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Daily Mail
2 hours ago
- Daily Mail
Showjumper, 37, threw away mobile phone and burned mattress days before being arrested over threesome with rider, 26, and underage girl, court told
A showjumper threw away his mobile phone and burned his mattress just days before being arrested over having a threesome with an underage girl and a horse rider, a court was told. Horse-riding instructor Guy Simmonds, 37, and fellow rider Lauren Jarvis, 26, allegedly had sex with the schoolgirl in January last year despite knowing she was under 16. Simmonds, who ran a riding school in the Monmouthshire village of Undy, is accused of six counts of engaging in sexual activity with a child. His co-defendant Jarvis, from Newport, faces one count of the same offence. Both have denied all charges against them. The jury at Cardiff Crown Court was this week played a police interview in which Simmonds claimed he threw his phone away at a Tesco supermarket because it was broken. Simmonds also told police he either burned or threw away the mattress which the complainant alleges he abused her on in the back of his lorry because it was 'covered in faeces and urine from mice'. In the interview he claimed he did not know the girl, who is now 16, was going to be at Jarvis' home when he visited on the day of a 'so-called threesome'. But the court also heard he had sent Jarvis a text shortly beforehand asking: '[The child's name] there yet? Don't want to turn up the same time her mum drops her off.' As the interview turned to the subject of the texts, Simmonds answered 'no comment' to many questions. When the officer asked why he did not want to see the girl's mother, he claimed they'd 'had a few words' previously but declined to explain further. Simmonds had messaged Jarvis '5.30 for fun?' before the alleged sexual activity. When Jarvis wrote that the child had 'literally just walked in', he replied: 'I'll be five minutes.' After the alleged abuse, Simmonds texted Jarvis: 'You both loved that haha.' The court heard Jarvis went on to text him: 'Yeah, you missed round two [wink emoji] xx.' Simmonds answered 'no comment' when asked to explain the messages, before arguing that 'everything can be taken out of context'. Pressed on why he had sent the texts, he said: 'In hindsight I can't remember. It was nothing to do with having sex with [the child] or Lauren.' Earlier in the interview, Simmonds claimed he went to the house that day only to see Jarvis, and had not known the child would be there. 'They were just sort of having a girls' night, you know, films and stuff, which wasn't my scene,' he said. 'So I made my excuses and left after about 10 minutes.' Asked if he had thought it was strange Jarvis was spending time with someone so young, he replied: 'I think, especially with girls, you tend to have quite an age gap between, you know, friends. If they're just doing normal 'girly night in' things, to me it wouldn't be something to raise.' The girl alleges Simmonds took her into a horsebox on a number of occasions and penetrated her in the full knowledge she was underage. The court heard the abuse culminated in the 'so-called threesome'. In the police interview, Simmonds described Jarvis as a 'friend with benefits'. He said he had sex with her about four times but then 'thought better of it' and decided to 'concentrate on what I've got with my partner'. Simmonds claimed he could not have been 'any more frustrated' that days before his arrest he had thrown away his phone, which he alleged was broken. Asked if he had destroyed it to conceal evidence, he replied: 'I haven't.' The girl alleges he had intercourse with her on a mattress in the back of a lorry. Simmonds responded that he had only had sex with his partner on the mattress, which he claimed he had since burned or thrown away due to its condition. The interviewing officer also asked about a towel found in the lorry. Simmonds said this was likely to have his semen on it but that this would only have been because he handled it after masturbating. Asked if the towel would have the child's DNA on it, he replied: 'I don't know. She could have used it to dry her hands.' He went on to say people sometimes took shelter in the lorry when it was raining heavily. He was also quizzed on a message in which he told Jarvis: 'Hey, I have a feeling that [name of the child] has said about us. If anyone asks for sake of both of us nothing ever happened that night xx.' Jarvis replied: 'Hey, who's she told? Oh God has she really, what's she trying to do, make our lives hell? Of course I will xx.' Simmonds claimed he had sent this message because the girl had been 'texting everybody absolute c**p' and 'being a nuisance' in a row over other females whom she believed to be close to him. Asked why he was so worried about a 'teenage melodrama' that