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7 days ago
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Chicago Author Lori Orlinsky Releases Second Book in Beloved BEING ME series
Being Middle debuts in celebration of National Middle Child Day CHICAGO, Aug. 12, 2025 (GLOBE NEWSWIRE) -- Yorkshire Publishing proudly announces the release of Being Middle (is a great place to be), the second title in Lori Orlinsky's award-winning BEING ME series — just in time for National Middle Child Day (August 12).Told with humor and heart, Being Middle explores the ups and downs of life as the middle child. The story follows a child stuck between an older sibling who does everything first and a younger sibling who gets all the attention — until she realizes that being in the middle comes with its own kind of magic. Inspired by her own daughter, Ellie, becoming a middle child, Orlinsky wrote the book to remind children that being in the middle doesn't mean being forgotten. 'This book is a celebration of the wonderful quirks that make middle children who they are,' says Orlinsky. 'They may fall in the middle, but their place in the family — and the world — is anything but ordinary.'Being Middle has already caught the attention of middle child advocates. Bruce Hopman, founder of the International Middle Child Union, remarked, 'There is no cure for Middle Child Syndrome. But this book, and Lori's approach to raising a Middle Child, might be the closest thing.' Being Middle follows Orlinsky's bestselling debut Being Small (isn't so bad after all), which won more than a dozen book awards for its empowering message of self-acceptance. Lori Orlinsky is a bestselling author and veteran journalist known for her rhyming, lesson-driven picture books that help children process big emotions and make sense of the world around them. Being Middle marks her fifth published title. While she isn't a middle child, she has her hands full raising one. For more information, follow visit her website or follow her on Instagram and Facebook. Being Middle (ISBN: 978-0881441055) will be available beginning August 12 on Amazon and wherever books are sold. About Yorkshire Publishing Yorkshire Publishing is committed to publishing books that make a difference. Since 2002, the company has published and distributed thousands of titles, working closely with authors to positively impact readers of all ages. Learn more at Contact Lori A photo accompanying this announcement is available at
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15-07-2025
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Youngest, Middle, Oldest: What birth order can reveal about your dating style and love language
Have you ever wondered why you're drawn to a certain type of partner—or why your relationships tend to follow a familiar pattern? While astrology and attachment styles often get all the attention, birth order psychology might be the hidden key to unlocking how you love, fight, flirt, and bond. Whether you're the responsible oldest, the free-spirited youngest, or the peacemaking middle child, your birth order can shape your dating style and even influence your love language. Here's how. Dating Style: Reliable, goal-oriented, and loyal. Oldest children are often the overachievers of the family. From an early age, they're taught to lead, take responsibility, and care for their younger siblings. That energy often carries into their romantic relationships. They tend to be natural caregivers, striving to meet their partner's needs and create stability. In dating, they often take initiative, enjoy structure, and prefer clear communication. But here's the twist: because they were raised to be responsible, oldest children may struggle with vulnerability. They may bottle up feelings or over-function in a relationship—doing too much and expecting too little in return. Best Love Language Match: Acts of Service: They show love by doing things for you—running errands, planning dates, or fixing that leaky sink. Words of Affirmation: They secretly love being acknowledged for how much they do. Potential Challenges: Oldest children might get frustrated with indecisive partners or feel overly burdened if their nurturing nature is taken for granted. Key Needs: Letting go of control, embracing vulnerability, balancing doing with being. 'The Gifts of Imperfection' by Brené BrownThis empowering book helps perfectionist and responsible types release the need to be in control and opens the door to vulnerability and wholehearted living—exactly what many firstborns need in relationships. Dating Style: Diplomatic, supportive, and a bit of a chameleon. Middle children often grow up negotiating between older and younger siblings. This gives them strong communication and compromise skills, making them great partners in long-term relationships. They tend to be empathetic, peace-seeking, and good listeners. They often value equality in a relationship and are skilled at reading emotional cues. However, they may also struggle with feeling overlooked or underappreciated, especially if they internalized the 'middle child syndrome.' In dating, they may avoid conflict, even when it's necessary to speak up. Best Love Language Match: Quality Time: They crave connection and presence more than grand gestures. Physical Touch: A little affection goes a long way in helping them feel valued. Potential Challenges: Middle children may hide their true feelings to keep the peace, which can lead to unresolved tension. Key Needs: Feeling seen, using their voice, setting healthy boundaries. 'Set Boundaries, Find Peace' by Nedra Glover TawwabMiddle children often prioritize harmony over honesty. This book helps them find their voice, speak up for their needs, and stop silently sacrificing their happiness. Dating Style: Playful, affectionate, and spontaneous. Youngest siblings often grow up getting the most attention—and the least amount of pressure. That combination makes them fun-loving, creative, and emotionally expressive. In relationships, they tend to be charming, lighthearted, and flirtatious. They're also risk-takers and tend to live in the moment, which makes them exciting partners. But don't let their carefree vibe fool you—they're also deeply loyal and crave emotional intimacy. Because they're used to being taken care of, they may rely on their partner for stability and direction, sometimes resisting adult responsibilities in the relationship. Best Love Language Match: Physical Touch: They're affectionate and love playful intimacy. Receiving Gifts: Not necessarily about material things—just thoughtful gestures that show you're thinking of them. Potential Challenges: They may get bored easily or become overly dependent on their partner's structure or planning. Key Needs: Building emotional responsibility, long-term vision, self-discipline. 'Atomic Habits' by James ClearPlayful and spontaneous youngest siblings thrive with structure. This book helps develop consistent habits and self-leadership—without losing their spark. Dating Style: Loyal, focused, and confident—but needs space. Only children are often mature beyond their years, having spent more time with adults than with peers. As a result, they can be introspective, self-sufficient, and emotionally intelligent. They bring depth and devotion to their relationships and are often very intentional when choosing a partner. Their challenge? Compromise. Because they didn't grow up having to share toys, space, or parental attention, only children may need time to adjust to the give-and-take of romance. Best Love Language Match: Words of Affirmation: They appreciate recognition and emotional clarity. Acts of Service: They value meaningful gestures that show effort and thoughtfulness. Potential Challenges: Only children may appear emotionally distant or overly private. They also need more solo time than most, which isn't a sign of rejection—it's just how they recharge. Key Needs: Emotional intimacy, collaboration, vulnerability. 'Attached' by Amir Levine and Rachel HellerOnly children often value their space but may struggle with closeness. Attached explains how different attachment styles affect romantic relationships and helps them create deeper emotional bonds without giving up independence. While any birth order pairing can work with awareness and communication, some dynamics are more naturally aligned: Oldest + Youngest: A classic 'opposites attract' combo. The oldest brings structure, while the youngest brings spontaneity. Balance is key. Middle + Middle: Peaceful and cooperative—but may need to watch for too much people-pleasing. Only Child + Any: Independent and focused, they match well with middles (who are flexible) or oldest children (who are driven). Birth order isn't a crystal ball, but it can shine a light on the emotional blueprints you bring into your relationships. From how you communicate to how you show affection, the family role you played growing up can influence the partner you become. By understanding your own birth order patterns (and those of your partner), you can build deeper emotional intimacy, navigate conflict more effectively, and express love in a way that truly connects. You can so learn a lot by understanding the love languages. I recommend this book for those interested in learning more. So the next time you're wondering why your partner needs constant reassurance—or why you're always the one planning date night—look to your family tree. The answers might just be hiding in your childhood role.
