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Yahoo
20-07-2025
- Health
- Yahoo
The 3 Stages Of 'Teen Separation', According To A Psychologist
A clinical psychologist has identified three stages teens go through when 'separating' from their parents – and it's resonating with a lot of people on social media. In a video shared on TikTok, Dr Lucie Hemmen said 'one of the most triggering things about teenagers is their separation process' from their parents, which often happens in a handful of stages (more on that in a moment). First of all, why do teens distance themselves from their parents? Adolescence occurs between the ages of 10 to 19 – it's the period between childhood and adulthood where tweens and teens experience 'rapid physical, cognitive and psychosocial growth', according to the World Health Organisation (WHO). As part of this, teens can begin pushing away from their parents, which adolescent therapist Ashley Hudson said is part of a typical developmental process. 'Teenagers want and subconsciously push for independence. Their biological clock ticks inside of them saying, 'Hey! You've got to figure out this adulting thing, because you are going to be on your own soon',' she explained. This might mean your teen is pushing back on boundaries, engaging in risky behaviours or simply spending more time with friends or romantic interests. This period is all about finding out who they are as a person outside of the family unit – and for parents, it's tough. The child you have nurtured and who might've idolised you for years all of a sudden doesn't want to know. What are the three stages of separation? Dr Hemmen said the first stage you might notice as your teen begins to pull away is disagreements. 'So a lot of times when a kid turns 13 or 14, their parent says: 'Oh my god, everything is an argument',' she explained. During arguments, the key advice for parents is to try and stay calm – as parental aggression is likely to be mirrored with teen aggression. The NHS advises ensuring your body language reflects your willingness to listen, and to give your teenager personal space during an argument. If things get very heated, don't be afraid to take time out. Explain you are going for a walk and will come back again in half an hour. The second stage of teen separation, added Dr Hemmen, is withdrawal. 'They often spend more time in their rooms because they're really craving independence,' she explained. This might also look like spending more time with friends. Again, teens withdrawing is a normal part of their emotional development – they're going off on their own, forming 'their own opinions, identity and values', according to psychologist Dr John Townsend. When this begins to happen, coaching site Reach Out urges parents not to take it personally – instead, keep an eye on your teen while also giving them the space and time to 'handle their own lives' (easier said than done, we know). Of course, sometimes withdrawal can be a red flag, which is why it's important for parents to avoid taking their foot completely off the pedal. If you're worried about your child, don't be afraid to be present, patient and share open-ended and emotionally neutral questions or statements like, 'I've noticed you seem quieter lately. That's totally OK, but I just want you to know I'm here anytime you want to talk'. (You can find more helpful, therapist-approved advice here.) Lastly, stage number three of teen separation is bending the rules and pushing the limits, according to Dr Hemmen. 'Let's face it, there's a spectrum. Some teenagers do this a little bit, some teenagers do it a lot. Obviously it's very triggering when they go way off road,' said Dr Hemmen. 'But the positive intention in that behaviour for teenagers is to explore the world and to think for themselves – and they often learn a lot about boundaries through crossing them and living with the impact of that.' Parents of teens are relating hard In response to the video, one parent wrote: 'I miss my sweet baby boy! Having a teenage boy is like trying to have a relationship with a guy that's not interested.' Their comment clearly resonated with a lot of people, as it had over 400 likes at the time of writing. Another said: 'I'm in stage 3 and I'm learning to walk a fine line of still parenting and letting my daughter grow up.' Making space for a teen's autonomy can clearly pay off in the long run though, as one parent commented: 'I learned that when I didn't push back, but openly encouraged and supported their autonomy and normalised and accepted their priorities and values being different than mine, they really matured.' Hang on in there! Related... Therapist Shares 5 Phrases To Use When Teens 'Talk Back' Martin Lewis Urges Parents Of Teens To Do 1 Thing When They Turn 18 WTF Does 'Crashing Out' Mean When Teens Say It?
Yahoo
21-06-2025
- Yahoo
A 'fight over social media posts' ended with a fatal shooting, Milwaukee police say
Three family members have been charged in connection with the fatal shooting of a 30-year-old woman in Milwaukee. The individuals facing charges are 15-year-old Hezile J. Frison and his sister, and mother, Aaliyah J. Frison and Tara T. Hudson. The victim, Ashley Hudson, was Frison's older sister. Frison is charged with one count of first-degree intentional homicide and could potentially face life in prison if convicted. Aaliyah Frison was charged one count of aggravated battery as party to a crime with use of a dangerous weapon. Hudson is charged with one count of obstructing an officer. The shooting took place June 16 around 11 p.m. on the 300 block of West Vliet Street. A fight "over social media posts" took place between the victim and the suspects before Frison allegedly shot her, according to a criminal complaint. Ashley Hudson was pronounced dead at the scene. In a statement, the Milwaukee Police Department said that they are 'disheartened that a family dispute involving a mother, her daughters and 15-year-old son resulted in this tragic and violent death.' Anyone with information is asked to contact Milwaukee Police at 414-935-7360. Or, to remain anonymous, contact Crime Stoppers at 414-224-Tips or P3 Tips. More: Milwaukee residents alarmed after deadly week on Hampton; efforts to stem violence continue This article originally appeared on Milwaukee Journal Sentinel: Milwaukee woman shot, killed by teen brother in fight, police say
Axios
11-02-2025
- Health
- Axios
Arkansas statehouse week 4 review: School cellphone ban, video mandate
Today closes the fourth week of the 95th General Assembly of the Arkansas Legislature. Why it matters: Lawmakers hash out proposed changes to state law during the regular session. We're keeping an eye out for the most impactful potential changes — particularly in issues like education, health care and how national politics will influence Arkansas' Republican-dominated legislature. Catch up quick: Key takeaways from this week include The Senate approved SB142 which would ban students from using cellphones and other devices during the school day at public schools. The House Education Committee also passed the bill Thursday. The Senate also approved SB59, which seeks to ensure all children at public schools receive free breakfast. HB1204, which would limit the recovery of damages for past necessary medical care, treatment or services to the costs actually paid by or on behalf of a plaintiff, cleared the Senate and will move to Gov. Sarah Huckabee Sanders' desk. The House approved SB3 on Thursday, which would end the state's affirmative action programs. It now advances to the governor's desk. Of note: On Thursday, the House passed HB1180, "The Baby Olivia Bill," which would require public and open-enrollment public charter schools to include a 3-minute video produced by an anti-abortion organization to health and safety courses beginning in the fifth grade. Speaking against the bill, Rep. Ashley Hudson (D-Little Rock), called the video "propaganda." It now moves to the Senate. A few bills from the past week: SB189 would authorize Ivermectin for human use to be sold without a prescription. SJR10 proposes a constitutional amendment to be voted on by the state's electorate to create the Department of Government Efficiency. HB1424 would require state-funded health insurance programs including Medicaid to cover obesity treatments.
