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Time of India
15-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Time of India
EXID Hani opens up on mental health struggles: 'I felt deep depression... wanted to run away'
EXID member turned actress Hani (real name Ahn Hee-yeon) recently appeared on a popular mental health talk show where she bared her soul about her inner struggles. Dressed casually in comfortable trackwear, far from her glamorous stage persona, Hani confessed, "I've been good at sensing others' emotions since childhood. I've always lived by first considering someone else's position and feelings." But then came an unexpected twist that many young Indians can relate to - "Recently, I realized I'm actually someone who's completely oblivious to social cues." This revelation mirrors the internal conflict many Indian youth face between societal expectations and personal desires, especially in our generation where we're constantly trying to read the room while losing ourselves in the process. The Burden of Being in the Spotlight Hani's confession about her career pressures struck a chord that resonates deeply with India's social media generation. "It's a job where you have to show yourself, and what I do matters. Especially after gaining love through fan cams, I felt this overwhelming pressure to meet people's expectations," she shared. by Taboola by Taboola Sponsored Links Sponsored Links Promoted Links Promoted Links You May Like 5 Books Warren Buffett Wants You to Read In 2025 Blinkist: Warren Buffett's Reading List Undo She continued, "I started my entertainment career at such a young age that when my contract ended, I realized I knew nothing about the world. I had lived like a frog in a well." This sentiment echoes what many young Indians experience - whether it's child actors in Bollywood, young cricketers, or even social media influencers who find fame early but struggle with real-world experiences. The pressure to constantly perform and meet expectations is something that transcends cultures. Just like how Indian youth often feel the weight of family expectations in academics or career choices, Hani felt trapped by public expectations of her image. EXID's Hani visits India Love, Marriage, and Life's Unexpected Turns Hani had planned to marry psychiatrist Yang Jae-woong in September last year, but had to postpone due to circumstances involving his medical practice. About this situation, she reflected, "I realized that things happening to me aren't always within my control. I learned that my life doesn't always go according to my will." People around her questioned her choices, asking "Why are you choosing such a thorny path?" But Hani's responded, "I've learned to let go of the desire to control life. It feels like I've been given time to prepare for the things I want to do." Finding Peace Through Ancient Wisdom The most fascinating part of Hani's journey was her decision to seek "mental stability through temple stays, not just domestically but even in India." Her journey to India for spiritual healing comes at a time when Desi youth are exploring Korean culture through K-pop and K-dramas. Expert Insights and Personal Growth The mental health expert on the show provided a sharp analysis: "You're missing the social cues that you really need to catch." Hani admitted, "For the first time, I felt deep depression and thought I couldn't live like this. It was overwhelming. I wanted to run away."
New York Post
10-07-2025
- Business
- New York Post
Hani's bakery delights and boasts a life changing PB&J — the best in the city
The best peanut butter & jelly in town lurks behind a door with the letter 'D' — marking a former Dunkin Donuts that's now Hani's Bakery + Cafe, the city's hottest place for fabulous baked goods and sandwiches. The doorhandle 'D' might stand for delicious or decadent, both of which apply to Hani's, located at 67 Cooper Square. It's the neighborhood's biggest draw since the rotating Astor Place Cube was installed in 1967. Hani's is a labor of love by celebrated former Gramercy Tavern pastry chef Miro Uskokovic and his wife, Bon Appetit senior food editor Shilpa Uskokovic, who took over the space late last year. 8 Miro Uskokovic and his wife Shilpa Uskokovic conceived Hani's and developed its delectable menu together. Mark Weinberg 8 The peanut butter and jelly sandwich 'is the most American thing,' according to Uskokovic, who prides himself on his traditional US menu staples — and grinds the peanuts for it in-house. EMMY PARK 'We debated whether to keep the 'D' and decided it was pretty cute,' Uskokovic chuckled. Uskokovic, who first came to the US from Serbia shortly before 9/11, set out to make his pastries, cookies and other goodies all-American — not influenced by Eastern Europe or France. 'I became known for my American desserts at Gramercy Tavern and other restaurants, and PB and J is the most American thing,' Uskokovic said. Hani's is a simple, ultra-clean space with a few booths and counter chairs, although most customers take their purchases out. Doughnuts, buns, croissants and rolls gleam inside a glass case. A sign lists a rotating lineup of sandwiches. 