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Axios
3 days ago
- Entertainment
- Axios
Axios Miami reporter looks back on six months of concerts
This weekend marks the halfway point of 2025 — wild! — and I've spent a lot of money on concerts. Why it matters: In this economy? When Miami rent requires a salary over six figures? Crazy behavior. But I love live music. And when I'm not prioritizing time with family and friends, I'm likely at a show. I most often go with friends, but I've been known to go alone. The big picture: When I moved back to Miami three and a half years ago, I struggled with what I perceived to be a lack of accessible, low-key shows. I did see Soccer Mommy at Gramps in early 2022 and Lucy Dacus at the Miami Bach Bandshell later that year. Both shows gave me hope. Between the lines: I love that Miami attracts stadium-filler acts and my favorite Latin artists (shoutout to Bad Bunny's 2022 show, and seeing Pitbull and Ricky Martin last year with my brother and sister-in-law!). But I craved those smaller, intimate shows I got used to after living in cities like Washington, D.C. and Austin. Yes, but: Miami's scene has grown recently — and new (ZeyZey) and older (Bandshell, Fillmore) venues alike continue announcing acts that surprise me. So as we hit the midyear mark, I thought it'd be fun to look back at some of my favorite shows I've attended so far this year — and look ahead to the ones I'm most excited for. Leisure, ZeyZey Groovy. Maybe not the best word, but that's what comes to mind when I think back on it. And I got right up to the stage for this one. Tops, ZeyZey Unexpectedly great. I've liked the Montreal band for a bit, but they were so fun to see live. Khruangbin, FPL Solar Amphitheater Seeing them live for the first time with close friends was beautiful. But my goodness, was I annoyed. Miamians need to learn a bit of concert etiquette (Read: Please shut up during the show). Hermanos Gutierrez, The Fillmore Miami Beach Perfect show. Gilsons, Miami Beach Bandshell So fun. I didn't know the Brazilian trio before attending, but went with friends anyway. We danced the night away. The group is now on heavy rotation at home. One regret: I skipped Wilco at the Fillmore. But I'm more upset about missing Waxahatchee, who opened for them. I've seen the band before, but I loved the latest album, "Tigers Blood," and regret not taking the chance to see it performed live. What's next: In June, I'm seeing Vampire Weekend at FPL Amphitheater (with Martin!) and Buscabulla at ZeyZey. I'm also eyeing Yot Club (August), Bandalos Chinos (September) and Saint Motel (October). Bottom line: A concert is always a good idea in my mind — regardless of whether you know the band or not. You may walk away with a new favorite artist.
Yahoo
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Limerence explained: Is it a crush or an obsession? We asked the experts
The term 'limerence" has been around since the 1970s, but it's been gaining traction lately, so if you haven't heard of it yet, you likely will. Although it's easy to think of limerence as a big crush, it's closer to an obsession with feelings of anxiousness and disappointment if the feelings aren't reciprocated. Anyone can experience it, but suffering through limerence can be especially painful for the LGBTQ+ community. With books and movies giving us ample examples of limerence and Lucy Dacus' brand new album featuring the single 'Limerence,' the word seems to have entered the pop culture lexicon, which means it's time to understand what limerence is really all about. To break it all down, we spoke with sex and dating experts who explained what limerence is, why the feelings can be so hard to shake, and what to do if you're struggling with these intense and all-encompassing emotions. - YouTube k.d. lang's "Constant Craving" isn't the only song about this kind of obsessive longing. Lucy Dacus just released her new album Forever is a Feeling, which features the song 'Limerence,' about this specific kind of 'love' that can take over your life. 'If I stay busy, maybe I'll forget how I feel and go on living life as I planned it,' she sings. Limerence is also fairly common to see in media geared toward young adults. Both Snape, who has an unhealthy lifelong fixation on Lily Potter in the Harry Potter franchise, and Bella Swan and Edward Cullen, who become obsessed with each other before they've even spoken to one another in Twilight, are struggling with limerence. Romeo and Juliet's tragic love story can be understood through the lens of limerence since the two teens fall madly and obsessively in love with each other after a single meeting. More recently, Alice Lowe directed and starred in the film Timestalker about a woman who repeatedly falls in love with the same man every time she dies and is reincarnated, despite never having a real relationship with him. And let's