he decided to message Jarvis, he replied: 'I was just trying to get people to not carry on with this stuff.' He claimed police had been involved after the child allegedly harassed another female. The girl claimed she consented to have sex with Simmonds the first time but that 'the other times he would just sort of expect me to follow him and it would go from there'. Simmonds denies any sexual activity with her. She alleged there was an occasion when Simmonds was on top of her and he took out his phone. There was allegedly a flash from the phone, which made her feel 'adamant' he was 'having sex with me but obviously videoing at the same time'. Simmonds denies ever doing so. Simmonds also claims the victim lied about the encounter before creating bogus WhatsApp conversations after he rejected her. He said the girl may have used a 'pranking' app to create the messages or even messaged herself from another device while using his name. He said: 'I believe the messages to be fake.' When quizzed about his concerns about not turning up at the same time at her mother, he told the court he was only intending on having sex with Jarvis after the pair were involved in an affair - and he wanted to make sure he was not spotted. He said: 'It was solely because I was cheating on my partner and I know the girl and her mum knew my partner.' Simmonds told the court the girl had previously made him and his partner feel 'uncomfortable' by using 'inappropriate' language about sex. He said: 'There were rumours that she was telling people that I had been trying it on with her. I was worried. 'The horse world is very small. I wanted to keep my reputation. She was a very volatile person.' Prosecutor James Hartson said Simmonds added the underage teenage girl on Facebook and said: 'Thanks for accepting' before being told her age. The jury has heard how Simmonds wanted to give a £50,000 'pay off' to the family of the girl when he was arrested. He allegedly called his mother from prison to ask her to take £20,000 from his account to pay the family of the schoolgirl. A court heard Simmonds was recorded in phone calls saying: 'They are so fickle. Buying that f***ing mum will work. 'There is £20,000 in my account. Just f***ing give it to them. I don't care.' He added: '£20,000 now and then £10,000 a year for three years.' Earlier in the trial, prosecutor James Hartson told the jury the case was not one of rape nor of sexual assault but of sexual activity with a child, an offence enacted to 'protect children from sexual exploitation by adults and to protect them from themselves - it is as simple as that'. Jarvis denies any sexual activity took place involving herself and the schoolgirl, although she has alleged the girl wanted it to happen. Text messages on the subject were 'banter' and a 'wind up', according to Jarvis, who did accept having sex with Simmonds. Simmonds and Jarvis deny engaging in sexual activity with a child. The trial continues.
The Sun
2 days ago
- The Sun
Girlfriend dumped me after finding pictures on my phone I took during wild threesome – but I want her back
DEAR DEIDRE: STUPIDLY, I saved multiple screenshots and videos on my phone of naked girls and now I've been dumped yet again. I know I've got an issue. I've been viewing pornography since I was around 11 years old, when an older cousin showed me adult websites. I'm now 29 and I'd love a proper girlfriend, but I've only managed two decent relationships. The last one failed when my girlfriend found a secret file on my laptop. My latest girlfriend is 26 and we've had six months of bliss together. We met in a nightclub and all I could think about was having sex with her, but she kept me waiting for a long time. I knew she was good for me in that way. When we finally did it, I told her I loved her. I then did something stupid. I went to a club for a mate's birthday and I met a couple of girls. We went to a hotel and had a threesome. They let me take pictures of our wild night and I kept the images on my phone in case I was bored. Then my girlfriend began to get suspicious because I was guarding my phone. When she demanded to see it, I was hopeful I'd get away with it as there weren't any incriminating messages anywhere, and I hoped she wouldn't find my file. But she's pretty savvy with tech so immediately went to my secret file and found everything, complete with dates. Spotting the signs your partner is cheating She's the only girl I've felt so strongly about. I want her back. She went to a friend's house for a week and now says we are over for good. What can I do? DEIDRE SAYS: Compulsive behaviour and addictions can often have roots in childhood experience. If you started viewing pornography at 11, you may not have had boundaries or parents checking up on you. Now you are in over your head, which is spoiling your relationships. Make a pact with