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CNA
3 days ago
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I no longer step in to stop my kids from fighting. Here's why a bit of sibling conflict is OK
One of my favourite scenes from the TV series Peaky Blinders is the part where Cillian Murphy's character, Thomas "Tommy" Shelby, gathers his gang members and lectures them on all the ways they are not to misbehave on the day of his wedding. He points at each one and yells, "No fighting, no ****ing fighting, no fighting – NO ****ING FIGHTING!" before shoving a passing waiter and storming off in a huff. As a parent of five kids, I know exactly how Tommy felt in that moment. Anyone who has grown up with siblings knows that their unofficial job is to irritate you. Responsibilities of the role include taking your belongings without asking, hogging the toilet when you need it, and getting you in trouble just for fun. Over the past 17 years, I've lost count of how many times I've said "no fighting" to my children Hayley, Theo, Finn, Kirsten and Truett. Some of the gems I've heard in response include: "Finn always gets to push the elevator buttons, it's my turn to do it!" "Theo is copying me, make him stop!" (With Theo promptly echoing, "Theo's copying me, make him stop!") And the most ludicrous one: "He's breathing near me, tell him to stop." As the middle of three children, I grew up in a whirlwind of sibling rivalry – from fights in the car over who would get the front seat to being tattled on for skipping homework. Now, as a parent, while I wish my children could get along all the time, I've realised that saying "no fighting" isn't realistic. So now, instead of trying to play referee every time, I've chosen a new tactic to help them figure out how to deal with conflict: To take a step back. Sounds counterintuitive? Hear me out. FIGURING OUT WHAT'S FAIR For any group of people living under the same roof, being in such close quarters for long periods makes it difficult not to step on each other's toes, sometimes literally. Having grown up with an older brother and a younger sister, I know how hard it is not to compare everything. Maybe that's why the most common phrase my kids say when they fight is, "That's not fair!" Sometimes, figuring out what's fair can be tricky, especially when one child feels they are not getting the same privileges as another sibling, or when one sibling gets to play with a toy before the others do. In our house, the kids are allowed an hour of screen time each on weekends. The rule is that if they cannot agree on who goes first, nobody gets to use it at all. To sort this out, my kids usually play a game of "rock, paper, scissors" to decide who gets the first go. My youngest child, nine-year-old Hayley, often loses at this and has to wait till the last turn. One day, after yet another losing streak, Hayley protested: "It's not fair! If I didn't have so many siblings, I wouldn't have to wait for four hours." Later that night, I asked her if she really did wish she had no siblings. She stayed silent for a long time, clearly weighing the perks of being an only child. "I don't know, it would be nice," she finally said. "But then no one would play with me, and I think I like having three brothers and one sister more." I was relieved my rhetorical question didn't backfire, but I also appreciated her honesty. As parents, we try our best to create a sense of fairness, even while knowing that true fairness is nearly impossible – at least not in the way kids perceive it. When there are multiple children and limited resources, what often matters more than fairness is understanding, patience and compromise. LETTING THEM WORK THINGS OUT What complicates harmony at home, ironically, is the closeness we share. The deeper the bond, the more likely there is to be conflict. My two younger boys, Finn and Theo, are probably the closest among my kids – now 13 and 11, they have been sharing a bed since they were four and two years old. Their relationship is borderline tumultuous, with them roasting each other and squabbling over everything. Once, Theo was upset when Finn killed his character in the video game Roblox. Indignant, Finn said, "That's how the game works. You're supposed to fight each other!" After some hurt feelings and tears, Finn apologised to Theo: "I'm sorry I killed you in Roblox. Don't be upset anymore, I can't go to sleep without you next to me." With that, they made up and became best friends again. So now, instead of preventing disagreements, we let them happen. And we let the kids attempt to fix it on their own as long as they follow these ground rules: No physical fighting. Physical altercations get immediately red-carded and result in a withdrawal of screen