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Daily Record
2 days ago
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'I've been invited to a wedding hours away for the evening reception - is it real?'
Scots love a wedding but it's unclear whether it's insulting or not a big deal to only be invited to the night part There is no denying the fact that Scottish people love a good wedding. From kilts and Ceilidh dancing to rapturous renditions of Runrig's Loch Lomond that will undoubtedly erupt at the end of the night, we know how to celebrate. If you are the one getting married, though, deciding on attendees is tough. Who's coming for the main ceremony? Are kids allowed? And what about that third cousin twice removed your mother really wants you to invite? Perhaps one of the most contentious decisions is who to ask to the evening reception, and whether the guests will perceive this as a snub. This is the situation of one woman who has taken to Mumsnet to ask for some advice. Taking to the platform recently, the woman shared her dilemma, writing: "An old friend had been telling me that I was going to be 'invited to her wedding'. Lovely, would be nice to go. "Invite arrived and it's for the evening reception after dinner. So essentially 8pm - midnight for a boogie. "It's about four hours drive from my house and on a working day. I could stay with my parents so that's not the issue. "[The issue is] do we think an invite to an evening reception is a real wedding invite?" Essentially, the woman is wondering whether to make the long journey to toast her friend's new life with her partner, or to politely decline the invite and not make the effort, because the evening reception doesn't merit it. The replies came in thick and fast with users airing their thoughts and feelings on the move. Some thought the evening invitation was "rude" and thought if the woman went, it would just be "awkward". "Has she kept numbers down for the main part due to money?" one enquired. "It's a big ask to travel four hours for the evening in a work night. I would probably decline." Another commented: "I think evening only invitations are cheeky for people that need to travel. It should just be for local acquaintances. If she actually told you that you were being invited then it's quite rude." A third scribed: "Wedding evening do arrivals are often kind of awkward, although I would go if it was near home and a work colleague or similar. Many of the guests will have been drinking for hours, and they've been there all day so they are all discussing how lovely it all was and there are you arriving sober at 8pm. "No thanks. Send a card, wish her the best, think no more of it." However, others were more accepting, and said they don't have an issue with rocking up to the evening do. "You're only an 'old friend' so that's usually standard for a evening invite," one reasoned. Join the Daily Record WhatsApp community! Get the latest news sent straight to your messages by joining our WhatsApp community today. You'll receive daily updates on breaking news as well as the top headlines across Scotland. No one will be able to see who is signed up and no one can send messages except the Daily Record team. All you have to do is click here if you're on mobile, select 'Join Community' and you're in! If you're on a desktop, simply scan the QR code above with your phone and click 'Join Community'. We also treat our community members to special offers, promotions, and adverts from us and our partners. If you don't like our community, you can check out any time you like. To leave our community click on the name at the top of your screen and choose 'exit group'. If you're curious, you can read our Privacy Notice. "You are an old friend so why do you think you should be invited to the sit down part?" another questioned. "If you don't want to go - don't go. I've never understood the outrage over evening invites." A more neutral user concluded: "I've no issue with evening invites. I think it's lovely to be able to include extra people in your day but if someone said I was invited to their wedding, yes, I would assume the day. "I wouldn't travel far for an evening do, though, or incur extra expenses such as hotel."
CTV News
30-06-2025
- Entertainment
- CTV News
Toe-tapping good time: Cape Breton's KitchenFest! Celebrates Gaelic culture
There were tunes and tapping toes on Monday during a lunchtime ceilidh at the Gaelic College in St. Anne's Bay, N.S., as part of the twelfth annual KitchFest! 'We've come here every year for ten years for the Celtic Colours,' said Jean-Louis Bergeron, who was visiting from Sherbrooke, Que. While Bergeron is a veteran of the well-known Celtic Colours International Festival held every October, this is his first time coming to Cape Breton to experience KitchenFest! – a nine-day event to kick off summer with shows all over the Island. 'The people are very friendly,' said Bergeron. 'The scenery is beautiful and the music is great, so what else can you ask for?' Nova Scotia's former premier Rodney MacDonald is now the CEO of the Gaelic College and heads up KitchenFest! 'There are over 80 shows around Cape Breton Island,' said MacDonald. MacDonald says tourists from all over come to check out the shows. Proof of that could be found in the parking lot Monday, as license plates from all over the U.S. Eastern Seaboard were on display. Proceeds from the festival go into the programs offered at the Gaelic College. 'Any dollars raised through the festival go towards our programs to teach youth, whether it's language, music, dance or craft,' said MacDonald. 'And that's important – it's part of our mandate.' Shirley Hefferon and Ian MacDonald came to Monday's concert from nearby Baddeck, N.S. They said the festival was worth checking out as locals because of its relaxed pace. 'It was great. Good meal, too', Hefferon said. 'We enjoy it, we'll be back,' Ian Macdonald added. 'They're doing a pub night here on Thursday – we'll do that one.' Organizers say more than 90 per cent of performers at KitchenFest! are from Cape Breton and eastern Nova Scotia. 'We're wrapping up on Saturday,' MacDonald said. 'There's a lot of different shows that day. In particular, the Glendale Outdoor Concert. It's a longstanding concert, and I encourage people to check it out.' For more Nova Scotia news, visit our dedicated provincial page
