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Is this comet alien tech? ASU Planetarium Director explains
Is this comet alien tech? ASU Planetarium Director explains

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time02-08-2025

  • Science
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Is this comet alien tech? ASU Planetarium Director explains

SAN ANGELO, Texas (Concho Valley Homepage) — On July 1, 2025, an interstellar object named 3I/ATLAS was discovered and on July 17 a paper was co-published by Abraham Loeb from the University of Harvard who theories that it could be alien technology. After a CVHP reporter discovered the paper co-published by Loeb, he reached out to ASU's Planetarium Director Kenneth Carrell for a better understanding of 3I/ATLAS and Loeb's theory. 'This object is quite interesting,' said Carrell. 'It's only the third object we've detected coming into our Solar System from somewhere outside of it, all of which have been discovered since 2017. These objects have likely been passing through our Solar System since it was formed, but we are only now getting to a point where we have telescopes and instruments powerful enough to discover them on a (semi-)regular basis.' What is 3I/ATLAS? 3I/ATLAS is a small comet-like object that was recently discovered reported Carrell. Observations of 3I/ATLAS indicate that its' path is not bound to an orbit around our Sun, and therefore not part of our Solar System and it's just passing through. 3I/ATLAS will come relatively close to Earth but not too close. its closest approach to us is about twice the distance between the Earth and Sun reported Carrell. 'It is a little misleading because all the objects are constantly moving, I believe the image shows the current positions,' said Carrell. All the planets orbit the Sun in a counterclockwise direction, by the time the comet gets close to the Sun, Earth will be on the other side of the Sun. 3I/ATLAS will come relatively close to three planets which are Jupiter, Mars and Venus reported Carrell. Background information on Loeb Loeb is the head of the Galileo Project, which is attempting to detect evidence of technosignatures and UFOs. Loeb has a history of publishing papers or pushing the ideas of alien technology for a few years now. Carrell told the publication that the very first interstellar object to come into our Solar System was 'Oumuamua and Loeb suggested in blogs and published papers that the object was some kind of alien technology (the paper suggested it was a light sail). Loeb theorized this because there were some peculiarities with the path 'Oumuamua took, especially as it left the Solar System. The scientific consensus was that 'Oumuamua was an ordinary asteroid/comet-like object. In 2023, Loeb led an expedition to the Pacific Ocean in an attempt to retrieve fragments of alien technology from a meteor impact that hit in 2014. On the expedition, he found small spheres of material that entirely consistent with normal meteorite fragments but claimed they could be alien technology said Carrell. Carrell shares his thoughts about 3I/ATLAS Carrel explained that there is always the possibility that objects such as 3I/ATLAS are actually some types of alien technology or transportation that either intentionally or unintentionally has made its way to our Solar System. 'However, the much more likely and scientifically sound possibility is that this is some small rocky object that formed around some other star, was flung out by the gravity of the star or one of its planets, and eventually passed through our neck of the woods,' said Carrell. He then said that even though this may not seem as exciting as alien technology, it is still very fascinating, and each of these objects we discover tell us more about our own Solar System, the Milky Way, and the Universe as a whole. 'It is also fascinating that science is often pushed forward by science-fiction,' said Carrell. 'I think the people who say these objects are alien technology may have been influenced by people like Arthur C. Clarke – it is very reminiscent of Rendezvous with Rama.' Copyright 2025 Nexstar Media, Inc. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed. Solve the daily Crossword

5 Common Reasons Grandparents and Parents Miscommunicate—and How to Ease the Tension
5 Common Reasons Grandparents and Parents Miscommunicate—and How to Ease the Tension

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time03-07-2025

  • General
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5 Common Reasons Grandparents and Parents Miscommunicate—and How to Ease the Tension