not even get started on limerence in lesbian cinema, its practically a subgenre all on its own with films like Notes on a Scandal, The Velvet Vampire, and Eileen all depicting a darker side of these emotions. There are also countless videos on TikTok of people describing their own experience with the feeling of limerence or defining the term for those not in the know. And Limerence by Scarlett Drake is a popular dark romance book that is frequently recommended on BookTok. If you ever covered your walls with posters of an actor or pop star and obsessively learned everything you could about them when you were a teen, you may have been experiencing 'limerence.' First coined in 1979 by American psychologist Dorothy Tennov in her book Love and Limerence: The Experience of Being in Love, limerence is a romantic attachment where someone fixates on another person to the point of obsession. Instead of being in love or having a crush, people dealing with limerence almost 'trick' themselves into falling for someone, bisexual licensed sexologist and relationship therapist Sofie Roos tells PRIDE. You may think about the object of your obsession all of the time, stalk them on social media, fantasize about them in both sexual and mundane situations, imagine your future together, and have trouble sleeping because you are so excited about any little bit of contact you have with them. Being in limerence means riding an emotional rollercoaster full of high highs and low lows. 'You feel the strong feelings you do when being in love with a person, and many times you even get desperate or obsessed with them, but these feelings are instead triggered by your imagination and made up picture of how someone is,' she explains. You can even experience limerence for people you'll never meet or who it would be inappropriate to date, like a celebrity, coworker, or even the partner of a close friend. But when you are experiencing limerence it can feel like "equal parts of elation and despair when they think about or come into contact with the object of their desire,' according to Barbara Rowlandson, a dating coach who works with women who are coming out later in life and is a later-in-life lesbian herself. Oatawa/Shutterstock If the object of your obsessive desire doesn't reciprocate those feelings, or doesn't even know you exist, it can be agonizing. 'The roller coaster of limerence comes with extreme highs and lows,' Rowlandson says. "A client experiencing limerence might report feeling elated when the object of their desire likes their Instagram post or smiles at them in the hallway. But the high quickly fades to despair, knowing they cannot be with the person they are infatuated with.' Robyn Exton, CEO and founder of sapphic dating app HER, agrees, saying that unrequited limerence feels 'heady, torturous, a shortness of breath and a pull from the gut. You can lose your mind and heart every hour when its bad." Exton admits that while limerence is 'hard,' it can also be a beautiful experience. 'It's a lot of feelings to hold all at the same time but ultimately is one of the most powerful human emotions of attraction and desire and heartbreak all in one,' she says. Limerence is a pretty normal part of life, so if it's something you experience, you are not alone. It can even be a net positive if it motivates you to take action and ask someone out when you might not have the courage to otherwise. But it can quickly become toxic because limerents (a term for those experiencing limerence) are fearful of rejection, so when reality hits that you'll never have the relationship you've been dreaming of, it can feel like your whole world is coming crashing down. 'Where it becomes a problem is when it starts to disrupt regular daily functioning,' Rowlandson explains. 'Some folks really lock into that cycle of elation and despair, and it can get to the point where thoughts about their 'crush' become so all-consuming that it negatively impacts important things like sleep, work, or school obligations.' Exton says that at HER, they have noticed that sapphics tend to feel limerence more acutely than other people. 'We think sapphics over index highly for limerence because of our ability to fall hard and fast,' she explains. According to Exton, most LGBTQ+ people can probably relate to limerence because they likely experienced it before they came out as part of their 'sexual awakening.' Growing up with feelings of shame around your sexuality or being forced to hide it because you are queer, means that you may become obsessed with the first person who accepts you after you come out. The limited number of other queer people in the dating pool also can mean a higher probability of idealizing someone and falling into the trap of limerence. And crushing on a straight person who will never return your feelings or attraction is another almost universal experience that can lead to limerence for some LGBTQ+ people. 