8 Hani's, located in the east village, takes a space formerly run by Dunkin' Donuts, and the chain's conspicuous 'D' logo is still on the door. EMMY PARK 8 Hani's turkey club sandwich eschews the traditional third slice of bread to pack in plenty of filling, complemented with a chunky pistachio and kale pesto. EMMY PARK 8 A tripple chocolate chunk cookie topped with sea salt from Hani's. They certainly don't skimp with these chunks! EMMY PARK For me, the life-changer was the PB & J. I've eaten the combo in every conceivable form since I was a child, even including a peanut-butter-and-jelly lobster nightmare in Miami. Hani's version, for a mere $6, laughs at all of them. Like the bakery items, it's meant to be 'nostalgic, but artisanal,' Uskokovic said. The single, thick slice of milk bread, which like all baked goods is made in-house, is toasted to a crackling turn. The peanut butter is ground in-house from Bazzini peanuts. Thick raspberry jam was from locally grown fruit. Unless you want to make a mess, I advise attacking the open-face sandwich with a fork and knife. Think comfort food sent to finishing school. It was as satisfyingly full-on tongue and palate as a juicy steak, but more fun with its interplay of creamy peanut butter and sweet jam atop the crusty bread — the summer picnic lunch of my dreams. 8 The bakery counter at Hani's — where hungry customers usually clean them out of stock by 3 p.m., hours before closing. EMMY PARK 8 The interior of Hani's bakery, located at 67 Cooper Square. EMMY PARK 8 A 'deliciously gooey' malted milk-glazed cinnamon bun from Hani's. EMMY PARK The turkey club ($17) needs 15 minutes to assemble, and is worth the wait. It's a skyscraper of a sandwich using two slices of buttery, multigrain bread, rather than the common three. Lightly salty turkey slices share the space between them with lots of crisp bacon, orange and gold tomato slices and pistachio and kale pesto. 'We make the pesto a bit chunky,' Ukoskovic said. The result has a pleasing, tapenade- like texture. Hani's baked confections have a timeless quality that made me forget Cronuts. The best-sellers are the triple-chunk Valrhona chocolate cookie and lusciously moist, malted milk-glazed cinnamon buns. But my choice was raspberry tea cake, a gluten-free number made with almond cake, labneh cream (strained yogurt), Mexican herbs and sugar. The almond flour is made with corn milk drawn from a Brooklyn granary. It's just $6.50, less than you'd spend on a slice of commercial layer cake in a diner. Hani's is open only from 7:30 a.m. daily on Monday through Thursday until 4:30 p.m., although they tend to run out of many items by 3. It's open until 5 p.m. on Friday and Saturday, but Uskokovic said they're adding from 6-10 p.m. on those days. 'There's always a line outside on weekends. We apologize to our neighbors about it and we bribe them with treats,' he laughed.
New York Times
28-06-2025
- Entertainment
- New York Times
Richly Imagined New Historical Fiction
Sing to Me Ever since their exploits were recorded in Homeric Greek, the warriors of the 'Iliad' have been fixtures of our cultural heritage. But in his latest novel, Browner prefers to focus on the unknown lives that were lost on the fringes of the Trojan War, on the damage years of fighting left behind. SING TO ME (Little, Brown, 213 pp., $28) takes place in an apocalyptic landscape of scorched fields and abandoned villages. Its hero is an 11-year-old boy who finds himself alone on the family farm with only a donkey for company. Setting off in search of his father and 6-year-old sister, long overdue after a desperate trek to the markets of the nearby city, Hani heads for 'the road everyone takes before they don't come back.' What he finds at its end is a vast smoldering ruin, abandoned by both its defenders and its attackers — except for one severely wounded Greek. An innocent confronted with unspeakable destruction, Hani struggles to understand what the future holds and what his place in it might look like. 'Now,' he thinks to himself, 'the only combatants left are a dying soldier and a boy with a sling. Is this what people mean when they talk about peace? Maybe peace is just war taking a rest.' The Rarest Fruit The island of Réunion, a French territory off the east coast of Africa, is known for its vanilla. Less well known is the story of the illiterate enslaved boy who figured out how to hand-pollinate vanilla orchids, allowing the wider world to experience a flavor that had been lost since the 16th century, when the Aztec empire was destroyed by the Spanish. Edmond Albius made his discovery in 1841, when he was only 12 years old. It was, as Bélem notes in THE RAREST FRUIT (Europa, 189 pp., $24), just one act in the 'tragicomedy' of a Black child adopted, then exploited, abandoned and finally rescued in adulthood by the white planter whose horticultural knowledge he absorbed without benefit of formal schooling. Told he must be content with toiling as a gardener rather than studying to be a botanist, Edmond 'makes do with what he has and what people deign to give him.' Translated from the French by Hildegarde Serle, Bélem's fictional account of Edmond's experiences is also an ironic portrait of a society in which the official abolition of slavery does little to improve the lives of the formerly enslaved: 'They were running toward freedom as if plowing headlong into a wall, Edmond first among them.' Want all of The Times? Subscribe.
