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Forbes
3 days ago
- General
- Forbes
2 Reasons Why Partners Don't Need To Be Alike To Be Happy, By A Psychologist
Being similar to your partner may feel good at first, but it's not what builds lasting love. Real ... More connection runs deeper than shared traits. It seems plausible that couples who are alike, for instance, those who share values, interests or even a taste in movies, are more likely to succeed. From dating app algorithms to age-old relationship advice, you have likely learned that similarity equals compatibility. By that notion, it might seem fair to look for a partner who feels familiar and shares the same taste in various aspects of life as you do. However, recent research shows that this might not be all that true. In a 2025 study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, researchers used a large scoping review to analyze 339 studies on romantic partner similarity and relationship outcomes. They looked at different types of similarity (personality, values, interests), various ways of measuring it (actual traits vs. perceived likeness) and a wide range of couples, starting from newlyweds to long-term partners. The results were far from straightforward, but enlightening. Here are two reasons why partners do not necessarily need to be alike to be happy, according to the 2025 study. 1. Similarity Doesn't Guarantee Satisfaction You may have heard the phrase, 'Like attracts like.' While the idea of you and your partner being on the same page about most things sounds comforting, researchers surprisingly found that being similar doesn't always translate to being satisfied. Interestingly, there were no consistent patterns in the results of the study. In some cases, similarity, in terms of sharing the same political views or hobbies, was linked to better relationship outcomes. But in many others, it had no effect at all and sometimes was even associated with lower satisfaction. In domains like attitudes or values, where you might expect similarity to matter more, the findings were still inconsistent. However, researchers found that sometimes value alignment helped, especially early on in dating. But over time, it wasn't found to be a reliable predictor of long-term happiness or connection. While similarity can help you bond over shared interests or feel understood, it doesn't necessarily build the deeper foundation that relationships require Simply put, being similar to their partner didn't make couples more likely to stay together. Neither was similarity found to be a strong predictor of relationship stability. Factors like emotional attunement, communication quality and shared goals often played a bigger role in how satisfied and secure couples felt over time. To better understand this, imagine a couple with similarities — say, both love books and share the same taste in music. They even laugh at the same memes and follow the same routines. However, when it comes to stress, one of them shuts down emotionally while the other seeks reassurance. Now, if they don't know how to navigate that difference or talk through tough moments, any shared interests cannot protect them from resentment, misunderstanding or distance over time. In contrast, picture a different couple, where one is extroverted and highly ambitious and the other is more introverted, preferring a simpler, quieter life. While these two may appear mismatched, if they've built trust by learning how to listen, support each other's growth and repair after conflict in a healthy way, their connection is likely safe and deeply fulfilling — even though they operate differently. So, the question isn't about how much you have in common with your partner but rather about whether you both can hold space for each other's differences. In the end, it's the willingness to understand and grow together, even when you're not the same, that can ensure satisfaction in the relationship. 2. Perceived Similarity Holds More Power Than Actual Similarity In the 2025 study, actual similarity between partners had mixed or weak associations with satisfaction, while 'perceived similarity' showed a stronger and more reliable connection to how happy and connected couples felt. This means that when it comes to relationship satisfaction, these findings show that how similar you feel you are to your partner might matter more than how similar you actually are. So, it's not about whether you really are alike but more about if you believe you are. This belief can create a sense of emotional closeness and reinforce the idea that you're on the same team, even if you disagree on a lot of things. This idea was supported by another study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. Researchers used a couple-centered approach and examined almost 300 newlyweds to understand how different kinds of similarity related to marital quality. They assessed each couple as a unit, instead of looking at individuals separately and analyzed similarities in areas like personality, attitudes and attachment styles. Researchers found that actual similarity in personality traits and not attitudes was associated with better marital quality. However, the strongest predictor of satisfaction was similarity in attachment characteristics, referring to how partners approach intimacy and emotional closeness in relationships. On top of that, the study also revealed that how well partners' overall personality profiles matched (i.e., their pattern across multiple traits) was a better predictor of satisfaction than just the raw difference on individual traits. This supports the idea that emotional and psychological compatibility, or how two people 'fit' together matters more than whether they simply share interests or opinions. It's about how emotionally 'in sync' you are together. Fall In Love With The Process Of Knowing Each Other The results of the 2025 study encourage us rethink the idea that compatibility is about sameness. Maybe what matters more is curiosity and the willingness to keep exploring your partner as they grow and evolve along with you. In this way, when you remain genuinely interested in each other's inner worlds, even differences can become sources of closeness rather than conflict. Additionally, a shared idea and orientation toward growth overall can offer a far deeper bond than just shared hobbies or backgrounds. Remember, if you're both committed to evolving both individually and together, you can build a dynamic that can outlast superficial similarities. How happy and satisfied do you feel in your relationship? Take this science-backed test to find out: Relationship Satisfaction Scale