'That is a special kind of self-torture that only those of us in queer community experience! Didn't k.d. lang wrote a whole album about this? Invincible Summer, one of my faves,' Rowlandson said. But what can you do if limerence becomes a problem in your life? Exton recommends being honest about your feelings and then moving on if they're not reciprocated. 'Sometimes it's best to know if there's something there or in your head. And if not, take a deep breath, meet someone new, and fill your time with distractions,' she says. Rowlandson explains that if you get trapped in 'the vicious cycle of limerence,' where fantasizing about another person is getting in the way of your daily responsibilities, and if this is a pattern you have repeated throughout your life, it might be time to seek therapy. 'Limerence may be something you're engaging in that keeps you safely away from the realm of real, reciprocal relationships,' she says. 'If you're avoiding reality by frequently getting caught up in limerence, there's probably a fear underneath the surface that you should explore with a mental health professional.' Although it's easier said than done, according to Roos, you should try to avoid stalking the object of your obsession on social media, try not to masturbate to their pictures, and redirect yourself when you can't stop thinking and fantasizing about the person. Talking to a trusted friend about your feelings can also help you move on more easily. But Roos says focusing on self improvement and going on dates with new people who may reciprocate your feelings is a great way to get through the limerence you're feeling, 'When it all comes around, you're not really in love, and falling for someone genuinely, even though it can take time to get there when suffering from limerence, is often the best cure.'
Time Out
15-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Time Out
Here's the full lineup for the 2025 Forest Hills Stadium concert series
It was touch and go there for a second whether NYC concertgoers would get yet another season of outdoor shows at Forest Hills Stadium in Queens, but once the bureaucracy of it all calmed down, we were happily left with the return of one of New York's best al fresco concert venues as well as a killer lineup of musical acts for the season. Taking the tennis court-turned-main stage this summer and fall are big-name acts like Mumford & Sons, Alabama Shakes, Phish, The Black Keys, Pulp and Leon Bridges, among others. The stadium will also play home to the returning All Things Go Music Festival from September 26 through 28, with high-profile performers like DOECHII, Lucy Dacus, Rachel Chinouriri, Djo and Lola Young on the docket. First built in 1923 as the home of the U.S. Open tennis tournament, Forest Hills stadium started hosting concerts back in the 1960s, welcoming some of music's most iconic figures, from Bob Dylan to Frank Sinatra to Barbra Streisand, to name a few. And this year's performers will no doubt continue that illustrious history. Below, find the full schedule for the 2025 performances at Forest Hills Stadium: Saturday, May 31: Bloc Party Saturday, June 21: Dr. Dog Tuesday, July 22: Phish Wednesday, July 23: Phish Friday, August 1: King Gizzard & the Lizard Wizard with the Orchestra of St. Luke's Saturday, August 2: King Gizzard & the Lizard Wizard with the Orchestra of St. Luke's Friday, August 8: Mumford & Sons with Lucius Saturday, August 9: Mumford & Sons with Lucius Wednesday, August 13: The Black Keys with Gary Clark Jr. Thursday, September 4: Leon Bridges with Charley Crockett, Reyna Tropical and Honky Tonkin' in Queens Friday, September 5: Above & Beyond Thursday, September 11: Pulp Wednesday, September 17: Alabama Shakes with El Michels Affair Friday, September 26: All Things Go Music Festival (Lucy Dacus, Djo, Gigi Perez, Rachel Chinouriri, Maude Latour, The Aces, Sarah Kinsley and Goldie Boutilier) Saturday, September 27: All Things Go Music Festival (DOECHII, Remi Wolf, Lola Young, Griff, Peach PRC, MICHELLE and Alemeda) Sunday, September 28: All Things Go Music Festival (Clairo, The Marias, The Last Dinner Party, Paris Paloma, G Flip, Joy Oladokun and hey, nothing) Monday, September 29: Tyler Childers Tuesday, September 30: Tyler Childers Friday, October 24: Parcels Saturday, October 25: Big Thief
CBC
12-05-2025
- Entertainment
- CBC
Lucy Dacus doesn't think love should be corny
On her new album, 'Forever Is a Feeling,' Lucy Dacus sets the record straight on what love is — and isn't. The singer-songwriter sits down with Tom Power to tell us what she thinks is missing in modern love songs, what she's learned about love (spoiler alert: she's still searching for answers), and how she feels about the end of her Grammy-winning supergroup boygenius. If you like this conversation, you'll probably also enjoy Tom's chat with Phoebe Bridgers.
