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Spectator
12 hours ago
- Entertainment
- Spectator
What was millennial girl power really about?
The 1990s and the following decade were, it is widely agreed, a bad time to be a girl. Which is strange, because a girl seemed like the best thing you could be then. Certainly better than being a woman. Not as good as being a boy or a man, of course, but since those were out of the question (gender fluidity was still a nascent proposition), you might as well lean into girlhood. For millennial girls like me and Sophie Gilbert (a Pulitzer-nominated staff writer on the Atlantic), this was a confusing period. On the one hand, girls were everywhere. We became teenagers to chants of 'girl power!', and later we got our vision of young adulthood from the Lena Dunham series Girls. 'Girl' was an identity with potential. On the other hand, it's hard to avoid just how porny a lot of the uses of 'girl' were. The Girls Gone Wild softcore DVD series turned young women's drunken lapses into permanent, purchasable shame. The phrase 'girl on girl' comes from pornography, where it denoted lesbian scenes. Gilbert uses it here to refer to the self-loathing and anti-sisterhood this period inculcated. 'Empowerment' was the watchword of the millennial girl, but what exactly was she empowered to be? Primarily to be sexy – as Gilbert lays out in this comprehensive analysis of the era's pop culture. A girl could be anything as long as she was pleasing to a man. And God forbid she do anything so crass as grow up. Good girls stayed young. Gilbert acknowledges that this isn't a simple story of backlash. The teen comedies of the period, for example, really were a step up from the 1980s versions, when even the sainted John Hughes played rape as a punchline. American Pie (1999) was crude but charming, and its makers by their own account were trying to write girls with 'more depth'. But that could still mean 'as shallow as a teaspoon'. The female characters of American Pie are all, as Gilbert points out, porn archetypes: sexy cheerleader, hot nerd, horny exchange student (who ends up a victim of revenge porn before revenge porn had a name, something the film treats as a joke). The girls act as the obstacles between the fratty heroes and their objective: sex. They are the gatekeepers of virginity, 'the ultimate prize for any man worthy of claiming it'. In fashion, statuesque supermodels such as Naomi Campbell and Cindy Crawford were dislodged by the often underage and always underfed waifs. 'Fashion designers grew tired of dealing with the top models, who knew what they were worth and whose fame often overshadowed the clothes. Designers preferred girls.' So did photographers like Terry Richardson, who brought porno chic to high fashion and liked to photograph himself in flagrante with the models. His aesthetic – 'not quite art or porn or fashion photography but a hybrid of all three that kept insisting it was also a big joke' – defined the look (and the moral tone) of the era. Meanwhile, the advances that women had made in the music industry in the early 1990s were abruptly reversed. The punky, confrontational Riot Grrrl movement collapsed under hostile media coverage but lived on when their 'girl power!' slogan was hijacked by the male-svengali-manufactured Spice Girls 'in such a way as to neutralise feminism'. It's worth noting that the Spices ditched their management to successfully and profitably control their own careers, which sounds powerful to me. Nonetheless, Gilbert is right that they represented the renewed dominance of producer-led pop (meaning male-led, because most producers were male). Music channels became a 'gateway to porn. The more sexualised female artists were, the better'. All of which makes it rather surprising that when writing about the porn industry itself in this period, Gilbert steps away from her argument to reassure the reader: 'I'm not interested in kinkshaming, and I'm not remotely opposed to porn.' To which, given all the evidence she arrays in this book, a reasonable person might respond: why not? There's a similar moment of liberal etiquette overwhelming political nous in a chapter on reality TV. Gilbert astutely notes that in these shows, 'exterior womanhood is work' – something constructed through clothes and procedures. But then she argues that this made the genre welcoming to trans women, as though this is an entirely positive feature rather than a vivid illustration of gender identity's misogyny. It's depressing that even now a critic as wide-ranging and incisive as Gilbert can be seen flinching at the acceptable limits of the discourse. In a book that argues convincingly that millennial pop culture conditioned women to 'meticulously present themselves for mass approval', it's a shame to find the author still occasionally contorting herself to avoid upsetting men.