Yahoo
3 days ago
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
The Rude Wedding Guest Behavior You May Be Guilty Of
In the months leading up to her wedding day, Elizabeth was looking forward to seeing all of her guests, but she did not anticipate how much people would try to monopolize her time. 'Several of my husband's family friends, who I'd barely even met, kept coming up to me during the reception and then they would proceed to talk for 20 minutes,' she recalled to HuffPost. Once, she was stopped for a long conversation while trying to awkwardly balance plates and drinks for herself and the groom on the way to their table. And she almost didn't make the group photo with the couple's college friends because a guest she was speaking with wouldn't let her end their chat. 'It was sweet because clearly they were excited to be there and wanted to catch up, and obviously I wanted to say hi to as many people as I could ― but this was more than just a greeting,' said Elizabeth, who preferred to share only her first name. 'They just had no awareness of time and the context.' Of course, most newlyweds want to spend time with their wedding guests —hey, that's why they were invited in the first place — but if they were to have a lengthy conversation with every single person, there would be no time for dining, dancing, cutting the cake or anything else. Thus, it's an etiquette no-no to demand extra time or attention from the happy couple. 'To be a gracious guest, you have to be aware that the bride and groom have a lot of people to see and thank and be mindful not to monopolize their time,' said Jacqueline Whitmore, an etiquette expert and founder of The Protocol School of Palm Beach. 'But a lot of people don't have that kind of common sense.' So what's the best way to share a moment with the newlyweds at the wedding? Below, Whitmore and other etiquette experts share their dos and don'ts. Keep the conversation brief. 'The bridal couple is rightly in high demand on their special day,' said Thomas P. Farley, aka 'Mister Manners.' 'Particularly if there are a great number of attendees, guests should not dominate the attention of the newlyweds with long conversations.' He advised keeping the congratulations and chatter to a minute or two. Offer your well wishes and compliment the wedding dress, food, ceremony, venue or band. 'If guests have had the chance to speak with the couple at least once during the occasion, they should not attempt to co-opt additional time, unless circumstances permit,' Farley added. You can also spend more time with the newlyweds by joining them and the other guests on the dance floor. Making memories together doesn't always involve talking. Nick Leighton, an etiquette expert and co-host of the 'Were You Raised by Wolves?' podcast, believes the amount of time you'll want to talk with the couple is on a bell curve and based on how close you are. 'If you're super close with the couple and hang out with them all the time, it's fine to be brief,' he said. 'Similarly, if you're such a distant acquaintance that you were surprised to even be invited, your chat with the newlyweds can also be relatively quick. But in the middle, the time you spend will often be slightly longer given there'll often be a bit of catching-up on everyone's lives involved.' Keep it light. 'Guests should also ensure they keep conversation light and breezy,' Farley said. Avoid politics, family squabbles, drunken ramblings or important conversations they'd need to remember in the future. This is not the time to share big news or choose a date to grab lunch together. 'The Champagne is flowing, the relief is showing, and the occasion is flying by for them at hyper speed,' he added. 'Guests can focus their energies on the other guests in attendance and catch up with the couple after they've returned from their honeymoon.' Take advantage of the receiving line. 'Rather than continually seeking them out at various points during the reception, guests should have their words with the pair on the receiving line ― if there is one ― or on the dance floor,' Farley said. 'A benefit of the former strategy is it all but guarantees getting to speak with both members of the couple at once, which may prove difficult or impossible once the reception begins.' Instead of a receiving line, many couples take time to make the rounds and greet every table during dinner. Similarly, consider this your designated moment to share your thanks and congratulations or get a photo together. Take cues from the couple. 'The best way to speak with the wedding couple is by being aware of your surroundings,' said Jodi R.R. Smith, president of Mannersmith Etiquette Consulting. Pay attention to what's going on. If you would like to have a slightly longer chat at some point, don't try to do it while the newlyweds are occupied, stressed out or en route to cut the cake. 'Take your cues from the couple,' Smith advised. 'If there is a crowd forming or if the couples' eyes are glazing, it is time to more along.' Say you look forward to catching up at a later date. The wedding reception is not really the time to have a full catch-up with the newly married couple, so if you want the the chance to have a proper conversation with them, mention that you'd love to get together sometime in the future. 