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Yahoo
18-07-2025
- Entertainment
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The Serious Issue That 'And Just Like That' Is Playing for Laughs Is Generating Controversy
Charlotte York has long been, to me, the least relatable character in the Sex & the City universe—she's privileged, has a lighthearted outlook no matter what and seems to manage family, career and her friends with ease. So I've never been super into her, until the most recent episode of And Just Like That. In season 3, episode 8, she has an unexpected attack of vertigo, an illness that's played for laughs but is no joke, evidenced by the polarized comments about it online. As a vertigo alum myself, I've done a deep dive into the condition. Near the top of the episode, Charlotte is at her gallery, assembling a mattress installation clearly inspired by Tracy Emin's seminal work My Bed, when she bends over and moans softly: 'Kai, may I have your hand? I think my vertigo is back.' 'I didn't think vertigo is real?' the gallery worker responds. 'You know, like Epstein-Barr.' 'Oh, it's a real thing,' Charlotte nods, woozily. 'I had it last year, I had to take to my bed.' Charlotte's condition subsides, then recurs during a long set piece at the gallery, in which Charlotte pratfalls while rushing across the room. Again, when Charlotte explains that she fell due to vertigo, another character looks her dismissively and says 'Is that even a real thing?' Later that same evening, Charlotte is shown entering her home alone, still bent over from the condition, trying to talk to Lisa on her phone. Craig Blankenhorn/HBO Max Granted, vertigo isn't as serious as Charlotte's husband's prostate cancer or Miranda's alcoholism, but online banter calls out the show for its misinformation and insensitivity. In Vulture's comment section, for example, Mediaqueen1985 says she has vertigo, then criticizes the depiction: 'Ugh. More Charlotte as Lucy Ricardo but with vertigo as an excuse. Vertigo usually involves heights, so WTH?' Next, an ear-nose and throat specialist writes 'vertigo isn't a fear of heights, but a room-spinning sensation. Charlotte likely had BPPV, although the depiction was a little…off.' Johnandtara chimes in: 'Nurse here—and I have a few friends in menopause experiencing vertigo, so I think they are throwing it into the mix as a women of a certain age thing.' And finally Nnfowlds opines: 'They sent Charlotte home on her own in a vertigo state? Goofy and irritating.' Reality check—according to the Cleveland Clinic, 'vertigo causes dizziness and makes you feel like you're spinning when you're not. It most commonly occurs when there's an issue with your inner ear. But you can also develop it if you have a condition affecting your brain, like a tumor or stroke. Treatments vary and can include medication, repositioning maneuvers or surgery.' It may or may not involve heights. There are two main types, peripheral and central; peripheral is the common sort. A decade-long study of nearly 1,000 women showed that one type of peripheral, BBPV (Benign paroxysmal positional vertigo), is increasingly common in perimenopausal women. Watching the show, I was perplexed by the lack of sympathy given to Charlotte when she's incapacitated, since I have had stress-induced bouts of the condition. Initially, I woke up with the room spinning so profoundly, alone and frightened, that I speed-dialed a friend to come take me to the emergency room. (My condition was diagnosed and I was given anti-nausea medication.) After subsequent attacks, an ENT taught me the Epley Maneuver, a head movement exercise designed to reposition the ear crystals that cause BBPV. It's a recurring condition for me, in the manner of commenter Itcouldbeworse: 'I had it for months, but only when I got up from bed too quickly (luckily.) The room would spin. Even after it stopped happening, I got up very slowly for a long while, in case it had come back. (The first time it had happened, there was no warning.)' Here's the rub: Never once did anyone suggest that I might be fantasizing my illness, or doubting that the condition even exists. Nor would anyone have sent me home, unaccompanied, if I couldn't walk straight. Charlotte deserves better—the poor woman is just regaining her footing, so to speak. She's just been through a recent major health scare with her husband, a massive career responsibility and caretaking a heartbroken daughter and teetotaling friend! A little information about her well-being as well as compassion for her is in order. I'm left with a lingering bad taste about the whole vertigo storyline, maybe best expressed by Hotfoot2020: 'Gross how it was played for laughs. I've noticed people aren't very caring on this show when someone's sick. Things get quippy in no time. UGH. Are there any humans left in the writers' room or is this all the work of a Temu bot?' I Have a Major Theory About 'And Just Like That' Season 3—and OG 'Sex and the City' Fans Are Gonna Love it Solve the daily Crossword