Yahoo
09-05-2025
- Yahoo
19 Bucket-List Mother-Daughter Trips That Will Make You Two Even Closer
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Scroll on for 19 mother-daughter trip ideas in the U.S. and beyond for a getaway that's guaranteed to bring you closer than ever. 28 Life Changing Trips to Add to Your BucketBest For: activity-packed, all-inclusive stays; beach retreats Best Time to Visit: winter to early spring (dry season) Best Time to Save: May to June, September to November (shoulder season) How to Get There: fly into CUN Where to Stay: Hilton Cancun Mar Caribe, El Cielo Private Villa, Marina Vista Retreat I actually took a mother-daughter trip to Cancun this past November to bond with my tween daughter and enjoy some QT. After four days and three nights together on the beach, in the pool and on exciting outdoor excursions, I can say that our relationship felt stronger than ever. Long story short, if you're under the impression that Cancun is nothing more than a Girls Gone Wild spring break destination, you couldn't be more mistaken. It's actually incredibly easy to avoid that vibe and lean into all the natural beauty the region has to offer. Our itinerary included a thrilling ATV ride through a lush jungle (warning: be prepared to encounter tarantulas), a boating trip that featured snorkeling and scuba diving opportunities and, the best (i.e., do-not-miss-it) experience of all: ziplining over and into one of the Yucatan Peninsula's most fascinating geological features—a limestone sinkhole with a practically bottomless pool of water known as a cenote. As for accommodations, there is no shortage of luxury resorts in Cancun, but we stayed at the Hilton Cancun Mar Caribe and couldn't have been happier with our accommodations. Our all-inclusive stay provided direct access to a pristine and blessedly uncrowded beachfront, private pools with sweeping views and the best ceviche I've ever tasted. Let's just say you'd be hard pressed to find a better home base for your Mexican adventure. Check out Cancun Flowers Vineyard and Winery Best For: 21+ Best Time to Visit: summer Best Time to Save: winter How to Get There: fly into SFO and drive 1.5 hours Where to Stay: Harmon Guest House, Montage Healdsburg, , Luxurious Wine Country Retreat Some of the funniest mama-daughter convos come after the vino starts to flow. Giggles aside, wine tasting is such a pleasant activity. In between sips of terroir-driven red, white and rosé, cherish those unfiltered chats and the chance to stare out at beautiful vine-covered scenery. A few of our favorite spots to swirl in Healdsburg include Aperture Cellars, Flowers Vineyards & Winery, Truett Hurst and Quivira Vineyards. We also love Bricoleur Vineyards in the nearby town of Windsor. Executive editor Dara Katz shared that after visiting for a wedding in downtown Healdsburg, she's itching to get back: "The number of incredible restaurants per capita in this wine-country town is just kinda wild. I want to head back with my mom to shop, eat and wine taste." Check out HealdsburgBest For: Disney devotees Best Time to Visit: winter Best Time to Save: summer How to Get There: fly into MCO Where to Stay: The Ritz-Carlton Orlando, Grande Lakes, Tryp by Windham Orlando, Blue Heron Beach Resort Apartment "I grew up in a Disney family," says Catrina Yohay, PureWow Executive Managing Editor, "so Walt Disney World holds a special place in my heart! I love visiting now as an adult with my mom since we can reminisce on vacations past while making new memories—like drinking around the world in Epcot or enjoying some of the fine dining options Disney has to offer." For Disney lovers, it's not a real vacation without screaming on Twilight Zone Tower Of Terror and snapping pics alongside costumed characters. Even if you and your mom disagree on whether or not to wait in the lengthy line for Avatar Flight Of Passage again (about that…do yourself a favor and book Disney Genie+ service, which includes Lightning Lane entry), that's about as much conflict as is likely to go down at the Happiest Place on Earth. Check out Walt Disney WorldBest For: a weekend getaway Best Time to Visit: fall Best Time to Save: winter How to Get There: fly into JFK or LGA Where to Stay: The Standard, East Village, Moxy NYC, Park Slope Rooftop Loft New York City reigns supreme as the ultimate culture mecca with more museums, landmark buildings, parks, Broadway shows and unique pop-up experiences that you could possibly cover in