'I would suggest for a wedding guest, you go up to the couple, offer your congratulations, say how beautiful the bride looks and then add something like 'Thank you so much for inviting us, we'll definitely have you and Jim over for dinner when you come back from your honeymoon!'' Whitmore said. Then give them a hug and carry on enjoying the rest of the event, food and dance floor with your fellow guests. You can reach out and make a concrete plan with the newlyweds at a later date. Accept that you might not get to talk at all. Etiquette guidelines dictate that newlyweds should try to greet all of their guests at some point during the event, but at larger weddings, people inevitably slip through the cracks. 'You may not get to talk with the bride or groom at all,' etiquette expert Juliet Mitchell, also known as Ms. J, told HuffPost. 'The wedding is a gathering of friends, family and sometimes associates. The bride and wedding planner have taken under consideration who will be there, where they will sit, dance, etc. so that they can interact, engage and socialize with each other. One-to-one conversation may not happen. Be OK with that, and if you are a friend, connect with them after the wedding. Don't worry about saying goodbye. Unless you happen to pass by them on your way out, you also don't have to have a farewell moment with the happy couple ― unless they specifically asked you to. 'Guests should not feel the need to say goodbye to the couple prior to leaving ― especially if they will be departing before the end of the night,' Farley said. 'Rather, an Irish exit is entirely appropriate here, letting the celebration and merriment continue without an external reminder that the night is drawing to a close.' Related... 15 Mistakes People Make In Wedding Speeches The Right Way To Tell Someone They're Not A Bridesmaid In Your Wedding Mariah Carey's 3-Word Take On Jeff Bezos' $50 Million Wedding Is Oh So Mariah Solve the daily Crossword
Daily Mail
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Inside Brittany Hockley and husband Ben Siegrist's lavish new Gold Coast dream home - as they reveal the odd reason why they won't be moving in anytime soon
Newlyweds Brittany Hockley and Ben Siegrist have purchased their 'dream home'. The happy couple tied the knot last month, and took to Instagram on Thursday to reveal their next major milestone. The Life Uncut Podcast host, 37, shared a series of photos and clips showing off the couple's swanky new pad on the Gold Coast. Known as The Casa Palma, the spacious-looking house, which features a large backyard, pool and spa, appears to be the perfect location for the couple to start their life together. Other photos showed the couple looking as loved-up as ever as they showed off their luxe purchase to followers. From A-list scandals and red carpet mishaps to exclusive pictures and viral moments, subscribe to the DailyMail's new showbiz newsletter to stay in the loop. Captioning the post, Brittany said she was excited to start cohabiting with Ben, as she lives in Melbourne while her goalkeeper hubby is currently playing for Genoa FC in the Italian Serie A. 'So happy to say we bought our dream home!!' she enthused. 'We may be living on opposite sides of the world chasing our own dreams, but we are working towards our future together and that's the most important thing.' Continuing her excited post, Brittany revealed that the couple bought the home on their wedding night. 'Married and a house this past month, what a time! (We actually bought this on our wedding night… must have been feeling the good vibes and/or had a few too many cocktails),' she joked. 'This is just the start. Can't wait to show you more! We love it.' The celebratory post was met with a flurry of congratulations from friends and followers. 'So stunning. Congratulations on another huge milestone,' one commented, echoing the sentiment of many. 'So happy to say we bought our dream home!!' she enthused. 'We may be living on opposite sides of the world chasing our own dreams, but we are working towards our future together and that's the most important thing' Brittany's former KIIS FM co-host Mitch Churi also chimed in with: 'show everyone my room, I dare you,' to which Brittany replied: 'Not yet. We will wait to do the big reveal.' Ben also took a subtle dig at Mitch, writing, 'Debating if a jetski might be better in that room.' However, Brittany's excitement was short-lived, with the podcaster later revealing that she will not be able to move into the new digs just yet. 'While this is a happy time and this is our dream home one day, I unfortunately won't be moving here now,' she shared on her Instagram story. While Brittany offered no reason for the sudden change of plans, she added that the home will definitely be put to work. 'I'll take you along the journey but sharing this now because this space will be available for photo shoots soon,' she said. Brittany married Ben in a luxe ceremony in Bali last month. The wedding took place at Pandawa Cliff Estate, which promises a 'dramatic and romantic clifftop setting overlooking the Indian Ocean', and stunning views of Bali's Bukit Peninsula. She was every bit the blushing bride on her big day, walking down the aisle in a strapless dress by Steven Khalil which featured a lace corset with a dramatic long train. Brittany and Ben gave followers a glimpse into the nuptials, sharing a duo of loved-up snaps from the big day on Instagram. One showed Ben romantically embracing his new bride as he leaned in for a newlywed kiss. The second showed the happy couple beaming as they held hands and hugged each other close. 'From the very first day, it was you,' Brittany captioned the images. 'Across any ocean, it is you. For the rest of our lives, it will always be you. Mr and Mrs Siegrist 4.6.2025,' she added, augmenting the sentiment with love-heart emojis.