yourself that you'll get the help you need. You can find access to a free introductory course on pornography addiction through Pivotal ( If your girlfriend can see you're making strides to change, she may take you back but don't hold your breath. Work on yourself and your addiction first and, when you feel strong enough to avoid and resist acting up, then you will be in a much better place to build a long and lasting relationship. SICK AND TIRED OF MY MAN'S SNORING DEAR DEIDRE: ANGER is spoiling my relationship because I can never get a good night's sleep. My boyfriend snores like a freight train. I've got a stressful job in advertising. I often have early starts with clients and I need my eight hours a night. I'm lucky if I get five. I'm a woman of 33 and my boyfriend is 31. We have a great relationship in every other way but I'm so fed up with the piggy sounds that come from him at night – I'm seriously considering renting my own flat. I either lie awake and get cross, or I sleep on the sofa. My boyfriend feels terrible in the morning if I'm not beside him. He knows he's the problem. Perhaps I should get some sleeping tablets prescribed by my doctor. DEIDRE SAYS: It's your boyfriend who has the problem – not you. Sleeping pills are not the answer. There can be health risks attached to snoring, like sleep apnoea – taking a few seconds of subconsciously not breathing, which can be damaging. Tell him you're worried about him and suggest a check-up with his doctor. He can also find advice through the Sleep Apnoea Trust ( Drinking less alcohol can help if that is a factor and sometimes, it's as simple as losing a few pounds. My support pack called Stop Snoring explains more. DEAR DEIDRE: IF I know that sex is on the cards, I get so nervous that we cannot physically do it. My boyfriend's 23, I'm a woman aged 21. We've been going out for two years. We are together most of the time, either sleeping at his parents' home or mine, but it's not being in the family house that puts me off sex, it's the physical act of doing it. He's kind, caring and patient and after another failed attempt he says, 'Don't worry. We'll try again at the weekend'. I've tried lots of things to relax – warm baths, a glass of wine, even scented candles and low lighting when his parents have been on holiday, but nothing helps. It's all in my head but I know that if I can't find a way of lessening the anxiety, my boyfriend will not hang around forever. I'm not being fair to him. Can you help? DEIDRE SAYS: Do you know why you feel so tense? Was there an early sexual experience that was upsetting for you, or perhaps a friend or family member warned you that it would hurt? Sex may be a little uncomfortable the first time, but it is supposed to be fun. The vagina can increase enough to give birth to a baby so physically, most people are capable, but if you have some mental block to relaxing, your body and vagina will simply say 'no'. My support packs called Exciting Foreplay and First Time Fears will give you tips on how best to relax. NERVES MAKE IT IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO HAVE SEX DEAR DEIDRE: WOULD putting a needle through our condoms enable me to have the baby I'm longing for? I'm not a woman who feels her biological clock is ticking – I'm a man. I'm actually a gay man but I've suppressed my feelings for all of my life. I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend who is clueless about the real me. I care for her but she doesn't excite me like a man would. I can't stop these feelings of wanting to be a dad, though. It's my dream. I have even considered that we have a 'contraception failure' and I'd encourage her to go ahead with the pregnancy, but then I feel horrible for even thinking about it. This whole situation is overwhelming. I'm not happy in my relationship because I know I'm not being authentic. My girlfriend is 28 and lovely. She talks about 'putting a ring on it' and what sort of a wedding she'd like, but there's no way I am going to pop the question any time soon. I'm a fraud and I'm living a life of lies. I wish I was a straight guy and could be happy. The people at work have started to notice I'm down. I don't know how much longer I can put up with living like this. If I come out, I might never have the chance to be a father. DEIDRE SAYS: Your focus on being a parent is keeping you tied to your girlfriend. It isn't fair. Gay men become fathers through adoption, fostering and surrogacy, your sexuality needn't stop you. It's not easy to come out, especially if your family hold old-fashioned views, but start by getting some help with your confidence through LGBT ( 0345 3 30 30 30), a charity that offers help for those in the LGBTQ community. My support pack Ending A Relationship will help you to bring things to a close with your girlfriend in the kindest way possible.