a single trip. That means maximizing your time is key. Get Your Guide allows you to book a VIP pass to skip the line and gain access to the greatest hits in the Big Apple. Because who better to see the Van Gogh exhibit, the Empire State Building and a box-office-smash-hit musical all in the same weekend than your mom? "I still remember the mother-daughter trip I took with my mom to New York City. I was 16, and I still can't believe how much we got in—by foot, no less!" reminisces PureWow editor, Dara Katz. SEO Editor, Marissa Wu, has similar memories: "I did a New York City trip with my mom in eighth grade and we did everything! Walked up (and down) 5th Ave., played the giant piano at FAO Schwartz (RIP), went to Central Park, ate soup dumplings at Joe's Shanghai and, her favorite, everything chocolate at Max Brenner." Check out New York City Lucky-photographer/Getty Images Best For: rest and relaxation Best Time to Visit: winter to early spring (dry season) Best Time to Save: summer (rainy season) How to Get There: fly into MBJ Where to Stay: Excellence Oyster Bay, The Jewel at Dream 36, Soleil Residences Condo I've been to Montego Bay once on my way to Negril and am about to make a second visit for my honeymoon this month. What I can tell you is that the vibes in Jamaica are so overwhelmingly positive, and it might sound like a cliche but it's actually true: Jamaicans are the funniest, friendliest and most welcoming people I have ever met on my travels. If you're looking to share a joyful bonding experience as a mother-daughter duo, I can't think of a better destination. And yes, there are other parts of the island to see, but a stay in Montego Bay ensures minimal time wasted on travel, since it's home to one of the island's international airports. I will be staying at Excellence Oyster Bay with my husband, and while I can't personally vouch for it yet, I can tell you that I was swept away by the resort's gorgeous location, which happens to be right next to the only bioluminescent lagoon in the Caribbean, as well as its Victorian design and luxury accommodations. As for other recommendations, I strongly suggest enjoying a meal at Rick's Cafe where daredevils can jump off a cliff into the turquoise waters of the bay (and less adventurous types can watch the spectacle with margarita in hand). Check out Montego Bay, Jamaica Original photo by Stephanie Maida Best For: activity-packed, all-inclusive stays Best Time to Visit: April and May Best Time to Save: mid-week bookings How to Get There: drive two hours from either NYC airport Where to Stay: Mohonk Mountain House, Tarrytown House Estate, Serene Retreat in Woodstock The Hudson Valley is truly a breath of fresh air for NYC residents looking to escape the hubbub of the Big Apple, and it's also a worthy destination for mother-daughter duos visiting the Empire State. There's natural beauty to behold all over the region, but our favorite place to kick back and enjoy the idyllic scenery is Mohonk Mountain House,—an impressive Victorian castle and Historic National Landmark that sits atop a mountain at the edge of Lake Mohonk, surrounded by forest. In addition to the breathtaking natural beauty of the property's location, the resort offers guests an all-inclusive experience that features enough activities to fill an entire itinerary. There's rock climbing, hiking, horseback riding, swimming and a wide range of seasonal activities to enjoy. The opportunity for mother daughter pampering at the stellar spa should not be missed and special events like the Spring Wellness Weekend, Tulip Festival and Mother's Day weekend set the perfect tone for bonding. Check out the Hudson River ValleyBest For: hikers Best Time to Visit: spring Best Time to Save: winter How to Get There: fly into PHX and drive 2 hours Where to Stay: Casita De Los Santos, The Wilde Resort and Spa, Juniper Ranch Main House The scenery in Sedona is so breathtakingly beautiful that just stepping outside yields scenic reward. But, obviously, hiking around red-rock country is the best way to see all the formations and prettiest views. Since there are trails for every skill level, you won't have to quarrel over the route being too easy or too challenging. To foster an even deeper spiritual connection, pick a path that passes an energy vortex. Says PureWow SEO Editor Marissa Wu, "I went to Sedona last year with my whole family and it was insanely you're feeling adventurous, you have to climb up Cathedral Rock!! It's tricky