The Guardian
5 days ago
- Lifestyle
- The Guardian
The best wedding gifts in the US: 64 thoughtful and fun ideas they'll actually want
Whether you're building your first online registry or a guest staring at someone else's wish list wondering what on earth to choose, coming up with the perfect wedding gift ideas can feel overwhelming. What makes the perfect present, anyway? The Guardian's journalism is independent. We will earn a commission if you buy something through an affiliate link. Learn more. When my husband and I got married in the red rocks of Moab, Utah this past May, we made a slightly controversial choice: no registry. Our guests were flying in from around the world, and we didn't want to ask for more. But months later, I found myself dreaming of all the things that would've made our newlywed life easier – like a really nice set of sheets or a monthly coffee bean delivery. For this guide to 64 wedding gifts with flair, I've drawn on insights from registry platform insiders, event planners, and editors at wedding publications – plus 11 recent (or soon-to-be) newlyweds who've been there and done that. It's also based on my own experience as a longtime reviewer of food and lifestyle products. I've learned that the best gifts don't all have to be expensive, made of plastic, or even brand new. As you'll see, there are so many ways to get a favorite couple something thoughtful – and unlikely to be duplicated. All prices current at the time of publication. Where Should We Begin – A Game of Stories $40 at Esther Perel$34.99 at Amazon It's easy to become consumed by wedding planning. These conversation cards are designed by relationship therapist Esther Perel and are a great way to reconnect after the big day – sparking connection, vulnerability, and the kind of stories you don't usually tell over dinner. Everyday bowls $44 at East Fork$44 at Urban Natural Home 'These beautiful North Carolina-made bowls come in a rainbow of colors and we truly use them every day,' says Margo Sivin, who married her partner in Hudson, New York last fall. Not only do East Fork dishes stand up to everyday life, the company also donates 1% of sales to grassroots partners such as Rural Organizing and Resilience (ROAR), which supported Hurricane Helene recovery. Vintage ceramic vases Varying prices on Etsy Alexander Rigby's mom gifted them a striking vintage hanging vase, adorned with what looks like a Mesoamerican-inspired design. 'We had tons of dried flowers at our wedding, so it worked really well to display some of the ones we kept,' says Rigby, who married his now-husband in Grove City, Pennsylvania last fall. Etsy is a wedding-gift goldmine. JBL Go 4 speaker $49.95 at JBL$49.99 at Best Buy For the soundtrack to adventures. My husband and I take this little guy everywhere – camping, road trips, and paddleboarding around Utah. It's waterproof and shockingly loud for the size. A small-but-mighty speaker that always comes through. Keith Haring chess set $38 at MoMA$55 at NYHistory Store Not your typical checkmate. Designed by Keith Haring and produced by Vilac for MoMA, game- and gallery-lovers will appreciate the quirky, energetic figures: barking dogs as pawns, castle-like human forms, and Haring's signature figures brimming with movement and joy. Home Depot gift card $5-$1,000 at Home Depot$25-$500 at Amazon Not the sexiest gift – but eminently useful for light fixtures, bathroom renovations, a compost setup, or anything else a newly nesting couple could want. Ross Yoder, who lives in New York and married in 2023, got one for Christmas and wishes he'd thought to add it to a wedding registry. 'It allowed us to mindfully splurge on the sink faucet of our dreams,' he says. Micola seafood side plate $12.95 at Anthropologie Cimran Virdi, who lives in Salt Lake City and is getting married this summer, is coveting these colorful sardine plates. They're dishwasher-safe, hand‑painted with whimsical motifs, and look like something swiped from a seaside café in Greece. HigherDOSE Serotonin Soak $25 at Sephora$39 at HigherDOSE For the couple who loves a long, luxurious soak. Though I can't comment on the brand's elaborate scientific claims, this blend of Zechstein salt, French green clay, and apple cider vinegar can create a moment of calm amid the whirlwind of logistics. King Arthur Brotforms $29.95 at King Arthur For couples who dream of crusty sourdough on lazy Sunday mornings, these beautiful baskets make it official. 'Employee-owned King Arthur Baking Company is our go-to for all things baking,' says Sivin. 'These brotforms, or proofing baskets, felt like a classic and special wedding gift.' Framebridge gift card $25–$1,000 at Framebridge Emily Forrest, recent newlywed and head of communications at Zola, an online wedding planning platform, used a registry cash fund to custom-frame one of her favorite wedding photos through Framebridge, an online service that makes it easy to turn meaningful moments into wall-worthy art. 'It now hangs beautifully in our bedroom,' she says. HAY door mat $50 at MoMA Design Store$46.70 at Finnish Design Shop It might sound too utilitarian, but this doormat from HAY is genuinely joyful. Made from durable jute and wool with bold colorblocking and contrast edging, it turns an everyday object into a subtle design flex. It's sturdy enough for snowy boots and chic enough for apartment entryways. BODHA smokeless incense $40 at BODHA$40 at Free People Each stick burns for 25 minutes without smoke, offering scents like Ground (cedar, hinoki, frankincense) and Calm (lavender, clary sage, rosewood). I love receiving incense. It's a reminder to unwind with my husband after our long workdays. Venchi Chocoviar Pistachio $15 at Venchi$42 at Amazon I used to treat myself to these little pistachio-filled Venchi chocolates every time I passed Eataly in New York, and they still feel like an indulgence. Creamy, crunchy, just the right amount of sweet – they make a regular Wednesday on the couch with my husband feel like a treat. Pressed