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Yahoo
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Relationship coach reveals the shocking reason why it might be your fault that your significant other cheated
It's not you, it's me. There are various reasons why someone cheats in a relationship. One relationship coach recently pointed out a jaw-dropping reason that will probably make many people reevaluate their role in their romantic relationships. During a recent interview on Jay Shetty's 'On Purpose' podcast, Sadia Khan said that it can be the person who got cheated on's fault for the infidelity in the relationship because they didn't pay attention to specific signs. Before you freak out over this advice — Khan does actually make a valid point. As the saying goes, actions speak louder than words. The expert reminded listeners that it's crucial to pay attention to how someone acts — as red flags often reveal themselves early on. 'People don't usually lie. They may say lies, but they'll show you their red flags, pretty much from day one,' Khan told Shetty, '…it might be that you caught them in a few lies when you first got with them. You would've caught some sign that this person is capable of deeper lies.' Oftentimes, people in relationships know the other person better than they know themselves — and Khan said to keep that in mind if you suspect infidelity from your significant other. 'If you pay close attention to your partner, then it's quite difficult for them to live a whole double life without you catching on,' she explained. Another hot take from Khan is that men often get cheated on for loosening the reins too much with the women they're dating or married to. ''So whenever a man comes to me who's been cheated on, he'll tell me, 'I never stopped her from doing anything. I allowed to go on holidays whenever she wanted, I allowed her to come home whenever she wanted, she could post whatever she wanted on Instagram and she still cheated on me!' 'And I say to them, 'Duh!'' she explained. Another unexpected way you can catch your partner in the act is by paying attention to random, innocent-looking emojis that could be a dead giveaway they're cheating. Croissant or padlock emojis might seem harmless, but according to private investigator Paul Jones from ARF Private Investigators, they might mean something more devastating. 'We've had people using a croissant emoji as a way of saying 'meet me for breakfast,' or the letter emoji as a subtle 'text me when you're free,'' Jones told the Sun. 'Used once or twice, they don't mean much,' he told the outlet. 'But when you see them appearing regularly in chats with the same person, especially late at night, they start to mean something more.' Solve the daily Crossword
New York Post
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- New York Post
Relationship coach reveals the shocking reason why it might be your fault for getting cheated on
It's not you, it's me. There are various reasons why someone cheats in a relationship. One relationship coach recently pointed out a jaw-dropping reason that will probably make many people reevaluate their role in their romantic relationships. During a recent interview on Jay Shetty's 'On Purpose' podcast, Sadia Khan said that it can be the person who got cheated on's fault for the infidelity in the relationship because they didn't pay attention to specific signs. Advertisement Relationship coach Sadia Khan is known for her no-nonsense, tell-it-like-it-is relationship advice. Jay Shetty Podcast Before you freak out over this advice — Khan does actually make a valid point. As the saying goes, actions speak louder than words. The expert reminded listeners that it's crucial to pay attention to how someone acts — as red flags often reveal themselves early on. Advertisement 'People don't usually lie. They may say lies, but they'll show you their red flags, pretty much from day one,' Khan told Shetty, '…it might be that you caught them in a few lies when you first got with them. You would've caught some sign that this person is capable of deeper lies.' Oftentimes, people in relationships know the other person better than they know themselves — and Khan said to keep that in mind if you suspect infidelity from your significant other. Paying attention to these signs is key when trying to figure out if there's infidelity in your relationship. eldarnurkovic – Advertisement 'If you pay close attention to your partner, then it's quite difficult for them to live a whole double life without you catching on,' she explained. Another hot take from Khan is that men often get cheated on for loosening the reins too much with the women they're dating or married to. ''So whenever a man comes to me who's been cheated on, he'll tell me, 'I never stopped her from doing anything. I allowed to go on holidays whenever she wanted, I allowed her to come home whenever she wanted, she could post whatever she wanted on Instagram and she still cheated on me!' 'And I say to them, 'Duh!'' she explained. Advertisement Another unexpected way you can catch your partner in the act is by paying attention to random, innocent-looking emojis that could be a dead giveaway they're cheating. Croissant or padlock emojis might seem harmless, but according to private investigator Paul Jones from ARF Private Investigators, they might mean something more devastating. 'We've had people using a croissant emoji as a way of saying 'meet me for breakfast,' or the letter emoji as a subtle 'text me when you're free,'' Jones told the Sun. 'Used once or twice, they don't mean much,' he told the outlet. 'But when you see them appearing regularly in chats with the same person, especially late at night, they start to mean something more.'