in some places, but there were tons of amateurs going up and down—you just need a little gumption and you'll be rewarded with a view of the canyon." Check out Sedona Massimo Borchi/Best For: foodies Best Time to Visit: summer Best Time to Save: winter How to Get There: fly into ORD Where to Stay: Viceroy Chicago, Sofitel Chicago Magnificent Mile, Lincoln Park Guest House Are you and your mom big foodies? Why not plan an entire trip around your meals? Chicago has long been known for its hot dogs, beef sandwiches and deep dish pizza, but it's also long solidified its status as a major gourmet capital. Plan your journey one bite at a time through an organized tour or pick a few spots and do a DIY culinary crawl. Maybe even book a cooking class to learn how to make deep dish pizza and bring your newfound skills back home. Check out ChicagoBest For: nature lovers Best Time to Visit: summer Best Time to Save: winter How to Get There: fly into TYS and drive 1 hour Where to Stay: Under Canvas Great Smoky Mountains, Bear Mountain Overlook, Heaven's Edge Cabin You inherited your love of nature from your mama. Nothing recharges you more than sleeping under the stars, waking up to the rising sun and breathing in the fresh mountain air. That said, you'd still appreciate some creature comforts. Glamping means you can commune with nature in Great Smoky Mountain National Park and still have a hot shower and cozy bed. Check out Great Smoky Mountain National Park The Ranch at Rock Creek Best For: aspiring cowboys and guided activities Best Time to Visit: summer Best Time to Save: winter How to Get There: fly into MSO and drive 1.5 hours Where to Stay: The Ranch at Rock Creek, Triple Creek Ranch, Willow Ridge Lodge Whether it's because everyone is binge-watching Yellowstone or because we've all been cooped up in the house for too long, but the idea of a Western-inspired dude ranch vacation just sounds oh-so appealing. Especially since you can go horseback riding, learn to skeet shoot, try out archery, eat real-deal cowboy cuisine, sing campfire songs, fall asleep to the sounds of crickets and let your inner Annie Oakley run wild with your OG ride-or-die. Check out Philipsburg, MontanaBest For: celeb sightings and good weather Best Time to Visit: spring Best Time to Save: winter How to Get There: fly into LAX Where to Stay: Moxy Downtown LA, Rodeo Drive King Bed Apartment, Architectural Wonder Above Sunset Strip Love all the latest Hollywood gossip and seeing stars IRL? Los Angeles is called Tinseltown for good reason. It's one of the few places your odds of seeing a celeb are actually better than not—well, as long as you're in the right places. Kim Kardashian and Kate Upton frequent A-list hotspot Craig's. While everyone from Justin Bieber to Channing Tatum has been spotted hiking Runyon Canyon. For down time and some privacy, there's nothing like a rental in the Hollywood Hills. But if it's celeb-sightings you're after, Pendry West Hollywood isn't just a posh place to stay, it's also popular among the red-carpet crowd. Check out LosBest For: exploring the South Best Time to Visit: summer Best Time to Save: winter How to Get There: fly into MSY Where to Stay: Hotel Monteleone, Modern Studio House, Upscale Apartment on Streetcar New Orleans is such a lively, fun city to visit—namely because its culture is so rich and its Southern charm so irresistible. There are museums aplenty and a culinary scene that can't be missed. Indeed, a food crawl is an absolute must—and be sure to take a couple Po'boys to the banks of the Mississippi River where you can enjoy a scenic steamboat cruise. I highly recommended the immensely popular Natchez jazz cruise (pictured above) for a truly memorable experience that combines picturesque river views with vibrant music and an authentic taste of NOLA culture. CHECK OUT NEW ORLEANS Palm Heights Best For: sun worshippers Best Time to Visit: winter Best Time to Save: fall How to Get There: fly into GCM Where to Stay: Palm Heights, Hampton by Hilton Grand Cayman Seven Mile Beach, Kaibo Kai Hacienda Sometimes it just takes a little natural vitamin D, the ocean and your mama to make all your stress feel like it's many miles away—which it will be when you're sipping pina coladas, eat fresh-caught seafood, sunbathing, snorkeling and posting up in an ocean-view suite at a five-star resort. We'd recommend Palm Heights, a posh and endlessly chic property that's perched on white sands of Seven Mile Beach. Check out Grand