Floral digital gift card $50-$600 at Pressed Floral 'This would be a nice way to memorialize the wedding flowers I'm spending a lot on,' says Virdi, who's still in the planning phase. A Pressed Floral gift card lets the couple turn their bouquets into lasting art or keepsake jewelry. Table for Two by Bre Graham $13.55 at Amazon$23.24 at A love letter to cooking. Full of intimate, unfussy recipes meant for slow mornings, date nights, and everything in between – this cookbook is romantic without being saccharine and makes you want to light a candle for no reason. Custom illustration Varying prices on Etsy One of Rigby's friends surprised them with a custom portrait by artist Dan Poharyskyi. Centered on a scene inspired by their engagement photo, the artwork also weaves in their favorite Pittsburgh spots, a playful likeness of their Portuguese water dog, Copper, and a sweet depiction of their home. Think about places, pets, or moments that matter most to your friends when commissioning illustrations – it's the kind of personal touch that makes a gift truly unforgettable. Sonya 5L Electric Dual-Sided Hot Pot $68.99 at Amazon$58.95 at Walmart Ben Grund, who's getting married in Brooklyn this September, grew up celebrating Chinese New Year with hot pot – a communal meal where a bubbling pot of broth sits at the center of the table and everyone cooks thin slices of meat, seafood, and vegetables right at the table. 'Some of my siblings have one, but we don't own one yet,' he says. This electric version is perfect for cozy dinners or festive feasts where everyone cooks together right at the table. Phaidon's The Silver Spoon $54.95 at Phaidon$54.95 at Barnes and Noble An iconic Italian cookbook filled with over 2,000 recipes. 'What's more fun for two people who like cooking than flipping through the pages and picking out new recipes to try together?' says Amanda Knuppel, who lives in Los Angeles and married her now-husband last spring. Misen 10-Inch stainless steel frying pan $99 at Misen$99.99 at Amazon 'That set of trendy pans in your registry is going to be toast in the next two years,' says Yoder. Instead, fry eggs on this professional-grade skillet for decades. It offers excellent heat retention and longevity – without the chemical coating that comes with many nonstick alternatives. 12-month History By Mail subscription $78 at Uncommon Goods$78 for one year at History by Mail For the pair who'd rather nerd out on revolutionary war love letters than binge reality TV, this subscription sends fascinating historical documents (and the stories behind them) right to their mailbox. Nothing says new love like spending an evening with Albert Einstein or the suffragettes. Dusen Dusen multicolor house stripe towel set $60 at SSENSE Made in Portugal, these ultra-plush cotton towels bring a bold pop of color to everyday life. The three-piece set includes two hand towels and a washcloth, all finished with Dusen Dusen's signature playful stripes. Ali Bonar, who lives in Cleveland and is marrying in Italy this summer, loves them for creating more 'magic in the mundane'. Viski Reserve European crystal wine decanter $56.24 at Nordstrom$23.99 at Amazon This elegant, lead‑free crystal decanter not only looks stunning – it gives wine room to breathe, unlocking richer aromas and smoother flavors. The decanter holds a full bottle (up to 65oz) and the thick crystal feels durable enough for regular use yet refined enough for dinner parties. Camelbak Hydration Pack $75 at Camelbak$44.72 at Amazon I hiked across Japan with one of these babies, and it never let me down. Durable and lightweight, it's ideal for the adventurous couple who'd always rather be on a trail. Atlas Coffee Club subscription $55-$189 at Atlas Coffee Club My husband and I can't agree on what's the correct shade of coffee, but we can agree on it being an essential part of our morning routine. Meaning: this is my dream wedding gift. Each month, Atlas Coffee sends beans from a new country, along with tasting notes and a postcard from the region. It's guaranteed to turn sleepy mornings into mini adventures. Jonathan Adler Versailles coaster set $85 at Jonathan Adler$59.99 at Amazon Equal parts functional and fabulous. 'We didn't really need anything home supply-wise, so it was fun to add artful pieces that spoke to our style,' says Caitlin Corcoran, who got married in New York City last fall. 'Bold, bright, and a great keepsake – they're always out on our coffee table for daily enjoyment.' Vintage cast iron cookware Varying prices on Etsy Cast iron only gets better with age, so why not let someone else do the hard work of seasoning it? Etsy is full of gorgeous old skillets and Dutch ovens that are virtually nonstick and ready to go. It's the kind of forever piece the couple can use for Sunday pancakes now – and pass down decades from today. Crate & Barrel Carson 12-inch acacia wood salad serving bowl $59.95 at Crate and Barrel Made from grained acacia wood, this serving bowl brings homey style to even the most last-minute dinner party. 'This gorgeous bowl is now a staple in my home,' says Forrest. 'It instantly elevates any bowl of mixed greens – even if you just poured them out of a plastic container and didn't tell your guests.' Addison Ross white enamel and gold frame $62 at Addison Ross$62 at Amazon A classic frame might not scream 'exciting gift', but it becomes deeply meaningful once the wedding photos come in. As Knuppel puts it: 'This was a sleeper that seemed like a boring choice at first but proved to be one of the more satisfying gifts when all the dust settled.' Milk Street Nakiri knife by Christopher Kimball $69.95 at Milk Street Store$49.95 at Amazon Now this is a knife. Inspired by Japanese vegetable knives, the thin, ultra-sharp blade makes quick work of everything from sweet potatoes to fresh herbs, while the well-shaped handle ensures comfort during long prep sessions. The Pantry Refresh $63 at Diaspora Co My favorite spice company, hands down. Diaspora Co partners with small farms across South Asia to source single-origin spices that are so fresh they'll ruin grocery store jars forever. Every spice is pesticide-free, regeneratively grown, and never irradiated, and the farmers are paid fair wages. This bundle comes with their six best-sellers, such as peppery turmeric and earthy coriander. Nature Spring round steel outdoor fire pit $99.95 at Target$80.93 at Lowe's There's something instantly festive about a fire pit – whether you're toasting marshmallows, gathering friends, or just stargazing in your backyard. 