To celebrate the good news, Pete shared an array of pictures documenting his cancer journey. From A-list scandals and red carpet mishaps to exclusive pictures and viral moments, subscribe to the DailyMail's new showbiz newsletter to stay in the loop. One loved-up snap showed him passionately kissing his wife Alana in a kitchen while wearing a red beanie. Another picture showed Pete in a hospital bed, while one more captured the moment he shaved off his long, signature locks. Also featured in the post were his two daughters and, of course, various cooking snaps. Friends, fans and family of the cook - as well as a few MasterChef personalities - poured into the comments section to congratulate Pete on his recovery. 'Proud of you mate! Onwards and upwards,' wrote judge Andy Allen. 'F*** yeah Pete!!!!!!! Love ya,' added Sav Perera, who also participated in the Back To Win series. 'You're a beast,' declared 2021 winner Justin Narayan. In May, it was revealed that Pete had left the cooking program after being diagnosed with Hodgkin lymphoma. To celebrate the good news, Pete shared an array of pictures documenting his cancer journey After appearing in the first episodes of the show, Pete was suddenly absent from the group of contestants. Judge Andy Allen then revealed the chef had departed the show for 'personal reasons', but did not further disclose Pete's illness or health woes. 'Due to personal reasons, Pete is unable to continue in the competition,' Andy told the group. 'And we wish him nothing but the best.' However, Pete took to Instagram after the episode aired to confirm he was undergoing chemotherapy after being diagnosed with cancer. 'Didn't even get to cook for the judges! But you know what they say… "if you have cancer you should go get chemo,"' he wrote. 'A massive thank you to everyone messaging and checking in, you're all so nice.'
Perth Now
01-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Perth Now
Haim rocker Alana reveals how pre-gig ritual has changed in her 30s
Haim's Alana now has to stretch before every concert because her joints are starting to ache now she's in her 30s. The American rock band - comprised of sisters Alana Haim, Este Haim and Danielle Haim - have built a reputation as a ferocious live band and Alana, 33, has now revealed that her pre-gig ritual has had to change from when they started out as teenagers because she has to limber up to ensure she isn't in pain after coming off stage. Discussing how Haim have no intention of slowing down in the wake of the release of their fourth album I Quit, she said: "It feels like we have so much more to accomplish, this doesn't feel like anything other than a beginning again. 'All of us still feel like we're 16, and nothing gets old. Actually, the only thing I have to do now is stretch before a show. That's new, I've got to give a little stretch, because, the joints…' Haim played a secret set at the Glastonbury Festival last weekend which earned them rave reviews, and they are heading out on their I Quit Tour this September. The If I Could Change Your Mind hitmakers believe their live shows are unparalleled because they still have the mentality of a support band who want to "win the crowd over". In an interview with the July edition of Music Week, singer-and-guitarist Danielle said: "We started our band, playing in LA, opening up for our friends and for the first five years, we just played any gig we could. "We continued to open up for some of our favourite bands and it kind of feels like we've opened up for everyone, but that's it, every time we go on stage, even when we're headlining, we have opener mentality. We always want to win the crowd over. We always want everyone leaving our show feeling, 'wow, you know, Haim gave it their all.' We take it very seriously. We go up on that stage to give our fans the best show ever.' Guitarist-and-vocalist Alana won't let anyone hug her after a concert because she is always drenched in sweat due to the energy she expends playing. She said: "With the I Quit tour, we want people to leave and just feel extremely energised. "We really do give it our all. I mean, we are a puddle of sweat. If anyone tries to hug me after a show, I'm like, 'Please don't. I smell and this is not okay!' 'We're a live band. We love being in the studio, but from the very beginning, we've always considered ourselves a live band. That's where that's where the magic happens for us.'
Scottish Sun
28-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Scottish Sun
American group confirm secret Glastonbury set as they tease fans with big clue
HAIM have finally confirmed they are one of the secret acts at Glastonbury Festival. The American sister trio will be hitting the Park Stage at Worthy Farm tonight at 7.30pm after weeks of speculation. Advertisement 4 HAIM will be appearing on the Park Stage today Credit: Getty 4 The sisters will appear on the Park Stage at 7.30pm Credit: Getty As well as the BBC posting a photograph confirming the news, the sisters – Alana, Este and Danielle – shared a video of them getting ready for the weekend, donning sunglasses and wellingtons. The band has long been considered a glaring omission from the Glastonbury line-up, particularly considering their new album, I Quit, dropped this week. They were also already confirmed to be in the UK in time for the festival, performing a headline show at Margate's Dreamland on Friday. As a result fans had been speculating for weeks that they would make an appearance in some form. Advertisement It was initially believed they were the band 'Patchwork' that will be appearing on the Pyramid Stage at 6.15pm – with the name being the title of a book by novelist Sylvia Haim. However, that is now widely believed to be Pulp in a comeback after more than a decade away from the festival – and nearly 20 years since they were on the Pyramid Stage. Secret Sets have become a Glastonbury staple, and as the festival prepares to take a "fallow" year next year, they are making sure 2025 is one to remember with more than 42 'TBA' slots on their line-up. So far, Lorde opened the Woodsies stage on Friday with a secret set, shutting down the grounds it was on due to the amount of fans descending to the smaller stage. Advertisement Celebrating the launch of her album, Virgin, the New Zealand singer played the record in its entirety to the crowd. Lewis Capaldi also left fans in tears when he was confirmed to be the mysterious "TBA" set on the main Pyramid stage, returning two years since his last performance saw him remove himself from the spotlight completely. Glastonbury opening ceremony branded a flop by disappointed revellers as fireworks display 'dogged by sound issues' Franz Ferdinand couldn't resist playfully jabbing at Lewis's return, with the fellow Scotsmen bringing out "the Original Capaldi" for their set in the shape of Doctor Who Peter Capaldi. Sets have also been forced to change at the last minute – with Deftones announcing that, due to illness, they would be unable to perform on the Other Stage tonight. Advertisement In their place, grime star Skepta was pulled in at the eleventh hour to take to the stage, and will be going on at 9pm, with Ezra Collective slightly extending their set as well to fill the time left behind by Deftones. 4 The girls were initially rumoured to be the band 'Patchwork' Credit: Redferns