Chicago Tribune
02-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Chicago Tribune
What to do in Chicago: Polish Parade, Japanese Breakfast and May the 4th Be With You
Chicago Polish Constitution Parade: The streets of Chicago will be draped in red and white as one of the oldest and largest parades in the city steps off this weekend. This year's theme celebrates the 1,000th anniversary of the coronation of the first Polish king. More events celebrating Polish culture will be held throughout the weekend. 11:30 a.m. May 3 on Columbus Drive, between Balbo Drive and Monroe Street; more details on the free parade and related events at Japanese Breakfast: A bounty of indie shows roll into town this week, starting with Japanese Breakfast. In March, the band released its fourth album, 'For Melancholy Brunettes (& Sad Women).' 7 p.m. May 2 at Salt Shed, 1357 N. State St.; tickets from $59.50 at Lucy Dacus: Following on the new album, 'Forever Is a Feeling,' Lucy Dacus performs at the Chicago Theatre. Perhaps best known as part of the Grammy-winning band Boygenius, Dacus is an indie powerhouse in her own right. Katie Gavin will also perform. 7:30 p.m. May 2 at the Chicago Theatre, 175 N. State St.; tickets from $69.50 at Kevin Kaarl: Maybe you heard the buzz about Kevin Kaarl's 2024 Coachella performance. Or his 'Tiny Desk' concert on NPR. The introspective indie-folk star, originally from Northern Mexico, brings his world tour to the Salt Shed. One show is already sold out, so don't wait. 7 p.m. May 4-5 at Salt Shed, 1357 N. Elston Ave.; tickets $50 at Laura Peek: You've got four more chances this weekend to see comedian Laura Peek. Her self-deprecating brand of standup is so relatable that it might just distract you from how well it's written. 7 p.m. and 9:15 p.m. May 2-3 at Zanies Chicago, 1548 N. Wells St.; tickets $30 (ages 21+; two-item minimum) at 'Bust': Zora Howard's 'Bust' centers on a police confrontation that ends when a Black man simply vanishes. A Tribune review says, 'Howard really hits a chord: She's writing about anger and trauma, for sure, but also about the perennial dilemma as to whether to engage and struggle, politically and within a family, or disengage for greener pastures.' A timely piece, to be sure. Through May 18 at Goodman Theatre, 170 N. Dearborn St.; tickets $25-$85 at South Chicago Dance Theatre: Deemed 'the next big thing to hit Chicago's dance scene,' in a 2022 Tribune story, the South Chicago Dance Theatre continues to thrive. Catch their performance of 'In/Within' this weekend. 7:30 p.m. May 3 at Auditorium Theatre, 50 E. Ida B. Wells Drive; tickets from $39 at 'Star Wars' Day: May the 4th be with you! Sure, you can stream the entirety of 'Star Wars' at home, but it's better in a theater. Head to Patio Theater for a double feature of 'Star Wars: The Force Awakens' and 'Rogue One: A Star Wars Story.' (Yeah, OK, admittedly not the most logical double feature, but they're both strong installments.) Get there early to meet characters and play games. 1-8 p.m. at Patio Theater, 6008 W. Irving Park Road; tickets $11.20 at Best Buddies Friendship Walk: Support people with intellectual and developmental disabilities by participating in the Best Buddies Friendship Walk. So far, the charity has raised about half of its local goal of $142,500. Proceeds will go to programs designed to end the social, physical and economic isolation of those with Down syndrome, autism and other developmental disabilities. Noon May 4 at Soldier Field, 1410 Special Olympics Drive; more details at Chicago Farmers Markets: 'Tis the season to get out of the supermarket. Lincoln Park's Green City Market is already open, and several other farmers markets begin this week — including those in the West Loop, Wicker Park, Pilsen, Beverly Hills and Lincoln Square. During high season, you can find a farmers market somewhere in the city on every day of the week. Various dates and locations; more at