'I was skeptical when my husband added this to the list because it's not a typical registry item, but it was a game-changer and he was right,' says Knuppel. 'This is the thing that finally got us throwing barbecues.' Miami Fruit variety box $127 at Miami Fruit$129.95 at GoldBelly Packed with tropical gems you won't see at the local supermarket, Miami Fruit's curated boxes are a fun way to bring a little wanderlust into the kitchen. Each delivery is stuffed with sun-drenched tropical delicacies, such as velvety cherimoya, tangy starfruit, and guavas that taste like vacation. MacKenzie-Childs Courtly Check tea kettle $169.95 at MacKenzie-Childs$169.95 at Williams Sonoma Made from heavy-gauge enameled steel and hand-painted in a black-and-white check pattern with a bronzed rim and sculptural knob. Bonar says she's excited to use it 'for French press coffee or nightly tea'. (Note: not compatible with induction stoves.) One-year MasterClass subscription Starting at $120 per year at MasterClass From cooking with Thomas Keller to writing with Margaret Atwood, a MasterClass subscription is basically a backstage pass to bettering yourself (aka, the constant work of a marriage). This is the ultimate gift for couples who love learning together – or just want to binge Stanley Tucci talking about pasta on a lazy weekend date night. AeroGarden Harvest Elite $124.95 at AeroGarden in sage$56.01 at Amazon in stainless steel For couples who love the idea of growing tomatoes and fresh herbs but always forget to water them. This little indoor garden basically raises itself – just drop in the seed pods, add water, and let the built-in lights do their thing. It's like having a tiny farmers' market on your kitchen counter, year-round. Kelty Low loveseat $129.95 at Amazon$129.95 at REI When Moab-based wedding planner Lauren Larson married her partner last year, they opted for a honeymoon fund over a traditional registry. But one friend got it right with this portable two-seater camping chair they now take on every river trip. 'It was one of those camping comfort items that we would have never bought for ourselves,' says Larson. Fiddle leaf fig $149 at The Sill A classic for a reason. Virdi is eyeing this handsome houseplant, which adds instant character to any room with its big, glossy leaves – and grows right alongside the couple. Rena taper cast iron candle holders $119 at Pottery Barn These sculptural cast iron taper holders instantly warm up a room. 'Quirky candlesticks, or any other styling pieces for a dining tablescape, are a wonderful registry treat,' says Knuppel. 'Whenever we sit down with friends or family for dinner at our home, it feels like the person who gave us these is joining the feast.' Olympus Stylus Epic (Mju-II) From $150 on eBay My husband and I shoot a lot of film, and there's nothing like the surprise of seeing how our memories turn out weeks later. This tiny point-and-shoot camera is always available on secondhand sites such as eBay. And it's legendary for a reason: pocket-sized, weatherproof, and packs a shockingly sharp lens. Perfect for not overthinking the shot on the honeymoon. Nespresso VertuoPlus Deluxe coffee and espresso machine $199.99 at Nespresso$139.26 at Sur la table This multitasking machine brews both espresso and coffee with a single touch – and looks sleek doing it. 'My husband knows not to speak to me before my Nespresso is done,' says Forrest. 'This machine is an absolute must if, like me, you need coffee in your veins the second you wake up. It takes just a few clicks, and the coffee is so good.' (Are coffee pods worse for the environment than filter coffee? Surprisingly, perhaps not.) Susan Alexandra challah cover $130 at Susan Alexandra This hand-embroidered cotton challah cover brings personality to the Shabbat table. 'I liked this one because it's fancy without being too stuffy or formal,' says Bonar. Curly vase $195 at MoMA Design Store Whimsical without being twee, this sculptural glass vase makes even a single grocery-store tulip feel like a moment. A nice little reminder for a couple to buy flowers for each other. Fellow Stagg EKG Electric Kettle $199.95 at Fellow$165 at Amazon With its sleek gooseneck spout, minimalist silhouette and pinpoint temperature control, this cult-favorite kettle more than earns its reputation. I tried one at a friend's place recently and was instantly won over – it's fast, quiet, and surprisingly satisfying to use. Emile Henry large storage bowl in burgundy $189.40 at Amazon$199.95 at Emile Henry This is one of those classic kitchen gifts that's secretly genius. Made in France from Burgundy clay, the 4.7-quart ceramic base keeps produce fresh, while the cork lid doubles as a second serving or display bowl. Suga C2G yoga mat $189 at Suga For couples that flow together, this yoga mat is dense, grippy, and made from recycled wetsuits – perfect for their shared morning stretches or weekend classes. Plus if you purchase the 'cradle to grave' option, the company promises a replacement 'if your mat ever wears out'. Great Jones hot dish $105 at Great Jones I didn't expect to fall in love with a casserole dish, but here we are. My mother-in-law got me a Hot Dish for my birthday and it's sturdy, beautiful, and deceptively versatile – handling everything from baked pasta to crisped-up cobbler. It also feels fancy enough for dinner parties but gets just as much use on a random Tuesday night. Calpak Ambeur 20-inch Carry-On Spinner $215 at Zola$245 at Calpak Perfect for weekend getaways or honeymoon hauls, this compact carry-on features a durable hard-shell body and 360-degree spinner wheels. 