Hype Malaysia
23-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Hype Malaysia
(Video) The Funny Reason Why Local Emcee Hani Fadzil Introduced GOT7's Bambam To Her Husband
Many of our local emcees and hosts have become close acquaintances with the international celebrities they've worked with for events. Radio announcer Hani Fadzil is one of those hosts, and she recently shared an adorable interaction between GOT7 (갓세븐) member Bambam (뱀뱀) and her husband. Last week, Hani flew to Bangkok, Thailand, to host an event featuring GOT7 member Bambam. The emcee revealed that the K-pop idol and his team had personally asked her to host the gig, noting their great chemistry because Hani had hosted several events for Bambam in Malaysia. The event went smoothly, and the 33-year-old received lots of praise for her hosting skills and on-stage interactions with Bambam. However, the most adorable interaction came after the event when Hani officially introduced Bambam to her husband, Faiz. In her Twitter post, she wrote, 'Finally got to officially introduce my husband to Bambam backstage! He was very welcoming, and it felt like we were long-time friends. Thanks, BamBam, for always being so warm and humble. See you next time!'. As it turns out, the meeting was long in planning. It all started in 2023 when Bambam learned about Hani and Faiz's marriage during his concert press conference in Kuala Lumpur. The Thai star even went viral for his humorous reaction. However, from then on, Bambam would bring up Hani's husband every time they met in person. Even during the recent event in Bangkok, the singer joked that he and Faiz would one day become best friends. Many fans and netizens have reacted to Bambam and Faiz's long-awaited meeting, cooing over the interaction. Some quipped that Hani and Bambam had gotten close enough for the emcee to introduce her family to the idol. Others also joked that Hani should worry because Bambam will 'steal' her husband now that they've met. On the other hand, some wished Bambam and Faiz all the best in their growing friendship. It's heartwarming to see Hani and Bambam grow closer over the years, and we hope to see them working together again soon. As for Bambam and Faiz, we also hope they'll become the best of friends. Check out Bambam and Faiz's meeting below and a compilation video of all the times Bambam has mentioned Faiz: Sources: Twitter, TikTok (1)(2) What's your Reaction? +1 0 +1 0 +1 0 +1 0 +1 0 +1 0
The Star
07-06-2025
- Business
- The Star
Money dysmorphia: Thin dough, thick slices?
HANI Mustafa is a hardworking manager at a logistics company in Klang. At just 27, she earns a respectable income nearing five figures; a level of success her peers admire. A devoted daughter to her retired parents, Hani never hesitates to fulfil their needs and wants. But when it comes to herself, Hani is extremely cautious. She worries that even occasional spending could erode her savings, despite having tens of thousands set aside. 'I don't buy those expensive coffees. Too expensive. Shop-ping? Only if it is necessary. I don't think I have a lot to spend. I once bought a watch which cost me about RM500. I felt guilty after that. I feel better whenever I save more money.' Hani may be among a growing number of youth grappling with money dysmorphia – a non-clinical term describing a distorted perception of one's financial situation. It can manifest as feeling financially insecure despite having substantial savings, or conversely, believing one has more money than one actually does. This distortion can lead to anxiety, guilt, underspending, overspending, poor financial decisions, overworking, and even a reduced quality of life. A survey published in the United States by financial company Credit Karma last year revealed that nearly half of young adults report signs of money dysmorphia. Specifically, 43% of Gen Z and 41% of millennials admitted to struggling with financial comparisons and feeling 'behind' in life. In Malaysia, no formal studies have surfaced yet, but the trend appears to resonate locally. Taylor's University Mental Health and Well-being Impact Lab deputy director Dr Hiran Shanake Perera explains that money dysmorphia is rooted in perception. 'Money dysmorphia is an interesting term. I have come across various descriptions of it and it's easy to misunderstand it as some kind of mental disorder caused by worrying about money. But that's not what it is. 'The term refers to a distorted perception of one's financial status. And I want to stress the word 'distorted' here. Being worried about retirement or saving for emergencies – that's not money dysmorphia. That's just being responsible. 'Money dysmorphia is when you feel like you should already be a millionaire at 18, even though your income is typical for someone just starting out in life. Your perception of financial 'normal' becomes skewed.' However, the stress and anxiety it creates can escalate into burnout, self-esteem issues, or relationship conflicts. 'If left unmanaged, it can even lead to spending more on psychological support to undo damage that could've been avoided with proper planning,' Perera says. It is all too common Financial consultant Suraidah Ya'cob says she has met several people exhibiting traits of money dysmorphia in her line of work. Typically between 20 and 40 years old, they come from both urban and rural settings, with varying degrees of worry. 'They are worried about spending their money, that their savings will be depleted even if they spent a bit more on normal things like food, despite having good jobs and more than enough money – even after paying bills – to last throughout the month.' Suraidah, who previously worked for a major bank, notes that some clients are unsure where to place their money and believe even investments will lead to loss. 'Some of them, for example, prefer to rent because they believe buying a house will leave them broke. This is despite the common knowledge that properties like houses tend to appreciate rather than depreciate. 