Generational differences in parenting styles can cause misunderstandings between parents and grandparents When the either or both parties become defensive, conflict usually arises Many of this communication issues can be resolved by approaching the relationships with more compassion and empathyRaising children is a journey that if you're lucky, you can share with your extended family. When grandparents are involved, they often bring added love, support, and wisdom to your child's life. There's just one big problem: Parents and grandparents often have different views on parenting – shaped by the eras in which they were raised – which can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. Here, experts weigh in on the most common communications problems that plague relationships between parents and their kids' grandparents—and how to ease the tension. Rachel Carrell, CEO Koru Kids, a UK-based company that helps parents find reliable childcare, realises that navigating these conversations can be tricky so she recently took to LinkedIn to share her thoughts on some of the most common communication gaps between parents and grandparents while offering insight into how families can approach them with empathy and mutual respect. Carrell tells Parents she was inspired to write the post after noticing just how much parenting norms have shifted over the last few decades, and how these changes can cause real tension, especially between parents and grandparents. "In the 1980s, a 'good' child was often defined as quiet, obedient, and non-disruptive,' she observes. 'Emotions were frequently dismissed as dramatic or naughty, and tools like 'tough love' or physical punishment were still commonplace. In contrast, modern parenting puts a huge emphasis on emotional regulation, mental health, and connection. Many parents now work hard to be trauma-informed, to honor neurodiversity, and to interpret behavior as communication rather than defiance.' 'When we understand where these miscommunications come from, we can move away from defensiveness and towards collaboration,' she continues. 'This is much better for the relationship between the parent and the grandparent and also much better for the children involved.' This one comes up constantly, especially when a grandparent swoops in with advice that they consider well meaning and helpful but that feels more like judgment, says Dr. Cynthia Edwards-Hawver, PsyD. 'For example: Grandma shows up with a big bag of candy after you've finally cut sugar to help with your child's ADHD symptoms,' she says. 'You say something like, 'We're trying something new,' and she responds, 'I'm just trying to help!'' In this instance, grandparents often carry deep pride in how they raised you and struggle to understand why your parenting looks different, explains Dr. Edwards-Hawver. 'So when Grandma offers 'help' it can feel like she's second-guessing the thousands of micro-decisions you've already agonized over,' she continues. 'It's not about the candy, it's about feeling unseen and unsupported.' For older generations, some kids may have been raised to hold back their emotions; expressing them might have been seen as weak or lead to abuse from parents who weren't interested in their mental health. 'This one stings because it hits right at the heart of modern parenting: We're trying to raise emotionally attuned, self-aware humans, not just obedient ones,' explains Dr. Edwards-Hawver. 'You calmly ask your toddler to take a break after a meltdown and grandpa mutters, 'In my day, a good smack would've fixed that.' You hear: 'You're coddling your kid and failing as a parent.'' She explains that grandparents who grew up in a time when emotional expression was discouraged, 'may not understand why validating emotions matters, or that what they call 'soft' is actually emotionally regulated parenting. This clash isn't just about technique, it's about two different nervous systems shaped by two very different eras.' One of the most common miscommunications that Nilou Esmaeilpour, Clinical Director & Registered Clinical Counsellor at Lotus Therapy, observes between parents and grandparents is related to discipline and rules. 'A grandparent may give a toddler biscuits, ice cream, or juice, thinking it's a treat, not knowing the parent is trying to discipline the child,' in relation to an earlier incident of misbehavior. Or the grandparents think the parent is overreacting to an incident that in fact is not aligned with the parents values, and that they are hoping to discourage through a consequence like limiting treats. "In another example, a parent might have a hard and fast 'no screen after dinner,' rule, but a grandparent, not even knowing that they are assisting or rewarding the child, plays Peppa Pig to keep everyone calm while doing dishes,' she illustrates. To the grandparent, the situation might seem innocuous; after all, its just one episode of television while the adults do chores. 'But to the parent, it can seem like an attempt to undermine their authority or flout their well-planned routine,' says Esmaeilpour. Esmaeilpour says there's often a conflict over the kids' sleeping habits or routines, as many modern parents choose to follow strict bedtime rituals, while grandparents may recall simply putting them to bed when they seemed sleepy. Parents' nighttime routines might seem too rigid, though the parents themselves may have created these routines to help their children get more rest, and allow themselves some freedom at the end of the night. 'Grandparents were raising children in an era with fewer facts but more experience or practical methods, and they can look at contemporary methods of parenting as excessive or too programmed,' Esmaeilpour explains. 