Yahoo
18-07-2025
- General
- Yahoo
Anniversary Flowers: What to Give at One, Five, or Ten Years and Beyond
Anniversary Flowers: What to Give at One, Five, or Ten Years and Beyond originally appeared on Dengarden. You're probably familiar with the traditional wedding anniversary gifts — first anniversary for paper, all the way to 25th for silver, etc. — but did you know that each year has a designated flower as well? So if you didn't order that hand-engraved wood cutting board with your monogram (fifth anniversary) six weeks ago, a trip to the florist will suffice for a thoughtful and powerfully symbolic token of your devotion. We've rounded up all of the anniversary flowers, their symbolism, and how to create the perfect arrangement. Happy anniversary! 1st Anniversary: Carnation Charlotte York may consider them filler flowers, but carnations symbolize a range of emotions from love to fascination and distinction. Their delicate beauty is in perfect step with the passion and admiration seen in new love. If you want to further personalize your bouquet, consider the meaning behind different colors: Dark red symbolizes deep love, a lighter red shows admiration, pink is for gratitude, and white signifies purity and good luck. 2nd Anniversary: Cosmos Cosmos flowers are known for their flat, symmetrical petals and consistent growth pattern. It is this perfection that inspired its name, reflecting the flora's harmony with the universe. They also represent peace and tranquility, and in the Victorian Era, joy in relationships. The perfect harmony of the cosmos shows how couples fall into step with one another by their second year. For colors, red cosmos represent love and passion, and white recognizes faithfulness. 3rd Anniversary: Sunflower As their sunny name suggests, sunflowers represent happiness, positivity, and loyalty. Their sturdy stems represent the strength and resilience that gets married couples to their third year. In some cultures, sunflowers are also associated with good luck and abundance — which never hurts in a marriage. 4th Anniversary: Geranium or Hydrangea While the romance is still going strong by year four, marriage has grown into an unbreakable friendship. Geraniums are known to symbolize friendship, happiness, and good health. Red blooms, in particular, represent deep love, passion, and romantic feelings. The fourth year has a second option, as well, in the hydrangea, which represents heartfelt emotions, understanding, and quiet gratitude. This delves deeper into the varying colors. Pink represents love, blue for deep understanding and sincerity, white for purity and abundance, and purple for gratitude. 5th Anniversary: Daisy Congratulations on celebrating half of a decade! The daisy recognizes the camaraderie and friendship that comes with a true partnership. They also represent cheerfulness and joy, and if you're in need of a change in pace, new beginnings. 6th Anniversary: Calla Lily Known for their sculptural form, Calla Lilies represent beauty and luxury, so they are best paired with a special gift like a sophisticated piece of jewelry. They also symbolize faithfulness and marital bliss, the perfect themes to mark six years. Most commonly white, they signify purity, but other colors offer themes like joy/gratitude (yellow), admiration (pink), and intense passion (red). 7th Anniversary: Freesia A popular wedding flower, freesias are the perfect ornate bloom to celebrate seven years. The antithesis of the 'seven year itch,' these fragrant and delicate florals represent friendship, trust, and thoughtfulness. 8th Anniversary: Clematis or Lilac Known for their fragrant purple petals, lilacs bring a touch of nostalgia that reminds couples how their love began and how far it has come. Another option for year eight, clematis flowers symbolize affection, love, beauty, elegance, transformation, and spiritual growth. Combine the two for a powerful purple arrangement that celebrates how much your relationship has grown and solidified in eight years. 9th Anniversary: Bird of Paradise The exotic bird of paradise flower symbolizes a vibrant, dynamic relationship, still alive with adventure and happiness after nearly a decade. As its name suggests, the flower signifies joy, paradise, and freedom. 10th Anniversary: Daffodil For couples celebrating a full decade together, the daffodil symbolizes the hope and resilience of early spring. Acknowledge 10 years of love with this symbol of strength and the promise of continued renewal. 11th Anniversary: Morning Glory Representing the beauty of each new dawn, the morning glory and its hardy vine are the perfect symbol for a new decade of partnership. It symbolizes love and affection, new beginnings, and seizing the moment. 12th Anniversary: Peony These full spring flowers are as abundant as their petals, representing romance, prosperity, and good fortune. This popular bridal bouquet flower is frequently associated with love and marriage, the perfect choice for a dozen years together. 