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NZ Herald
5 days ago
- Health
- NZ Herald
Sharing a bed with your kid? It's totally normal in Asia
'They want to enjoy the moment,' Kim, 40, said over an iced latte in her high-rise apartment complex. Though her girls slept in cribs until they were 6 months old, they've grown up bed sharing with their parents. Sleeping arrangements in a bed-sharing family in Singapore. Photo / Ore Huiying, The New York Times In the West, and especially in the United States, bed sharing tends to be unpopular and contentious. That is partly because the American Academy of Pediatrics and other experts warn that it can be unsafe for infants 6 months of age or younger. Many Western parents put infants to sleep in cribs or beds in a separate room — often using a practice known as 'sleep training', in which infants are taught to sleep independently. Modern ideas about separating mothers and babies at night have their roots in campaigns by 'Victorian-era influencers' in Britain and the US, according to How Babies Sleep, a book published this year by the anthropologist Helen Ball. Even though there isn't much scientific literature on bed sharing, studies generally show that the practice is far more common in Asia than in the West. (Other regions where bed sharing is popular, including Latin America, aren't as well studied, experts say.) One multicountry survey of parents of infants and toddlers from 2010 found that bed-sharing rates were over 60% in China, Japan and South Korea, and over 70% in India and parts of Southeast Asia. The rates in Australia, Canada, New Zealand and the US ranged from 5 to 15%. Country-level studies since then have broadly reinforced some of those findings, although a 2015 survey in the United States found that 37% of mothers 'rarely or sometimes' bed shared and 24% of them 'often or always' did. Bed-sharing rates in the West may be higher than such figures suggest because stigma around the practice linked to safety concerns in infancy leads some parents to underreport it, said Professor Ball, the director of an infancy and sleep centre at Durham University in Britain. 'I think bed sharing is a much more normal strategy than Westerners recognise,' she said. In parts of Asia, motivations for bed sharing vary by place and family. Some are extremely practical. Some parents in Seoul, a city where many families live in high-rises, share beds with infants because they worry that sleep training them would lead to crying and wake the neighbours, Kim said. In Hong Kong, where apartments are notoriously small, many families don't have extra rooms to put their children in, said Vicky Tsang, who runs breastfeeding support groups in the Chinese territory. She said it is common for bed sharing to last through primary school. 'The space problem is the big factor,' she said. But practical considerations don't always fully explain why bed sharing is popular. In some Asian societies, many couples prioritise the mother-child bond over their own sleep health and marital relationships, said Heejung Park, a professor of psychology at Scripps College in California who has studied bed sharing in the region. In other cases, parents who grew up in bed-sharing households can't imagine a different sleeping arrangement. 'It's so common that no one thinks, 'Is it uncommon?'' said Erin Lim, 39, an entrepreneur in Seoul who grew up in a three-generation household where she slept in the same room as her parents. Erin Lim's sons, Jiyong and Jihun, in their parents' bedroom in Seoul. Now that the boys are older, they have their own bedroom, but Lim still keeps a small bed in her bedroom for them. Photo / Woohae Cho, The New York Times Lim said that she stopped sharing a bed with her older son when he was 4, and with her younger son when he was 2. Now the boys are 9 and 5, and they have their own room. But she still keeps a small bed in her bedroom for if — and when — they wander back in. In India, the cultural attachment to bed sharing is so deep that it tends to persist even among urban elites who are exposed to 'Western sleep training culture', said Himani Dalmia, a sleep specialist in New Delhi who runs a support group for parents and shares a bed with her children, 7 and 9. She said she sometimes gets calls from Indian parents abroad who can't find the sleep advice they're looking for. 'Look,' they tell her. 'We want to bed share, and we can't talk to anyone here about that.' Himani Dalmia, second from left, and Akash Premsen, right, with their daughters Yamini and Devika at their home in New Delhi on June 1, 2025. Dalmia, a sleep specialist who runs a support group for parents, shares a bed with her children. Photo / Saumya Khandelwal, The New York Times One apparent exception in the region is Singapore, a wealthy city-state where reported bed sharing rates are lower than in other East and Southeast Asian countries. Sleep training seems to be increasingly popular there, and some Singaporean parents are reluctant to admit to bed sharing, said Elaine Chow, the president of a local breastfeeding support group. 'Sometimes, if they do mention it, they will mention it kind of guiltily,' she said. Ho Kin Ing, who shares a bed in Singapore with her three girls — 2, 3 and 6 — said that she and her husband once felt significant social pressure to sleep train as they browsed online parenting forums. 'I had a lot of influence and information, and not a lot of intuition,' Ho, 33, said during an interview in her high-rise apartment. 'But I guess that, over the years, that intuition part started to strengthen a little bit.' Her husband, Tan Peng Yong, 37, said they didn't regret choosing to bed share. 'To be woken up by your kids is one of the best feelings ever,' he said, sitting next to a toy bus and a Mrs. Potato Head doll. 