'On the other hand, contemporary parents are saturated with masses of research on children's development, online communities, and pediatric guidelines that shape their behavior and they feel compelled to get it right more often in a culture of criticism.' The grandparents might want the kids to stay up late so they can all spend more time together, not realizing that again, their parents feel undermined or judged when the grandparents question their parenting style. People from older generations who were not necessarily taught how to express their emotions in a healthy way might make passive aggressive remarks to signify their disagreement with a parent's choice—the parent might respond in kind when they feel attacked. Erica R. Turner, LMFT and owner of Rosewater Therapy, says that her rule of thumb for responding to a passive aggressive statement is to take it at face value. 'Don't defensively respond to the subtext. Either directly name the subtext or respond to the actual words the person said. For example, if the grandparent says, 'He doesn't act like that with me,' I would respond with, "Can you explain what you mean by that?' or 'It feels like you're saying I'm doing something wrong. That hurts because I'm doing the best I can, and I need your support.'' Whatever you do, Turner advises not to go into any kind of defense of yourself as a parent – that path is a trap, and a conversation that no one will win. 'The important thing is to find out how the grandparent actually meant the statement, to be clear that it was hurtful, and to not get into a back and forth about whose way of parenting is better,' she says. 'The more you engage with comments about your parenting, the more you send a signal to the grandparent that how you parent is up for debate,' she continues. 'That said, if your parent can offer constructive feedback in a helpful way, then of course you can [choose to] hear them out.' Unless your relationship with your parents is particularly strained or toxic, which might be the case, there's a good chance each party is approaching parenting with love—even when their attempts might be clumsy or awkward. 'I always encourage parents to approach these types of conversations with curiosity, not criticism,' advises Esmaeilpour. 'So if a grandparent is providing extra treats, a parent can say, 'I know you want to treat the kids to a good time, and they love spending time with you,'' instead of scolding the grandparents or making them feel ashamed. To make your parenting choices clear, however, Esmaeilpour says parents might try explaining your reasoning. A script she suggests might look like, 'Recently we've noticed that consuming too much sugar in the evening makes it so much more difficult to get to bed. Would you assist us in saving the treats for earlier in the day?' This rewording takes a situation that is potentially volatile and turns it into a request for to wrok together. Esmaeilpour says that if you're aware that the children are spending a weekend with Grandma, for example, talk about expectations beforehand. 'That might mean sharing a written routine, specifying what foods [aren't allowed], or describing any current behavior strategies used. Don't assume they just know parenting has changed a good deal the last 20–30 years,' she says. Remember that timeouts, emotional well-being, screen guidelines, and even allergy protocols have evolved from even a generation ago, and that its your responsibility to respectfully but firmly outline your parenting style to grandparents who might occasionally step in as caregivers for your kids. It might be a tall order, but giving the adults in these situations the benefit of the doubt even when you are frustrated with what you perceive as their interference, will de-escalate any tension. 'Grandparents grew up with different knowledge,' says Carrell. 'They didn't have Instagram therapists. And [they] didn't grow up in a culture where emotions were taken seriously. Each generation's reference points are different.' That being said, consider the other party's perspective: Grandparents are typically just trying to help in the best way they know how. Meanwhile parents aren't necessarily dismissing or shaming the grandparents parenting style, just making different choices. When you can try to see these interactions as two different generations of parents sharing knowledge, you might be able to communicate more positively in the future. Carrell wants to remind parents that their job of raising children can be challenging and exhausting, whether you're a working or stay-at-home parent or a grandparent who provides occasional childcare. So being hard on yourself or someone else who is trying their best to raise decent humans won't get you anywhere good. 'Take the 3 seconds to say "You're doing a brilliant job" and never underestimate how powerful that kind of encouragement can be,' says Carrell. Both grandparents and parents can share kind words with each other, as a way to diffuse conflict but also as a potent reminder that parenting is hard enough as it is, without butting heads with family members who only want the best for the kids. 'Even a simple 'I'm proud of you' or 'I so appreciate your help' message—not about school pickups or meal plans—goes a long way. Warmth sustains relationships,' advises Carrell. As the parent of the child or children in question, you can't expect the grandparents to simply understand your parenting style, no questions asked. That doesn't mean that parents need to justify their choices to the grandparents, but it does mean being forthright about how you expect your child to be treated while in someone else's care. Maybe that looks like letting the grandparents know that the kids don't respond well to sugar, that their emotional needs are just as important as any physical injuries, and that you won't tolerate your kid being yelled at or berated. If the grandparents can't agree to what seems to you like reasonable expectations, it might be time to reconsider what a relationship with them looks like. 'My biggest piece of advice would be to discuss expectations for how you will spend time together and how you each define the role of the grandparents in the family,' says Turner. 'Don't assume that you're on the same page, and be honest with each other about what you're looking and hoping for. You may not agree at first, but you can start the conversation on the right foot by being transparent.' Read the original article on Parents