13th Anniversary: Chrysanthemum A fall favorite, mums are often associated with joy, optimism, and longevity. Gift them in a bouquet or as a potted flower that can be planted, cultivated, and return each year to symbolize your unbreakable union. 14th Anniversary: Dahlia Colorful, happy, and synonymous with spring, the dahlia symbolizes elegance, inner strength, creativity, and positive change. They are often associated with a lasting romantic bond. Show your commitment with a colorful bouquet that represents the diverse fabric of your lives together. 15th Anniversary: Rose For 15 years, enter the rose, the quintessential flower of romance. Symbolizing passion, enduring love, and commitment, roses celebrate this milestone with elegance and emotional richness. Opt for red (love and passion) or pink (admiration and appreciation) or both, to express your devotion. 20th Anniversary: Aster After two decades, these star-shaped blooms celebrate a love that has endured the test of time, shining with dedication and mature love. Asters symbolize wisdom, faith, and love, the perfect companion to the traditional gift of China. 25th Anniversary: Iris Symbolizing admiration, royalty and valor, the iris offers a powerful, regal connotation to mark a quarter of a century. These long-lasting couples have officially established their kingdoms, representing a relationship of courage, respect, and deep love. 30th Anniversary: Lily The lily's refined beauty is the perfect symbol for the grace and resilience developed in a marriage that has weathered many seasons. Choose a mix of white (purity and innocence), red (love and passion), and pink (admiration and abundance). 40th Anniversary: Gladiolus At 40 years, couples have truly weathered every challenge. Named after the Latin word for sword, gladioli reflect a love that is strong, noble, and full of lasting devotion. 50th Anniversary: Yellow Rose and Violet For half a century, it is only fitting that this milestone has two flowers: the yellow rose and violet. Together, these blooms symbolize the perfect balance of passion and partnership, with yellow roses representing joy and friendship and violets signifying humility and Flowers: What to Give at One, Five, or Ten Years and Beyond first appeared on Dengarden on Jul 18, 2025 This story was originally reported by Dengarden on Jul 18, 2025, where it first appeared. Solve the daily Crossword
Daily Mail
12-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
EXCLUSIVE The REAL damage you are doing if you walk around your home with shoes on like Carrie Bradshaw
In a recent episode of And Just Like That, Carrie Bradshaw found herself at the center of a hotly debated controversy: do shoes belong indoors? Carrie's introduction to the issue came when the downstairs neighbor at her Gramercy Park apartment in New York complained about the noise of her infamous Manolo Blahniks on the hardwood floor. But courtesy for neighbors aside, a large subsect of people would criticize Carrie's shoes in the home for an entirely different reason. It's a germaphobe's nightmare. Even Carrie's friend Charlotte York pointed out that going barefoot in the home, or at least wearing house slippers, is far more sanitary. But there's no reason to take a fictional character's word for it, doctors and cleaning experts agree that a no-shoe household is the best way to go. According to Brandon Pleshek, an internet personality, janitor, and self-proclaimed 'clean freak', Carrie's neighbor might just be right, for all of the wrong reasons. He told Daily Mail: 'Wearing shoes inside your home can track in a surprising amount of dirt, bacteria, and outdoor grime. 'Everything from pesticides to E. coli has been found on the soles of shoes.' Especially if you're walking on the streets of Manhattan like Carrie Bradshaw herself, dirt and germ build up can settle on your floors and expose you to all manner of illnesses. According to Cleveland Clinic, most shoes have millions of bacteria on them. If they are worn inside, that bacteria can live on your floors for days. Common shoe germs can cause diarrhea, colitis, and even life-threatening infections. Pleshek recommended that guests take their shoes off too. In another famous episode of Sex and the City, Carrie was forced to take her shoes off at a friend's house where someone else then walked away with her $500 footwear. But, that may just be a risk worth taking from a cleanliness standpoint. 'Asking guests to remove their shoes helps keep floors cleaner, especially carpets and rugs that trap dirt and allergens,' Pleshek said. 'Most people are understanding once they know it's about keeping your space clean.' Experts say that dirty shoes track in more than just bacteria. Lead is commonly found on the soles. The heavy metal can affect the brain, nerves, and vital organs, especially in babies and young children. Lead can be found in old buildings with lead based paint. The paint slowly chips off overtime and becomes dust. Dr. Daniel Sullivan, an internal medicine physician, said: 'You can walk through this dust without knowing it and bring it into your house on your shoes. 