'It's super light, which is perfect for me as I'm a chronic over-packer,' says Forrest. It's also expandable, in case you 'shop too much on vacation and you have to expand it for the way home (guilty)'. Brooklinen down comforter $254.15 at Brooklinen Plush and breathable, this cotton-shelled comforter will make the couple feel as though they're sleeping in a literal cloud. 'For the guests who underwrite it, just know that the newlyweds will think about you every night while they fall into a deep slumber,' says Yoder. Shark PowerDetect Clean & Empty IP3251 $429.99 at Amazon$429.99 at Shark Sivin listed a quality handheld vacuum in her registry. 'I think my parents still have their vacuum from the 90s,' she says, and she wanted one equally durable. The Guardian's top pick: the Shark IP3251, which comes with a base station that doubles as a stand and charging dock. The docking station doubles as a receptacle for the vacuum's contents, leaving it empty and ready for its next use. Sol Y Sombra coffee cup and saucer $480 at Amazon$480 at Grayson Living Designed by Christian Lacroix for Portuguese porcelain house Vista Alegre, these coffee cups are as much art as they are drinkware – featuring a butterfly hidden inside the cup. 'This is something I typically wouldn't splurge on in everyday life,' says Corcoran, but 'they'll become a part of a collection that we pass down to future generations'. KitchenAid Artisan stand mixer $379.99 at Amazon$379.99 at KitchenAid A design icon with serious utility, this five-quart stand mixer handles everything from bread dough to whipped cream with ease – and looks good doing it. 'This was a group gift from a handful of aunties,' says Knuppel. 'Despite loving to cook, at age 35 I didn't have a proper stand mixer. These days, I'm not sure how I lived without it.' Bless wooden extension cord $260 at SSENSE A gift for the couple who hate clutter. Crafted by Berlin-based design studio Bless, this artful extension cord turns a mundane household object into a centerpiece. White cables are threaded through polished wooden beads for a genius organization hack. Technivorm Moccamaster 53941 KBGV Select $349 at Amazon$359.95 at Williams Sonoma 'We make drip coffee every single morning – whoever's awake first usually starts the pot,' says Firkser. The Moccamaster has long been on their wish list. With a cone-shaped basket that draws out all the complexity of the beans and a hotplate that adjusts to how much you've brewed, it's a splurge-worthy upgrade. The Guardian also recommends it as the best option for drip coffee. Sabre Bistro flatware set (20 pieces) $479.95 at Williams SonomaFrom $322 at Sabre Paris This trés chic lineup, made in France, is also durable enough to toss in the dishwasher – and use for decades. 'Drinking glasses shatter, plates and bowls chip, but nice-ass cutlery is forever,' says Yoder. For a timeless table setting that won't need replacing, this is the set to beat. Crosley C62C turntable with speakers $214.95 at Amazon A modern take on a vintage essential, this two-speed turntable comes with built-in speakers and a sleek walnut veneer plinth – a nice pick for couples who have merged their vinyl collections. 'We've always wanted a record player, but never took the plunge,' says Corcoran. 'We added it to the registry and I'm so happy we did.' The Boardsmith Maple End Grain cutting board $240 at Amazon$230 at The Boardsmith Made in Texas from sustainably harvested hardwoods, this cutting board is beautiful, easy on knives and built for a lifetime. 'I didn't ask for this one, but I sure wish I did,' says Yoder. 'A well-made cutting board is the ultimate little luxury.' Vera Wang Wedgwood lace gold dinnerware set $490 at Macy's With delicate detailing, this dinnerware set can zhuzh up a celebration. 'I'm not a firm believer in the 'you must register for wedding china' lore,' says Forrest. 'But my grandmother passed down a set of gold wedding china to me, and it felt really special to register for a set that looked similar to hers that could sit on the same holiday table.' West Elm linen sheet set $269-$309 at West Elm Woven from European flax, these linen sheets get softer with every wash. As Kirsten Palladino, co-founder of the online LGBTQ+ magazine Equally Wed, puts it: 'If there's a wedding gift that I'd say everyone uses and appreciates, it's a set of high-quality sheets in a neutral color or pattern.' Hold Everything ironing board $219.95 at Williams Sonoma Who knew an ironing board could feel… stylish? This minimalist upgrade folds flat for easy storage, wheels effortlessly around the house, and looks good enough to leave out. A surprisingly luxe gift for couples who appreciate a crisp collar. Ooni Koda 12 gas pizza oven $399 at Amazon$399 at Ooni USA 'Once we're married, we really have to host some sick pizza nights,' says Virdi. The Ooni Koda is the secret: it runs on propane, heats up in minutes, and cranks out restaurant-level pies with perfectly blistered crusts. Compact and easy to store, it's the ideal sidekick for a woodsy weekend away. A spa day for the post-honeymoon crash It's the part no one warns you about: you get back from your dreamy honeymoon… and immediately feel like collapsing. 'An endless pile of thank-you cards to write! Back to work!' says Yoder. A spa day can help. A cash fund that buys core memories 'As a couple who has lived together for a few years pre-wedding – we really didn't need more stuff,' says Corcoran. So the couple added a handful of experience-based cash funds to their registry. One of the most memorable? A tea ceremony in Kyoto, where they 'learned about the traditional art of making matcha'. Sewing classes at a local craft store 'We wanted to allow people to give us the gift of experiences that are right in our backyard, so we asked for gift cards for classes at our local craft store, Beetle & Fred, in Beacon,' says Sivin. It's a sweet way to keep the fun of the wedding going long after the last slice of cake. Charitable donations Registry sites like Zola make it easy to steer guests toward good causes. 