Daily Mail
4 days ago
- Daily Mail
Simple signs that your partner might be cheating on you... and why it could be YOUR fault
Controversial relationship coach Sadia Khan has issued a brutal wakeup call to victims of cheating partners. During a recent appearance on Jay Shetty's On Purpose podcast, Khan claimed that it may be your own fault if you get cheated on for ignoring obvious warning signs. 'Especially with men in particular it's always your own fault, because most cheaters come with smoking guns on the first date,' she explained. 'People don't usually lie. They may SAY lies, but they'll show you their red flags, pretty much from day one,' she continued. 'It might be that they were in a relationship when you met them, or it might be that you caught them in a few lies when you first got with them. You would've caught some sign that this person is capable of deeper lies.' Khan then claimed that you don't even need evidence to catch somebody being unfaithful. 'Some cheaters will say, "Well you can't prove anything!" Cheaters will always want you to catch them red-handed. You should say, "I don't need red-handed evidence. I can see your behaviour isn't treating me right",' she said. Khan said that the best way to catch a cheater is to 'know your partner better than they know themselves', and that way you'll be in tune with any concerning changes in their behavior. 'If you pay close attention to your partner then it's quite difficult for them to live a whole double life without you catching on,' she explained. Earlier this year, Khan, who boasts over a million followers on social media, said that men get cheated on because 'they don't understand female psychology'. She went on to say that a lot of men who are cheated on were most likely raised by their mothers. 'They tend to think that their mother's advice is the key,' she said. 'They teach you to be kind, they teach you to listen to them, they teach you not to talk back, not to answer back, never to question them,' she continued. 'They train you into becoming this really good boy who's really obedient and all of these things are desexualizing. All of these things are what moms want from boys, from their sons, but it's definitely not what women want from their partners.' Khan then said that men need to be more assertive in their relationships rather than taking the laid back approach. 'We want a man that's fearless. So if you're a man that's afraid of flying, afraid of heights, afraid of confrontation, afraid, afraid, afraid, automatically she's less attracted,' said Khan. 'We like some protective jealousy - they care about you, so they worry about you,' she continued. 'So whenever a man comes to me who's been cheated on, he'll tell me, "I never stopped her from doing anything. I allowed to go on holidays whenever she wanted, I allowed her to come home whenever she wanted, she could post whatever she wanted on Instagram and she still cheated on me!" 'And I say to them, "duh!"' Khan finished. Khan, who bills herself as both a psychologist and a relationship coach, has built up a huge following online for her no-holds-barred advice. She's well known for her brutal dating tips, and even offers a pricey 'high value man' course that teaches men how to be more confident and charismatic. Researchers previously found that women are unfaithful because they want 'good genes' for their offspring, known as 'dual-mating theory.' Women tend to seek out more attractive affair partners for their genetic material, but stay with a long-term mate who would make a better parent, according to a study. However, some participants reported straying out of boredom or a lack of investment from their current partner, saying they simply wanted to have their cake and eat it too. The study was conducted by Australian and UK researchers who surveyed 254 heterosexual people, 116 of whom were women, and asked them to measure their physical physical, personal and parental attraction to both partners.