Cayman Miraval Resorts Best For: 360 wellness Best Time to Visit: spring Best Time to Save: summer How to Get There: fly into TUS Where to Stay: Miraval Arizona Resort & Spa If you've already done (and loved) the whole spa weekend thing, take your wellness and relationship to the next level with a holistic getaway at Miraval Arizona Resort & Spa that cleanse the mind, body and spirit, expands your horizons and deepens your connection to one and other. The 400-acre property is a well-being-oriented paradise with serene desert scenery, one-of-a-kind wellness experiences, spa treatments and a robust schedule of daily activities, so you can decide what wellness means to you (and your mom) and tailor your trip accordingly. Check outBest For: peace and quiet Best Time to Visit: winter Best Time to Save: spring How to Get There: fly into RNO and drive 55 minutes Where to Stay: Carnelian Bay Cabin, Beach Retreat and Lodge at Tahoe, Vista Azul Maybe you live far away from your mom and don't get to see each other that often or perhaps you're besties who just love that quality solo time. For duos who want nothing more than each other's undivided attention, hunkering down at a peaceful and cozy cabin in Carnelian Bay is just the ticket. Be sure to keep the place stocked with plenty of food, booze and board games because you can't just call Postmates to pick up any last-minute necessities. Check out Lake Tahoe Thorny Bush Best For: wildlife lovers Best Time to Visit: summer (dry season) Best Time to Save: winter How to Get There: fly into CPT, transfer to HDS and drive 15 minutes Where to Stay: Saseka Tented Camp, Mohlabetsi Lodge, Ubuntu Luxury Villa If your mom has an eye for exploration and a strong desire to peep elephants, giraffes, lions, cheetahs, wildebeests and rhinos in their natural habitat, she'll have no qualms about taking a long-haul flight to Cape Town (and then boarding a small plane to Hoedspruit) to traipse through the bush for a few days. And don't worry about jet lag…it's no match for the excitement of game drives and sundowner G&Ts at Saseka Tented Camp. Plus, there will be plenty of time to unwind in your luxury tent complete with a private deck, outdoor shower and pool. Check out HoedspruitBest For: adventurers Best Time to Visit: spring Best Time to Save: summer How to Get There: fly into MAF and drive 4 hours Where to Stay: Chisos Mountains Lodge, Terlingua Ranch Lodge, Estrella at Willow Mountain Sometimes you just need a few words of encouragement to keep going. And who better to be your hype woman than your mama (and, obvs, you'll do the same for her). Emory Peak is the highest in the Chisos Mountains and Big Bend National Park (which earns our vote as one the most beautiful places to visit in Texas). The trek up to the top isn't easy, but the gorgeous views, the amazing summit selfies, the tales of fortitude you'll be telling for years to come and the fact that you accomplished this epic thing with your mom make it all worth it. Check out Big Bend National ParkBest For: beach bums Best Time to Visit: summer Best Time to Save: winter How to Get There: fly into SAN Where to Stay: Mission Pacific Beach Resort, San Diego Mission Bay Resort, Cardiff Beach Cottage Warm weather all year round, pristine beaches and the (relatively) warm Pacific Ocean—what's not to love about San Diego? The family-friendly attractions are well-known (think: Sea World, the World Famous San Diego Zoo and Belmont Park, to name a few) but this SoCal city also has a ton of other things to offer mom-and-daughter duos. Oceanside, La Jolla and Pacific Beach are favorite spots for enjoying some sand and surf. Torrey Pines State Preserve is a beautiful place to take a hike and admire the scenic ocean views. Plus, there's an excellent food scene, featuring top-notch seafood joints, authentic Mexican spots and all that Little Italy has to offer. (Our favorites in each category include Point Loma Seafoods, Roberto's Taco Shop and Barbusa.) Check out SanBest For: tropical wellness retreat Best Time to Visit: December to March Best Time to Save: May to September How to Get There: fly into PUJ Where to Stay: Zoetry Agua Punta Cana, Live Aqua Beach Resort Punta Cana, Charming Beachfront Apartment Lagoons, waterfalls, forests, crystal clear open waters and loads of adventure await when you pay a visit to Punta Cana—a town in the Dominican Republic that's known for its long stretches of pristine beach that border both the Caribbean Sea and Atlantic Ocean. There's horseback riding, ziplining safaris, snorkeling and plenty of opportunities to just lounge on the beach with a cocktail when you vacay on this beautiful island. When it comes to lodgings for a mother-daughter trip, the Zoetry Agua Punta Cana is our top recommendation, as the luxe property boasts breathtaking ocean views and a ton of wellness-oriented amenities, including top-notch spa treatments and amazing yoga classes, to boot. Check out Punta Cana 17 Amazing Affordable All-Inclusive Resorts Vetted by a Travel Editor


