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The Sun
03-08-2025
- Entertainment
- The Sun
My husband wants me to pretend to be his SISTER during sex and it's freaking me out – have our kinky games gone too far?
WHAT'S the weirdest thing you've ever been asked to do in bed? I've had some pretty out-there requests (even by my standards), but one still haunts me. 4 I'm all for roleplay, but an ex once asked me to be his stepmum — and since he actually had one who looked a bit like me, it creeped me out! So when I got this letter from a reader whose husband asked her to roleplay as his stepsister, it took me right back to that moment. She has my full sympathy. It's tricky to balance not kink-shaming with being comfortable in your own sex life - but I'm up for the challenge. I'm The Sun's Sexpert, and this week in my no-holds-barred sex series, I'll show you how to fend off an awkward kinky request without going back to boring sex. Q. A few months back, me and my hubby agreed to try out some role play to spice things up. We've been married for six years and sex had gone a bit stale. At first, it worked a treat and we were at it like rabbits, but now he's suggesting I pretend to be his stepsister and it's freaking me out! He assures me it's just a harmless common fetish and to be fair some of my mates have said the same, but to me it just feels weird - especially since he actually has a sister. I love my husband, we have a great marriage and I don't want to push him away in the bedroom just when things were heating up again. How can I steer him away from this fantasy without going back to the vanilla sex we had before? How can I bring up kinks with my partner? Georgie says: 'HAVING fantasies is completely normal, and I'm sure his stepsister one is innocent enough - but I understand why it's made you uncomfortable. It's a common theme in mainstream porn, so it's likely he's just picked it up from there and became fixated on the idea. That said, since he actually has a sister, it probably feels a bit too close to home for you — and that's valid. The key here is communication. Being open and honest is essential for great sex and a healthy relationship. How you respond will shape what happens next. You don't want to blurt out, 'God, that's creepy as hell, babe,' as that could make him shut down. He might start feeling ashamed or like a weirdo, and stop sharing things with you - which could cause issues both in and out of the bedroom. 4 That said, it's absolutely okay to say no. If something doesn't sit right with you, you shouldn't feel pressured to go along with it - and any decent partner should respect that. But just because you're not into this particular fantasy doesn't mean role play is off the table entirely. Here are my tips for keeping things exciting without going down that route… Secret fantasies Being able to say what you like and don't like is key to great sex - but how you say it matters just as much. It's important to create a safe space where your partner feels comfortable opening up. I love roleplay but an ex once asked me to be his stepmum and he actually had one who looked a bit like me! Georgie CulleySun Sexpert Never mock or laugh if they share an unusual kink or fantasy. Instead, use positive language - try something like: 'I love it when we do X, Y, Z, but I'm not really into that kind of roleplay. I'd be up for trying this instead…' It's all about keeping the conversation open, respectful, and focused on mutual pleasure. Set boundaries With any kind of kinky play, it's essential to set clear boundaries and agree on a safe word - something either of you can use to stop immediately if things become uncomfortable. Roleplay often involves exploring power dynamics, and can sometimes veer into BDSM territory. That's why having a safe word or signal in place is so important - it ensures both partners feel secure, respected, and in control at all times. What sent my ex wild Roleplay is a brilliant way to explore fantasies. For many, slipping into a uniform and taking on a different persona can help them fully embrace the part. An ex of mine went wild when I dressed up as a maid and spent the whole day teasing him — doing the housework in a skimpy outfit, but not letting him rip it off until later. It was the ultimate slow-burn foreplay, and it drove him mad in the best way. Make it fun by involving each other in the process — shop together for outfits (whether you're trying doctor and patient, police officer and defendant, or something else entirely) and see what sparks your interest. Do you enjoy being dominant, submissive, or a bit of both - known as a switch? Don't be afraid to experiment with different roles and, most importantly, enjoy the ride. Filthy fiction Stuck for ideas? Try watching an erotic film or steamy bonkbuster for inspiration. Fancy a Regency-style romp? Pop on Bridgerton for outfit ideas and boudoir makeover inspo. If TV's not your thing, pick up an erotic novel. Fifty Shades is a classic intro to BDSM, but there's a whole world of saucy books out there to spark your imagination. Want to up the ante? Take turns reading the naughtiest chapters aloud to each other - it's a guaranteed way to get in the mood. 'One night stands' with a twist If dressing up isn't your thing, don't worry - roleplay doesn't have to involve costumes. It can simply be about creating a new scenario. Taking sex out of the bedroom is a great way to shake things up, especially in a long-term relationship where you want to reignite that just met spark. One of my favourite roleplays is dressing up in a sexy outfit, heading to a bar, and having my partner meet me there as if we're strangers. He has to chat me up like it's a first date - then we book into a hotel for a cheeky 'one night stand'. It's playful, exciting, and adds a whole new energy to your sex life.