'For some who earn a steady monthly salary, they think they won't have enough to pay for the house later on, despite the likelihood of salary increments.' She adds that some, particularly aged 20 to 35, won't even indulge in a slightly pricier meal once a month. 'If their friends plan a more expensive lunch outing, some will opt out, thinking it'll heavily affect their savings – again, despite having more than enough in their bank accounts.' Yet she empathises. 'To be fair, I was one of those who had that mentality. I used to work for a bank for years, earning a monthly income. That defined what 'stability' meant to me, until I quit and became a financial consultant. 'I was constantly worried during the first few months, wondering if I had enough to spend, despite having enough. It was only after some time in the field that I realised I was earning more than 10 times what I used to make with a fixed income.' The root of the problem Referring to the Credit Karma survey, Perera notes that Gen Z includes those born between 1997 and 2012, with the oldest around 28 and the youngest still in their early teens. 'A large portion of this generation still lives with their parents and is financially dependent. Many are in tertiary education, juggling part-time or freelance work. Only a small segment might have a stable career. And even then, likely with fewer than five years in the workforce. 'Of course, there are exceptions, such as entrepreneurial or tech-savvy individuals with early support. But these are not the norm.' He points to patterns among Gen Z, both in the US and Malaysia: career instability, frequent job-hopping and resistance to traditional workplace structures. 'Sometimes it's framed as a desire for better work-life balance or meaningful work, but it also reflects a lack of long-term financial security or commitment. So it's no surprise many feel insecure, even if they aren't technically struggling.' He says in Malaysia, cultural expectations add pressure, usually seen through a strong sense of familial obligation such as supporting parents financially, giving allowances, or contributing to household expenses, even at the start of one's career. 'Combine that with social pressure to 'look successful', such as owning a car, buying a house, having the latest phone, or throwing extravagant weddings, even those doing well on paper may feel like they're falling behind.' Suraidah adds that many still don't realise that money can be grown, and simply stashing it away won't unlock its potential. 'I believe it's how we were taught about money. Your parents always say 'save, don't invest'. While saving is good, your money won't grow that way. 'When you get your first job, the advice is still the same; save and save. It creates a fear of spending a bit more for something worthwhile, like investments.' 'Many people don't understand the difference between saving and investing. Even if you're earning more than you think, your perception of financial stability remains skewed. You'll always be afraid even when you have enough.' Making cents: Suraidah says that money can be grown and simply stashing it away won't unlock its potential. — IZZRAFIQ ALIAS/The Star New world, new problems Online influencers showcasing wealth only make things worse, Perera says. 'Gen Z spends a significant portion of their day on platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and Snapchat. These platforms are filled with curated displays of luxury designed to impress. 'When you're constantly exposed to this, it's natural to compare yourself – even if it's not real. Over time, this warps your perception of financial 'normal' and fuels inadequacy.' He also notes that inflation, though officially low in Malaysia, doesn't reflect real-world challenges. 'While the official rate hovers around 1.4%, the cost of living – food, rent, transport, utilities – continues rising in urban areas. 'When incomes remain stagnant, these small pressures add up. Add taxes and fees, and it erodes disposable income. So concern over money is understandable.' But the danger lies in the psychological disconnect between income and perceived financial wellbeing. 'That's where money dysmorphia creeps in. Constant exposure to rising expectations and stagnant earnings leads to fear, even when the situation is objectively manageable.' Moolah matters Suraidah says fear of spending often comes from not having a plan or financial goals. 'People are afraid to spend because they don't know what to do with their money. They don't have plans. No goals. 'But if you have a goal – say, buying a house – you'll make it work. You won't fear spending anymore.' She draws from personal experience: Suraidah grew up in a squatter house and upon landing a job after graduation, made plans to buy a house for her parents. 'Despite my financial fears, I decided to buy a house for them. I took on two jobs – one at a bank, one doing consultancy. Alhamdulillah, I saved enough to make it happen.' Buying that house changed her outlook. 'I realised spending money isn't always a loss. I bought a house for my parents. That's something to be proud of, not something to fear. So having a goal is key to a healthy financial mindset.' Perera agrees that financial literacy is the foundation of overcoming money dysmorphia. 'Without basic knowledge about income, spending, saving, and planning, it's easy to fall into distorted thinking.' One strategy he recommends is to map out one's desired lifestyle for the next 10 to 15 years – home, family, travel – and calculate what it would cost. 'Then work backwards to assess your current position. This helps anchor your goals in planning rather than emotion or comparison. 'But keep it realistic. Don't set goals based on what influencers show. Avoid the FOMO [fear of missing out] mindset. Everyone's financial journey is different.'