Daily Mail
09-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Relationship coach reveals why women REALLY cheat on men
A controversial relationship coach has offered her take on why women cheat on men while in relationships. Sadia Khan, who boasts over a million followers online, explained on her podcast that men get cheated on because 'they don't understand female psychology'. She went on to say that a lot of men who are cheated on were most likely raised by their mothers. 'They tend to think that their mother's advice is the key,' she said. 'They teach you to be kind, they teach you to listen to them, they teach you not to talk back, not to answer back, never to question them,' she continued. 'They train you into becoming this really good boy who's really obedient and all of these things are desexualizing. All of these things are what moms want from boys, from their sons, but it's definitely not what women want from their partners.' Khan then said that men need to be more assertive in their relationships rather than taking the laid back approach. 'We want a man that's fearless. So if you're a man that's afraid of flying, afraid of heights, afraid of confrontation, afraid, afraid, afraid, automatically she's less attracted,' said Khan. 'We like some protective jealousy - they care about you, so they worry about you,' she continued. 'So whenever a man comes to me who's been cheated on, he'll tell me, "I never stopped her from doing anything. I allowed to go on holidays whenever she wanted, I allowed her to come home whenever she wanted, she could post whatever she wanted on Instagram and she still cheated on me!" 'And I say to them, "duh!"' Khan finished. The comments section was divided, with some agreeing with Khan, while others felt that she was putting the blame unfairly on men. 'While all of this is true that a man should be masculine and have a backbone, it still doesn't take away the fact that he's the victim in the situation,' one person wrote. 'The person that cheated should've just left instead of betraying and traumatizing someone that they claimed to love.' Another argued, 'Men often get cheated on not because of lust, but because of emotional neglect. 'When a woman feels ignored, unappreciated, or unloved, she slowly disconnects.' Khan, who bills herself as both a psychologist and a relationship coach, has built up a huge following online for her no-holds-barred advice. She's well known for her brutal dating tips, and even offers a pricey 'high value man' course that teaches men how to be more confident and charismatic. Researchers previously found that females are unfaithful because they want 'good genes' for their offspring, known as 'dual-mating theory.' Women tend to seek out more attractive affair partners for their genetic material, but stay with a long-term mate who would make a better parent, according to a study. However, some participants reported straying out of boredom or a lack of investment from their current partner, saying the simply wanted to have their cake and eat it too. The study was conducted by Australian and UK researchers who surveyed 254 heterosexual people, 116 of whom were women, and asked them to measure their physical physical, personal and parental attraction to both partners.
BBC News
21-06-2025
- General
- BBC News
Bin strike during heatwave gives Birmingham locals 'the ick'
It has been more than 100 days since Birmingham's bin workers began their all-out the country is in a heatwave, and the last thing residents need is rubbish piling up in the streets."It just adds to the 'ick' of the city now, I think the whole city and the reputation of Birmingham on a whole, everyone's just having such a big negative impact," said Sadia a volunteer for a park in Balsall Heath, one of the worst affected areas during the strike, she said she had seen fly-tipping soar. "It just puts you off really, it's quite depressing," she said."It's really destroying people's mental wellbeing."Many have complained the heatwave has made things worse - with the stench from overflowing bins forcing some to put extra bags around already-bagged rubbish in an attempt to contain the indefinite industrial action officially started on 11 March, but collectors have been striking on-and-off since has led to reports of rat infestations, and rubbish strewn across streets as animals have clawed their way into bin bags. Steve Message, who lives in Hockley, said missed collections had meant nappies, food and other rubbish being strewn across the road."My neighbour can't open her windows because the piles of rubbish are near where she lives, and the flies, it's a fly-fest.""People are putting more and more bags on top of bags which haven't been collected."The black bin bags were being ripped open by cats, squirrels, foxes, he said."There are hundreds of bluebottles everywhere. It's a public health issue, it's not good to have stinking rubbish and all these flies spreading disease." Jonathan Yu, who lives on a new estate in Selly Oak, said his bins had not been collected since March – although the council disputes this."We have to hold our nose every time we step out [of the house]," he has been taking his bin bags to work with him, to dispose of them in commercial waste added that it was "really, really hard" to get a booking at a recycling centre, and that appointments needed to be booked about a week in said he understood the bin workers' reasons for striking, but wanted the problem to be Yu said he felt people in neighbouring areas to his had been getting their bins collected, and that "posh areas" seemed to be getting a better service. Birmingham City Council said since taking legal action to prevent striking bin workers from delaying trucks leaving depots, it had collected more than 33,000 tonnes of rubbish. In a video posted on social media, council leader John Cotton said the authority was working to "clear the backlog of waste".He added the authority had "put a new deal on the table" to end the industrial action.A Unite spokesperson said earlier this week that the latest deal had been presented two weeks ago, with the union saying at that time the proposal had been "watered down" from a "ballpark offer" made at conciliation from the union claim changes to how rubbish is collected in the city will see up to 170 workers face an £8,000 annual pay cut, but the council disputes this, saying 17 people could lose up to £6,000 a year. Follow BBC Birmingham on BBC Sounds, Facebook, X and Instagram.