Yahoo
07-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Woman Considers Ending 6-Year Relationship After Boyfriend Picks a Music Festival Over Her Stepsister's Wedding
A 26-year-old woman is doubting her long-term relationship after being informed that her boyfriend wants to skip her stepsister's wedding for an annual music festival The woman and her boyfriend have dated for six years "We rarely argue but we've been arguing about a subject that neither one wants to budge on," she wroteA woman is having second thoughts about her relationship. A 26-year-old woman shared on Reddit's r/AmIOverreacting forum that she's doubting her long-term relationship after being informed that her boyfriend, 26, wants to skip her stepsister's wedding for an annual music festival. The woman began her post by stating that she and her high school sweetheart have dated for six years and lived together for three years. "We rarely argue but we've been arguing about a subject that neither one wants to budge on," she wrote. The poster continued to explain that her stepsister's wedding falls on the same day as a music festival that she and her boyfriend attend yearly. When she received the invitation, she made a comment about how they would not be able to attend the upcoming festival. At the time, her partner insisted that he was still going to the festival and she could attend the wedding alone. The woman thought her partner was joking and moved on. But later, their friends began to discuss buying tickets, during which her boyfriend informed the group that he already purchased his. When she asked him to elaborate, he told her, "I'm not missing the festival for the wedding." "I went for a walk with our dog to clear my head and when I came back, we had a big fight," she wrote. "I started by calmly telling him that he knew how much it would mean to me if he attended the wedding with me. My family would be asking why he wasn't there." According to the woman, her boyfriend said he "doesn't want to go" to the wedding. The comment prompted a major argument and she accused him of "being a child." "He doesn't even go to the festival for the music, but as an excuse to get extremely drunk for 3 days straight with our friends," she claimed of her boyfriend. The man replied, saying that "he would much rather be a child at the festival than to be bored at my step sister's wedding, because all of our family gatherings are 'boring.' " The argument led to the woman "sleeping on the couch for a week." The following week, the poster "broke down crying" over the situation and her partner comforted her. The two apologized and agreed to "work something out." The compromise the man came up with was that he'd go to the festival for a few days and then "grab a cab to the wedding and change in the bathroom at the courthouse." He planned on leaving the wedding early to return to the festival. "I didn't have words at first. He genuinely thought he came up with the best idea ever," she wrote. "After gathering my thoughts I asked: 'So you will be hungover, stinky from the campsite and won't even be there for the whole thing?' " The couple argued again, and the woman suggested that he commute to the wedding the evening before so he could get a good night's rest and a "proper shower." But he said he "doesn't want to miss out on Friday night because [he] and the boys came up with a new drinking challenge." As the argument progressed, the woman began crying and her boyfriend accused her of using her emotions "as a manipulation tactic." She decided to stay at her mother's house, and her parents are 'extremely pissed' at her boyfriend. Her stepfather has even commented that her boyfriend should not bother attending the wedding because he will "ruin" the event for her. "I agree with my step dad that he shouldn't attend at this point," she wrote. "I texted him yesterday to be at the festival and to not go to the wedding. He didn't reply. The festival starts today, so he's probably already drunk." The woman is now rethinking their relationship in fear that she is "not his first choice and I never will be." "I already looked at apartments and I think I'm done with him. But then I start overthinking and maybe I'm just blowing this out of proportion? Is this a good enough reason to break up with him? We've been together for six years and it feels a little silly to end it over something like this," she wrote, before asking if she's overreacting to the situation. In an update to the post, the poster said her boyfriend has texted her back to confirm that he will not be at the wedding. "We agreed to talk about the whole thing on Sunday in person. Until then I will be helping to set up the venue for my sister and focus on her. If there will be an update on Sunday, I'll post it, but until then I'm signing off," she concluded. People in the comments section are divided over who is wrong in the situation, although many agree that the two no longer seem to be compatible. One person wrote, "You're 6 years together, why is it soooooo difficult to skip a festival for 1 year? And even not that, just 1 or 2 days? Is It really that hard?" Another commentator admitted that they're "on the fence about this one." is now available in the Apple App Store! Download it now for the most binge-worthy celeb content, exclusive video clips, astrology updates and more! "On the one hand, dismissing his proffered compromise out of hand because of the scenario you created in your mind reads as controlling and unwilling to bend on your part. On the other hand, you've indicated in other comments that not prioritizing you or your relationship is a pattern for him," they wrote, before adding that the two seem to "just have different priorities in life." A third person added that her boyfriend may have a different perspective on family gatherings, "depending on how his life and family [were]." Another person acknowledged that "six years is a long time to be with someone" but added that they think their relationship "has probably run its course." "You've grown up and he has not. Never hold yourself back while waiting for someone to catch up," they wrote. Read the original article on People