'The dust can easily make its way into a child's mouth if they're playing on the floor.' Seasonal allergens like grass and pollen can be tracked in on shoes as well. If you notice your allergy symptoms are especially bad despite tactics to fight them, that could be why. If you, like Carrie Bradshaw, must take shoes into your home, Pleshek said that a doormat is a great 'first line of defense'. 'Having one outside and another inside can help cut down on how much dirt and debris makes it through the door,' he said. 'Just make sure they're large enough to actually wipe your feet on and clean them regularly so they don't end up doing more harm than good.' Having a designated pair of house slippers or shoes is also a good option for maintaining cleanliness indoors. Pleshek said they prevent wear and tear on hardwood floors and protect your feet. While keeping outdoor shoes off outside is the best way to maintain a clean environment, unfortunately for Carrie's neighbor there is an argument to be made for sporting footwear in the house. According to Time, going barefoot on hard floors can be bad for your feet. Unlike carpet, they don't allow for any padding or shock absorption. That kind of repetitive pressure on the soles can lead to serious health issues. Metatarsalgia, for example, is inflammation that causes pain on the bottom of the foot, and can even migrate to the hips, knees, and back. There's also an increased risk of stubbing, scraping, or tripping in your home while barefoot which if done repeatedly can take a toll. According to podiatric surgeon Dr. Nicole Brouyette, not just any Manolos, Jimmy Choos, or Louboutins will do for indoor footwear. Not only that, but stilettoes like Carrie's can cause severe damage to hardwood floors. It can create dents, scuffs, and scratches and even cause damage to the heels themselves. Unlike Carrie's famous high heels, shoes worn in the house should be sturdy and supportive with a spacious fit. Designating house shoes and outdoor shoes can be a simple way to get the best of both worlds. Unfortunately, Carrie didn't see it that way when her neighbor passive-aggressively gifted her a pair of slippers, but she did agree to put down some rugs.
Daily Mail
27-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
And Just Like That star admits to NEVER watching an episode of Sex and the City before audition
And Just Like That star Cathy Ang never watched an episode of Sex and the City before she was cast as Kristin Davis ' onscreen daughter Lily York Goldenblatt in 2021. Outraged, the 60-year-old Emmy nominee asked the 29-year-old NYU grad on her podcast Are You a Charlotte on Tuesday if she told her or the other executive producers about that at the time. 'Am I gonna make you cry already?' Cathy asked Kristin. 'I kind of grew up in a more conservative environment where, like, my parents would not have been comfortable with me watching the show, of course. I really wish my mom had watched this show. You know, there's so many things that I feel like, actually, I think my mom is a Charlotte, you know, and there's many ways where I feel like she could have found, like, more freedom in her life.' Ang continued: 'Anyway, it doesn't matter, but I didn't get to watch the show. And then watching the show, actually, after already being cast, I was like, "Holy guacamole!" But just like so kind of taken aback by the world that I was about to enter. And that probably would have freaked me out [at a younger age].' The Chinese-Filipino-American actress-singer previously told Cosmopolitan in 2021 that she actually first watched the movies Sex and the City (2008) and Sex and the City 2 (2010), and once she got the role she 'binged the show in like a week.' 'I think if I had watched it as a teen, I wouldn't have understood as many of the problems they ran into, because I was just a little bit unaware,' Cathy admitted. 'So I appreciated that I waited because it would have felt more foreign to me before, but now I could relate to these characters.' Davis told Ang that her self-taped audition during the COVID-19 pandemic was 'super brilliant' because of her prowess on the piano, which 'impressed' showrunner Michael Patrick King. The Iowa-born, Cali-raised brunette's character Lily should technically be 21 years old considering Charlotte and Harry (Evan Handler) adopted her as a baby in 2004 following the emotional Sex and the City series finale. The art dealer and divorce attorney's biological, non-binary child Rose aka 'Rock' (played by 15-year-old Alexa Swinton) should technically be 17 years older considering she was born in 2008 during the first SATC film. There are fan theories that the hot-tempered teen is secretly the franchise's villain considering she stole Carrie Bradshaw's (Sarah Jessica Parker) cell phone before she was stood up at the altar by Mr. Big (Chris Noth), who was desperately trying to call her. And Lily's piano recital in the And Just Like That series premiere kept Carrie from Big on the night he suffered a fatal heart attack on a Peloton bike at their lavish Manhattan apartment. 