'Even when they hit you in the face.' Ho Kin Ing, right, and her husband Tan Peng Yong with their daughters at home in Singapore on June 2, 2025. Photo / Ore Huiying, The New York Times Social pressure around sleeping arrangements can cut the other way, too. In some East Asian societies, choosing not to bed share can be seen as 'harsh parenting', Dr Park said. In her study on sleeping habits in Japan, some mothers said they felt compelled to do it in order to conform to social norms around maternal responsibility. Kim, the mother of two in Seoul, knows the feeling. She sleeps better without her kids in the bed, she said. But her husband insists on family bed sharing because he sees it as essential for a close relationship with his daughters. Some of Kim's friends have children who stayed in the family bed until age 12, even at the expense of their parents' sleep quality and sex lives. That would be too much for her, she said. So she and her husband have decided that their girls will move into what is now their playroom in about two years. Whether that will happen on schedule is an open question. The plan is to install bunk beds, Kim said with a laugh, but neither girl wants to sleep on top. 'It's kind of scary to think about falling off,' she said. Written by: Mike Ives Photographs by: Woohae Cho, Ore Huiying and Saumya Khandelwal ©2025 THE NEW YORK TIMES
NZ Herald
5 days ago
- Automotive
- NZ Herald
China's automakers using Red Sea route shortcut -while others take the slow boat to Europe
The Chinese cargo ship BYD Explorer No.1. While other Asian automakers are still shipping to Europe by the longer, more expensive route around Africa, car-carrying ships to Europe from Chinese ports through the Suez Canal and Red Sea have continued at an unabated clip, leading shipping analysts to assume that the Chinese Government reached an understanding with Iran or the Houthi rebels, who sunk two cargo ships in July. Photo / Ore Huiying, The New York Times Chinese automakers are shipping cars to Europe through the Red Sea and Suez Canal, nearly two years after the Iran-backed Houthi militia in Yemen started attacking vessels in the critical Middle East transit route. Other automakers are still shipping cars from Asia by way of a much longer, and expensive,
The Star
31-07-2025
- Business
- The Star
Grab beats revenue estimates on strong consumer spending
Signages at the Grab Holdings Ltd. headquarters in Singapore, on Sunday, Aug. 20, Ore Huiying/Bloomberg GRAB Holdings beat Wall Street expectations for second-quarter revenue on Wednesday, as consumers boosted spending on its ride-hailing and food delivery platform despite global economic uncertainty. Grab's push to turn its platform into a superapp, integrating ride-hailing, food and grocery delivery, and other digital services, has drawn a growing number of users willing to pay for its subscription plans. While ongoing U.S. trade negotiations have cast a cloud over global economic stability, leading to concerns about tariffs and elevated costs in Southeast Asia, the Singaporean economy has remained resilient. It grew 4.3% in the second quarter, avoiding a technical recession. "What we're seeing is that the more you make our products more affordable, it drives that growth, and it also shields us from some of the macro that you're seeing across the globe," Grab CFO Peter Oey told Reuters. The company has been attempting to lure price-sensitive consumers to its ride-hailing platform while increasing the number of drivers to keep pace with a growing userbase. Grab reported revenue of $819 million, above analysts' expectations of $811.3 million, according to LSEG data. The company noted its strong performance in Indonesia, a market it had previously described as underpenetrated, aiming to capitalize on the country's large population and grow market share. Oey said Indonesia is a profitable market for the company, which seeks to double down on investing in the country. The online service market in Southeast Asia has been consolidating, with large players acquiring smaller firms to grow their product portfolios. Reuters reported in May that Grab was exploring acquiring smaller Indonesian rival GoTo, but Oey reiterated that the company is not in discussions with them. Grab posted a profit of $20 million for the quarter, compared to a $68 million loss in the same period a year earlier. - Reuters Trading ideas: Dialog, Zetrix, Kwasa, Alliance, BIG, Steel Hawk, Dayang, Paramount, Samaiden, SP Setia, MMM, CIM, Axis REIT, Pantech, Destini, EcoFirst
The Star
03-05-2025
- Politics
- The Star
Singapore GE2025: 82 per cent voter turnout recorded as of 5pm, says Election Department
A voter on a wheelchair at a polling station inside a Housing & Development Board (HDB) public housing estate in Singapore, on Saturday, May 3, 2025. Singaporeans began voting Saturday in the ruling party's biggest electoral test in decades amid concerns over global economic turmoil and high living costs in the Southeast Asian city-state. Photographer: Ore Huiying/Bloomberg SINGAPORE (Bernama): A total of 2,164,593 Singaporeans turned up to cast their votes for the country's General Election (GE2025) as of 5 pm, according to the Elections Department (ELD). "This is about 82 per cent of the 2,627,026 eligible electors in all contested electoral divisions,' it said in a statement on Saturday. A spokesperson for the department also encouraged voters to avoid any last-minute rush, as polling at all 1,240 stations will close at 8 pm. In addition to domestic polling, 10 overseas polling stations are operating from 8 am to 8 pm local time in their respective cities. These stations must close no later than the official closing time in Singapore. NOTE: (For more information on Singapore elections: the electoral maps -- ) The overseas polling stations are located in Dubai, London, Washington D.C., New York, San Francisco, Canberra, Tokyo, Beijing, Hong Kong, and Shanghai. Meanwhile, Prime Minister Lawrence Wong cast his vote at the MOE (Evans) Sports Hall around noon, according to The Straits Times (ST). This marks his first election since taking office in May last year. Wong is leading the PAP team in the Marsiling-Yew Tee GRC, which they won in GE2020 with a 63.18 per cent share of the vote. - Bernama