Daily Mail
03-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
R&B star MACY GRAY on doing vodka shots on a rollercoaster with Paris Hilton and sharing a glass with Elton John
My favourite drink as a child was grape soda. We had a lot of family barbecues in Canton, Ohio, and it was always in the refrigerator. I still drink it to this day. My first taste of alcohol was aged 17. I'd just moved to Los Angeles and was at the University of Southern California. The second you get to college all the fraternities and sororities try to recruit you, so they throw parties on the very first weekend. That's where I learned how to put lemon on my wrist, suck it up and take a shot of vodka. I had my first-ever date at around that time with a guy called Pete, who I still know. He took me to a 7-Eleven, we got chips and a bottle of Boone's Farm [a fruit-flavoured wine], which was a horrible, horrible drink, but when it was on offer it was 50 cents, and at that age it's just about being able to say you've been drinking. We had it in the car, made out and he took me home. Don't tell anyone. These days I love a hot water with honey in the evening. It's really calming. When I'm touring I have it with a lemon-ginger tea bag and a shot of coffee in it as a pick-me-up. The most memorable place I've ever had a drink was on a rollercoaster at Six Flags Magic Mountain in LA in 2010. Joe Francis, founder of the adult website Girls Gone Wild, had rented the entire amusement park for a party and invited all these celebrities he didn't know: me, Paris [Hilton] and a bunch of actor dudes. Drinking shots of vodka on a rollercoaster every time we hit a dip was a big mistake because I got really sick. Cointreau makes me feel the most stylish. It's so underrated. I drink it straight or with tea or coffee, Coca-Cola or Sprite. It's excellent in a margarita instead of tequila. The most famous person I shared a glass with is Elton John. He was a big fan of my first album [On How Life Is, released in 1999] and so when he was in Los Angeles he invited me out for dinner. We went to Mr Chow and talked for three hours about everything under the sun. Particularly him coming out of the closet, we talked a lot about that. I do not understand bourbon or gin. They're both bleurgh. No matter how much I try to mix them, they don't taste good. These days I'm not a shot-taker, I'm a sipper, so I'll sit and nurse my drink and I know that the point at which I'm feeling tipsy is when I have to stop. After a few drinks I revert straight to my ghetto side. I'll make up my own rap: 'My name is Macy/ I'm not crazy/ I'm just lazy/ Take me to space-y'. People sing my songs after a few drinks. In fact, people come up and sing my songs to me all the time. At the grocery store, when I walk past, they'll be singing 'I Try'. It happens almost every day. It's an automatic thing we all do and I get it – when I see celebrities out I start singing their songs, too. Recently I saw Usher at a basketball game and I started singing his 'Confessions' to him. If I could have a drink with anyone it would be Game of Thrones star Jason Momoa. He's beautiful, and he'd be so uncomfortable – I'd stare at him the whole time. The best advice anyone ever gave me over a drink was: 'Don't do anything stupid'. I'm afraid I didn't follow it. The drink to toast me at my funeral would be Cointreau. It's all I drink. They'd all raise glasses and say, 'Here's to the sexiest woman we've ever known.' Macy Gray is at Cheltenham Jazz Festival ( on 5 May and Ronnie Scott's on 6-8 May (


Daily Mail
02-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Insiders reveal why Scott Disick is done with love