'The show has opened up like so many opportunities for me,' Cathy gushed. 'It was also strange that like I would ever be recognized. I went to a Bachelorette party in Texas and I gotta say I got recognized like three times down one street and it was really exciting to be a part of something that brings so many people joy.' The Chinese-Filipino-American actress-singer previously told Cosmopolitan in 2021 that she actually first watched the movies Sex and the City (2008) and Sex and the City 2 (2010), and once she got the role she 'binged the show in like a week' The art dealer and divorce attorney's biological, non-binary child Rose aka 'Rock' (played by 15-year-old Alexa Swinton) should technically be 17 years older considering she was born in 2008 during the first SATC film There are fan theories that the hot-tempered teen is secretly the franchise's villain considering she stole Carrie Bradshaw's (Sarah Jessica Parker) cell phone before she was stood up at the altar by Mr. Big (Chris Noth), who was desperately trying to call her And Lily's piano recital in the And Just Like That series premiere kept Carrie from Big on the night he suffered a fatal heart attack on a Peloton bike at their lavish Manhattan apartment Cathy gushed: 'It was also strange that like I would ever be recognized. I went to a Bachelorette party in Texas and I gotta say I got recognized like three times down one street and it was really exciting to be a part of something that brings so many people joy' That's arguable considering most SATC fans hate watch the dismally-reviewed continuation due to their devotion to Darren Star's small-screen adaptation of Candace Bushnell's newspaper column and 1996 book anthology, which aired for six seasons on HBO spanning 1998-2004 Catch more of Ang as Lily in the 12-episode third season of And Just Like That, which airs Thursdays on Max That's arguable considering most SATC fans hate watch the dismally-reviewed continuation due to their devotion to Darren Star's small-screen adaptation of Candace Bushnell's newspaper column and 1996 book anthology, which aired for six seasons on HBO spanning 1998-2004. The Emmy-winning series borrowed heavily from its predecessor about four female friends living in a big city - NBC sitcom The Golden Girls (1985-1992) - even copying the character archetypes of a funny one, a smart one, a naïve one, and a slut.
NDTV
17-06-2025
- Entertainment
- NDTV
Dating Fatigue Is Real, But Is Going Back To An Ex Okay?
Charlotte York, the ever-prim and proper fictional character from Sex and the City, is relatable for many reasons. She's poised, smart, beautiful, and chasing her prince charming in the chaos of a metro city like New York. And while New Delhi is no New York, dating in any city is tough-no matter how different the dating scene might be. So, after multiple failed first dates, when she had a mental breakdown and said, "I've been dating since I was fifteen. I am exhausted, where is he?", many people related to the character. In today's world, where finding a match is just a swipe away, dating can be tiring. You can get multiple matches, talking stages, and hundreds of "what's your favourite colour?" questions later, if you're still not able to find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, it can get exhausting. We can all have breakdowns like Charlotte. Gen Z Too A 2024 data set shows that 79% of Gen Z faces dating app burnout. But if that's the case, should you take your phone out and dial that person from the trash can? I mean, your block list? Tempting, isn't it? If you're here, chances are that you might be thinking about it too. We all might have different answers to it. Some might say that the person is your ex for a reason, while others might not agree that much. So, if you too watched Materialists, and right before the ending you wondered if you should also call up your ex or hope to 'accidentally' bump into them (hopefully not Joe Goldberg from You style), you're not alone. Spoilers Ahead: When Lucy (played by Dakota Johnson) picked John (Chris Evans) in the end, many of us couldn't help but wonder - in a world where dating is becoming so hard and settling down seems to be what most people are doing, is it really time to consider whether you still have some leftover flames with your ex? Is there a right time to revisit old love? Or, more importantly, should you? 