time privileges for up to a week No screaming because nobody understands what you're saying when you're hysterical. It's okay to take a time-out to calm down, but conflicts need to be resolved and can't be left to fester. WHAT DO THE KIDS GAIN FROM THIS? Letting kids work out a compromise on their own allows them to practise conflict resolution skills, which they'll carry with them in other relationships and interactions as they grow up. I have seen my children improve over the years – they have gotten better at expressing their feelings and negotiating with each other for a win-win outcome because they know that this is the best way to get what they want. With every disagreement, they also learn a little bit more about each other. For instance, Theo is deeply familiar with Finn's triggers and often comments – surprisingly insightfully – how 30 minutes of alone time is the best way to calm him down. In return, Finn will offer to fetch his brother snacks when he's "in rage mode". Hayley's learning to wait her turn, and her siblings sometimes let her go first, even when they win at rock, paper, scissors. Their fights are also opportunities to teach them the importance of treating others with kindness and patience. Ultimately, that's what all this is for – not just to keep the peace now but also to help them build a relationship that lasts beyond their childhoods. The bond that siblings share is something special. Our siblings see us at our best and our worst. They're the ones with whom we share not just space, possessions and conversations, but also the singular, sometimes complicated experience of being raised by the same imperfect parents. Most of all, I hope that when my kids grow up, they'll have a bond forged not in the absence of conflict, but because of it – one that's messy, maddening but all the more stronger for it.
Economic Times
29-04-2025
- Entertainment
- Economic Times
Peaky Blinders Season 7: Will Cillian Murphy make a comeback as Tommy Shelby? Expected release window
Jumps in time to the 1950s Live Events Cillian Murphy's Possible Comeback Continuation After 'The Immortal Man' International Distribution and Release Timeline FAQs Was Peaky Blinders a hit or a flop? Who does Thomas Shelby marry? (You can now subscribe to our (You can now subscribe to our Economic Times WhatsApp channel The hit British crime television series 'Peaky Blinders' is set to make its comeback with its seventh season, with production reported to begin as early as September informed The Sun that the BBC greenlit the next season, bringing the Shelby clan's saga into a further new chapter beyond its previously expected BBC has yet to officially endorse these reports, but pre-production work is underway, causing fervor among fans of the television next season is to usher in a new temporal shift, advancing the show's story to the 1950s. The new locale will follow post-World War II Britain as its heyday saw the birth of Teddy Boy gangs and infamous men like the Kray twins become kings in the underbelly of move brings new possibilities in storytelling with a consistent grim visual palette and character conflicts that this show has grown famous there are no official casting confirmations yet, rumors are circulating regarding the comeback of Cillian Murphy as Tommy has it that Murphy can return to his role, and he might play an older, wiser version of the character, perhaps playing the role of a mentor figure for a new generation in the Shelby clan, as per a report by would be in line with the show's thematic growth and character forthcoming season is set to follow the release of 'The Immortal Man,' a feature film intended to conclude the creator Steven Knight has indicated that the film represents the end of a chapter rather than the entire narrative. Knight's comments suggest an openness to further exploring the 'Peaky Blinders' universe, contingent on audience interest and narrative line with past seasons, 'Peaky Blinders' Season 7 will likely air on BBC One in the UK, with global distribution via a specific release date has not been confirmed, the projected timeline indicates a 2026 premiere, giving room for production and post-production globally look forward to more information as the show gets ready to take this new Blinders is the kind of series that pulls you in and keeps you hooked. Its raw storytelling, powerful performances, and striking cinematography leave a lasting Peaky Blinders, Thomas Shelby is married twice—first to Grace Burgess and later to Elizabeth "Lizzie" Stark. His marriage to Grace ends in tragedy when she is killed, leaving a deep emotional scar. He eventually weds Lizzie, but their relationship remains strained, complicated by his unresolved grief over Grace and his own turbulent nature.