An insider has revealed that Scott Disick is done with love because he struggles to trust people's true intentions. The source also told that ex Kourtney Kardashian 's relationship with Blink-182 drummer Travis Barker still 'stings'. Scott, 41, and Kourtney, 46, were together for nine years and never married. They co-parent three children - Mason, 15, Penelope, 12, and Reign, 10. The pair first met at Girls Gone Wild creator Joe Francis's house in 2006 but split not long after he was seen with stylist Chloe Bartoli in the South of France in 2015. The pair moved on with other people after their separation, with Kourtney linked to stars including Justin Bieber, but it was her relationship with the drummer that seemed to get under Scott's skin. The Kardashians star started dating Travis in 2020 after a decade of friendship. They went Instagram official in 2021 and got engaged that October in Montecito. A source said: 'Scott's entire life was built around Kourtney, and to an extent still is. 'Seeing Kourtney with Travis will always sting a little bit, but Scott is not able to change anything, and he knows that.' The source continued: '[Scott's] concern is now for their children. He looks at the reality show as a job. He gets paid a massive amount of money to play the role of a family member. 'Scott is done looking for love. If it happens in his life it will come as a complete shock to him. 'He has women who throw themselves at him, but being famous has come at a cost as it's hard to know who wants him for him, or his fame. 'He has casual partners but he won't be putting a ring on any woman's finger.' Scott has been publicly linked to model Bella Banos, 28, former Disney star Bella Thorne, 27, and Sofia Richie, 26.


Daily Mail
01-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
EXCLUSIVE Heartbreaking reason Scott Disick is done with love… as insiders reveal why ex Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker still 'stings'
Ever since Kourtney Kardashian moved on with Travis Barker, Scott Disick hasn't been in a serious relationship with a woman his own age. Now, an insider has told that he's done with love because he struggles to trust the intentions of potential suitors – and because Kourtney's PDA-heavy relationship with her rocker hubby still 'stings.' Scott, 41, and Kourtney, 46, were together for nine years and never married. They co-parent three children - Mason, 15, Penelope, 12, and Reign, 10. Their rollercoaster relationship started after they met at Girls Gone Wild creator Joe Francis' house in 2006, and they split up for good not long after he was spotted canoodling with stylist Chloe Bartoli in the South of France in 2015. The exes moved on with other people after their separation, with Kourtney linked to Justin Bieber, Luka Sabbat, and Younes Bendjima, but her romance with Travis truly seemed to get under Scott's skin. Kourtney started dating Travis in 2020 after a decade of friendship with the Blink-182 drummer. They went Instagram official just after Valentine's Day 2021 and got engaged that October during a wildly romantic trip to Montecito. 'Scott's entire life was built around Kourtney, and to an extent it still is,' the source said. 'Seeing Kourtney with Travis will always sting a little, but Scott is not able to change anything, and he knows that.' The consummate bachelor is forced to see his ex with her new husband as they co-parent and film their Hulu reality show together. 'His concern now is for their children,' the source continued. 'He looks at the reality show as a job. He gets paid a massive amount of money to play the role of a family member.' For the time being he has no plans to date, mostly because he fears women want him for his fame. 'Scott is done looking for love,' the insider said. 'If it happens in his life it will come as a complete shock to him. 'He has women who throw themselves at him, but being famous has come at a cost, as it's hard to know who wants him for him, or for his fame. 'He has casual partners, but he won't be putting a ring on any woman's finger.' The reality star opened up about his love life back in January during an appearance on Khloe Kardashian's Khloe in Wonder Land podcast. 'My last relationship was good, but we were in different places, in different times in our lives,' he said. He did not name the ex, but he has been publicly linked to model Bella Banos, 28, former Disney star Bella Thorne, 27, and his long-term girlfriend Sofia Richie, 26. Scott, who was 16 years her senior, dated Sofia for three years, from September 2017 to August 2020. 'We know I tend to date a little younger than I should,' Scott divulged during the podcast. After Khloe asked if he planned on continuing to date much younger women, he said: 'No, I can't.'