'The Microwave Love' Getting back with an ex isn't as rare as we'd like to think. Love, after all, has a strange pull-memories, comfort, familiarity. Sometimes, the past feels easier than the uncertain present. A four-year-old Reddit thread asked, "Has anyone gotten back with an ex-and how's it going?" The replies were a mix of happily-ever-afters and cautionary tales. Some rekindled romances ended in weddings, while others proved that not all stories deserve sequels. Let's have a look at some of them: Radhika Mohta, a matchmaker and relationship coach from Indore, Madhya Pradesh, says it is pretty human for people to want to go back to their ex. "This happens for various reasons, especially when people are on the verge of finding someone new, and they feel vulnerable-they end up running back to their exes," she adds. She also says that during events of happiness or sadness, like a birthday or New Year's, she has seen couples getting back together. Getting back with the ex is a phenomenon that's fairly common across all generations, but it is more often observed in younger generations in India-like Gen Z and millennials, especially Gen Z-who have a tendency to fall into microwave love: a reference to romantic relationships that heat up quickly and cool down just as fast. Unlike traditional relationships, these breakups aren't seen as a definitive ending but rather as part of a continuous cycle. Even though we don't have specific data for India, a study published in Medical News Today in 2023 shows that 60% of young adults in the US admitted to having at least one on-off relationship. When Can You Get Back With Your Ex? "The ex is the ex for a reason," Radhika says. According to her, getting back with an ex is usually a bad idea. However, one can consider it seriously if they believe that the person has truly changed and evolved for the better-and that the problems that caused the breakup are actually resolvable. She does believe that such changes are very rare, and humans, generally, don't change their nature drastically. "There's a very little chance that people change so much that the root cause of their breakups is resolved. However, there are chances that people might actually evolve-then you can think of getting back with your ex," she adds. Experts also suggest that if one of the main reasons for the breakup was timing or life circumstances-like getting a big promotion and not having time to dedicate to a relationship, or having to move far for work or study-and you're both now in a better position to prioritise your relationship, then it's okay to give your relationship another chance. Sometimes you meet the right person at the wrong time. And if both of you are now ready to work it through, seriously and honestly, there's a good chance it might work this time. On the flip side, if the breakup involved cheating, emotional abuse, or persistent disrespect, it's a major red flag. In such cases, you might want to reconsider your reconsideration. And, the best way to cut off a relationship? Actually cut it off. Block, delete, mute, disappear. Radhika says people often make timelines in their heads for relationships, like, "If he doesn't call me till my birthday, I'll move on." But when breakups happen, the only real way to move on is to cut people completely out of your life, as much as possible-otherwise, there's a strong chance you'll end up right back with your ex, according to Radhika. But Can We Just Be Friends? Well, we get it. Dating your ex again can be complicated, and in some cases, it's a road to a dead end. But is becoming friends a better idea? As self-destructive as it might sound, sometimes you have to be friends with your ex-maybe because you share a close friend group, have co-parenting responsibilities, or something else entirely. Whether that's a healthy idea or not depends on the situation, says Mumbai-based counselling psychologist Absy Sam. "As a psychologist, I believe it's possible, but only under specific conditions. Both parties must be free of romantic or sexual tension and have no lingering hope of rekindling the relationship. Mutual respect for each other's boundaries is essential," she says. However, she adds that maintaining a friendship can be problematic if it's just a facade to hold on to the past or avoid grieving the end of the relationship. In collectivistic societies, she says, such friendships may also invite societal judgement or gossip, adding further complications. How To Be Friends With An Ex According to experts, like Absy, if both parties genuinely want to maintain a friendship, here's how to try it: Examine your motives: Reflect on why you want to stay friends. Is it a genuine friendship, or are you avoiding letting go? Avoid "friends with benefits" or vague emotional attachments with unspoken expectations. Set clear boundarie s: Define what is and isn't acceptable in the friendship. Respect each other's space and autonomy to keep it healthy. Accept that it may not work: Not every ex is meant to stay in your life as a friend-and that's okay. Some relationships are better left in the past. Grieving and moving on may be more healing than forcing a friendship. So, the next time you think about texting your ex at 1 am while three glasses of wine down - maybe just write it in Notes instead. Or better yet, rewatch Sex and the City and let Charlotte and her friends speak your truth.