Civitas Resources, Inc. Announces Clay Carrell President and Chief Operating Officer
Civitas Resources, Inc. Announces Clay Carrell President and Chief Operating Officer

Business Wire

time07-05-2025

  • Business
  • Business Wire

Civitas Resources, Inc. Announces Clay Carrell President and Chief Operating Officer

DENVER--(BUSINESS WIRE)--Civitas Resources, Inc. (NYSE: CIVI) ('Civitas' or the 'Company') announced that Clay Carrell has joined the Company as President and Chief Operating Officer, effective today. Chris Doyle, Chief Executive Officer, said, 'On behalf of the Board of Directors and the Company, I am excited to welcome Clay to the Civitas team. He brings proven leadership experience, having successfully managed multi-basin development programs and the effective deployment of best practices to safely lower costs and enhance margins. Clay's experience will help ensure that we maximize the value of our quality asset base as we execute our strategic objectives.' Carrell said, 'I am thrilled to join this talented team. There is significant opportunity ahead for Civitas, and I look forward to working together to deliver value for shareholders from our scaled development programs in the Permian and DJ Basins.' Mr. Carrell most recently served as the Executive Vice President & Chief Operating Officer of Southwestern Energy until its merger with Chesapeake Energy. Prior to joining Southwestern Energy, Mr. Carrell served as Executive Vice President and Chief Operating Officer of EP Energy. He joined El Paso Corporation in 2007, where he held various leadership roles and helped establish EP Energy as an independent company before being named Chief Operating Officer in 2012. Mr. Carrell has worked in the energy industry for over 35 years serving in various U.S. and international engineering and management roles at ARCO Oil and Gas Company, Burlington Resources and Peoples Energy Production. Mr. Carrell holds a bachelor's degree in Petroleum Engineering from Texas A&M University. About Civitas Civitas Resources, Inc. is an independent exploration and production company focused on the acquisition, development and production of crude oil and liquids-rich natural gas from its premier assets in the Permian Basin in Texas and New Mexico and the DJ Basin in Colorado. Civitas' proven business model to maximize shareholder returns is focused on four key strategic pillars: generating significant free cash flow, maintaining a premier balance sheet, returning capital to shareholders, and demonstrating ESG leadership.

Peak night to watch the Lyrid Meteor Shower
Peak night to watch the Lyrid Meteor Shower

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time22-04-2025

  • Science
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Peak night to watch the Lyrid Meteor Shower

SAN ANGELO, Texas (Concho Valley Homepage) — Experts say to look toward the East on April 21 around midnight to see the Lyrid Meteor Shower. 'The Lyrids are sort of centered in the constellation of Lyra,' said ASU Planetarium Director Kenneth Carrell. 'Lyra is actually pretty easy to find because the Star Vega is in the constellation of Lyra.' The star Vega is the brightest in the summertime night sky, and can be seen now around 11 p.m. 'You can look over in the east sometime around midnight or so, you should see a fairly bright star start to rise in the constellation of Lyra,' Carrell said. The meteors are from a comet that passes by the Earth about every 400 years. Carrell says that the ASU planetarium will be showing two new shows on campus. Copyright 2025 Nexstar Media, Inc. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.

Bessemer police searching for woman believed to be abducted
Bessemer police searching for woman believed to be abducted

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time28-01-2025

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Bessemer police searching for woman believed to be abducted

BESSEMER, Ala. (WIAT) — Bessemer police are asking for the public's help locating a woman they believe was abducted early Tuesday morning. Police said Jessica Faith Carrell, 38, was last seen around 12:48 a.m. wearing a blue shirt and a camo shirt near Dusty Lane in Bessemer. Carrell is described as 5'7″ and 165 pounds with green eyes and black hair. Police believe Carrell is in danger. The Bessemer Police Department believes Carrell was abducted by 43-year-old Jimmy Aaron Boothe and may be traveling in a black 2010 Honda Accord with a tag reading 7A01840. Anyone with information regarding Carrell's whereabouts is asked to call Bessemer police at 205-425-2411 or 911. Copyright 2025 Nexstar Media, Inc. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.

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