'Our instructions were pretty simple: no presents, just presence,' says Anikah Shaokat, who married her husband in New Orleans earlier this year. 'But if they were so inclined, we asked them to donate in our name to a list of organizations.' Many charities are assessed and rated at Charity Navigator. You could also choose a local cause that you know is close to the couple's heart. What makes a good wedding gift? 'I think the best wedding gift is the one the couple actually asked for,' says Forrest. Meaning, something on a registry, if a couple has one. She loves buying the most practical gift on the list, like a trash can or a steamer: 'So many guests worry that everyday items aren't as meaningful, but to me, the best gift is the one that will be used all the time.' Bonar, the Cleveland local who's getting married this July in Italy, puts it simply: 'To me, the best registry item is something you want, but wouldn't get for yourself.' These are the gifts that feel truly special because they represent a little luxury or upgrade the couple might not splurge on otherwise. How much should I spend on a wedding gift? This age-old question has plagued me before so many friends' weddings. And the annoying news? There's no single right answer. 'Find a gift that feels comfortable for your current financial situation,' says Palladino, of Equally Wed. It sounds obvious, but it's true. Forrest, who authors Zola's trend reports, suggests a practical range: 'Most guests aim to spend about $100 to $150 on a wedding gift, but that number definitely fluctuates depending on a variety of factors,' like what your relationship is like to the couple, whether you've already dished out for a shower, bachelor or bachelorette weekend, and how much you have to spend just to attend the wedding. Can I go rogue, or must I use the registry? Short answer: Unless you plan to give cash, which is always welcome, it's usually best to stick to the script. Forrest learned this lesson personally. 'Between my shower and my wedding, I got at least three cheese boards I didn't register for,' she says. 'And I've used zero of them, because I had already registered for the one I really wanted.' If you still want to buy something else, or there's nothing on the list within your budget, going rogue might make sense. Our list above should help. Ali Francis is a journalist and recent newlywed with extensive experience reviewing products for publications such as Self, Domino, and Bon Appétit. Her work often explores how what we buy connects to culture and identity. She lives in Salt Lake City, where she's authoring her forthcoming book, The Curious Lives of Vegetables.
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This Trend Is Transforming Wedding Food Culture For The Better
Whether you're attending a wedding as a family obligation, tagging along as someone's plus one, part of the wedding party, or, heck, even crashing a wedding, we've all had the same thought: "I hope the food is good." But sadly, the catering at weddings often ends up being, well, blah, and the couple getting married is probably thinking the same, considering they paid for everyone's lackluster meal! Enter the new trend in wedding food: late-night bites. After the dance floor opens up and the drinks start flowing, the wedding dinner quickly wears off, and suddenly everyone is ready to refuel with a midnight (or near midnight) snack. Not just any snack will do; we're talking down-to-earth eats that everyone can get behind: food trucks, pizza delivery, hamburgers from the top burger chain in the U.S., or creative food stands themed around the newlyweds' love story, like a taco bar in a nod to their first date at a Mexican restaurant. Adding a late-night bite to the evening's festivities is another way for the newly married couple to show their thanks, and it gives guests a more memorable experience of the night. It can also cloud out a disappointing wedding dinner, especially since food tastes better when you've had a little booze. And importantly, when something substantial is served, folks won't be drinking alcohol late into the night on an empty stomach. Read more: Bartenders Chime In On 12 Drink Orders That Ring Alarm Bells Late-Night Bites Don't Have To Break The Wedding Budget If you're planning a wedding, you might be wondering if it's worth tacking on more expenses. Believe it or not, late-night bites can actually fit into the couple's budget with just a few trade-offs. During cocktail hour, consider limiting the number of appetizers served to just two or three flavorful, high-quality dishes, making sure to follow the advice of chefs and skip these appetizers. Trimming down the number of courses served at the wedding dinner can also save money. Moreover, opting for a buffet-style meal tends to be even more cost-effective than plated wedding dinners. Additionally, avoiding a full open bar and letting guests cover the cost of their own drinks can save a serious amount of dough to put toward fun evening snacks. The type of late-night bite chosen can also have cost differences, but remember, not everyone on the guest list will partake, as some folks won't be hungry and others may not stay at the wedding until the very end. Late-night bites at weddings are a unique and delightful addition to the celebration, and their popularity continues to grow. Many married couples and wedding guests feel the experience of snacking on late-night bites is well worth it, provided that the dinner wasn't overly heavy, the timing made sense, and, of course, the snacks were tasty. For more food and drink goodness, join The Takeout's newsletter. Get taste tests, food & drink news, deals from your favorite chains, recipes, cooking tips, and more! Read the original article on The Takeout. Solve the daily Crossword