Scottish Sun
28-04-2025
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- Scottish Sun
Peaky Blinders to RETURN to BBC One – but with two major changes from last series
Click to share on X/Twitter (Opens in new window) Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) A NEW series of crime drama Peaky Blinders is due to start filming this summer — set in the 1950s. BBC bosses want the episodes ready to air next year to capitalise on a renewed wave of interest expected after the release of a Peaky Blinders feature film later this year. Sign up for the Entertainment newsletter Sign up 3 A new series of crime drama Peaky Blinders is due to start filming this summer Credit: Alamy 3 Cillian Murphy could return as crime boss Thomas Shelby, but with a twist Credit: Alamy Series six saw the characters in the 1930s, while the upcoming film — titled The Immortal Man — is set during the Second World War. The new series is likely to move the Birmingham gangsters into the Fifties — an era known for violent mobs of Teddy Boys and the rise of notorious London villains, the Kray twins. A TV insider yesterday said: 'The sixth series of Peaky Blinders was supposed to be the last and the movie was meant to be the final farewell for the story. 'But show boss Steven Knight couldn't resist coming back to the story — his most famous creation — and he's been dropping hints he wanted to return to do more. 'But the fact that it's been officially green-lit by the Beeb and wheels are in motion on pre- production will be a huge thrill to fans of the show, which was a huge hit for the BBC.' Cast and crew are expected to start filming in September. The new series will air on BBC One in the UK but be distributed internationally by streaming giant Netflix — also behind the film. Peaky Blinders ran from 2013 to 2022, with the action starting in 1919 and taking in the 1920s and 1930s. Cillian Murphy, who appears in the new film, could return as crime boss Thomas Shelby but as a 'father figure' to younger gang members. It would be a similar role to that of his aunt Polly Gray, played by the late Helen McCrory. Barry Keoghan Joins Peaky Blinders Movie! After the end of the TV series, writer Stephen dropped multiple hints of a return. Discussing the upcoming film recently, he said: 'The world of 'Peaky' will continue.' The BBC has declined to comment.
The Irish Sun
28-04-2025
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- The Irish Sun
Peaky Blinders to RETURN to BBC One – but with two major changes from last series
A NEW series of crime drama Peaky Blinders is due to start filming this summer — set in the 1950s. BBC bosses want the Advertisement 3 A new series of crime drama Peaky Blinders is due to start filming this summer Credit: Alamy 3 Cillian Murphy could return as crime boss Thomas Shelby, but with a twist Credit: Alamy Series six saw the characters in the 1930s, while the upcoming film — titled The Immortal Man — is set during the Second World War. The new series is likely to move the Birmingham gangsters into the Fifties — an era known for violent mobs of Teddy Boys and the rise of notorious London villains, A TV insider yesterday said: 'The sixth series of Peaky Blinders was supposed to be the last and the movie was meant to be the final farewell for the story. 'But show boss Steven Knight couldn't resist coming back to the story — his most famous creation — and he's been dropping hints he wanted to return to do more. Advertisement READ MORE ON PEAKY BLINDERS 'But the fact that it's been officially green-lit by the Beeb and wheels are in motion on pre- production will be a huge thrill to fans of the show, which was a huge hit for the BBC.' Cast and crew are expected to start filming in September. The new series will air on BBC One in the UK but be distributed internationally by streaming giant Netflix — also behind the film. Peaky Blinders ran from 2013 to 2022, with the action starting in 1919 and taking in the 1920s and 1930s. Advertisement Most read in News TV Cillian Murphy, who appears in the new film, could return as crime boss Thomas Shelby but as a 'father figure' to younger gang members. It would be a similar role to that of his aunt Polly Gray, played by the late Barry Keoghan Joins Peaky Blinders Movie! After the end of the TV series, writer Stephen dropped multiple hints of a return. Discussing the upcoming film recently, he said: 'The world of 'Peaky' will continue.' Advertisement The BBC has declined to comment. 3 The new series could be set in an era known for notorious London gangsters, the Kray twins Credit: Hulton Archive - Getty