The Sun
2 days ago
- Entertainment
- The Sun
Dejon's embarrassed mum tells him off about threesome confession as Love Islanders Meet The Parents
DEJON'S embarrassed mum told him off about his threesome confession in the latest twist. On Love Island, viewers will see the loved ones of the contestants enter the villa as the infamous 'Meet The Parents' segment returns. 5 5 Dejon Noel-Williams will be left most shocked of all as both his mum Demelza and sister Gene show up in Majorca. This is alongside Meg Moore's mum Nathalie and her sister Paige who arrive on the ITV2 set together. In unison, Meg's family excitedly yell out on the sprawling summer set: 'Where's 'our Meg'?' However, when the trio sit down, Meg's sister demanded answers as she told her sibling: "You let him get away with a lot though." Simultaneously, Dejon's family also sit with him for their own dressing down after his actions on the show. His mother Demelza exclaimed: "In the beginning it was like you had verbal diarrhoea. "No mother needs to hear about your threesomes and how much you looooooove sex." She continued: "I just wanted to go, 'Shut up!'," which left him practically speechless. Demelza added: "You're a big flirt, didn't know that." Dejon didn't seem to warm up to his family's remarks as he gave a stiff reply to their prodding. Love Island lad slammed for being a 'red flag' after 'worrying' intro video He sarcastically joked: "You lot just come in to cook me or what?" But his own sibling insisted that he 'needed' to hear their viewpoint, and their words came from a place of affection. Gene explained: "We've been watching you for the last how many weeks - you need this feedback!' Meg then puts a serious question to her own family as she pondered: "Does everyone like D or just wary of him?" Love Island 2025 full lineup Harry Cooksley: A 30-year-old footballer with charm to spare. Shakira Khan: A 22-year-old Manchester-based model, ready to turn heads. Megan Moore: A payroll specialist from Southampton, looking for someone tall and stylish. Alima Gagigo: International business graduate with brains and ambition. Tommy Bradley: A gym enthusiast with a big heart. Helena Ford: A Londoner with celebrity connections, aiming to find someone funny or Northern. Ben Holbrough: A model ready to make waves. Dejon Noel-Williams: A personal trainer and semi-pro footballer, following in his footballer father's footsteps. Aaron Buckett: A towering 6'5' personal trainer. Conor Phillips: A 25-year-old Irish rugby pro. Antonia Laites: Love Island's first bombshell revealed as sexy Las Vegas pool party waitress. Yasmin Pettet: The 24-year-old bombshell hails from London and works as a commercial banking executive. Emily Moran: Bombshell Welsh brunette from the same town as Love Island 2024 alumni Nicole Samuel. Harrison Solomon: Pro footballer and model entering Love Island 2025 as a bombshell. Giorgio Russo: The 30-year-old will be spending his summer in the sun, potentially his sister Alessia's successful tournament at the Euros in Switzerland. Yaz Broom: Professional DJ from Manchester who appeared on X Factor 2016 in girl group Four of Diamonds. Andrada Pop: Miss Bikini Ireland 2019 winner who hails from Dublin and works as a nail technician and personal trainer. Emma Munro: Harry Cooksley's ex who entered as a bombshell and works as a hydrogeologist. Departures: Kyle Ashman: Axed after an arrest over a machete attack emerged. He was released with no further action taken and denies any wrongdoing. Sophie Lee: A model and motivational speaker who has overcome adversity after suffering life-changing burns in an accident. Blu Chegini: A boxer with striking model looks, seeking love in the villa. Malisha Jordan: A teaching assistant from Broxbourne, Hertfordshire, who entered Love Island 2025 as a bombshell. Shea Mannings: Works as a scaffolder day-to-day and plays semi-pro football on the side. Caprice Alexandra: The 26-year-old bombshell owns a nursery in Romford. Poppy Harrison: The bombshell broke up with her boyfriend after finding out she would be in the villa Will Means: The fourth fittest farmer in the UK according to Farmers' Weekly in 2023 entered the villa as a bombshell Megan Clarke: An Irish actress part of the OG line-up. Remell Mullins: Boasts over 18million likes and 500k followers on TikTok thanks to his sizzling body transformation videos. Alima Gagigo: 23-year-old personal banker from Glasgow who fancies herself as a 'good flirt'. Ryan Bannister: 27-year-old gym hunk who entered the show as a bombshell. But will she get the answers that she's looking for? When Yasmin Pettet first entered the villa as a bombshell, she threw her hat in the ring for Dejon with a shocking sexual trio offer. She asked him: 'Would you ever have a threesome with me and Toni?' Toni Laites was completely shocked Dejon was so surprised by the remarks at the time that he nearly spat out his drink. 5 5
Daily Mail
3 days ago
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
'I don't get jealous watching my husband have sex with other women - I find it attractive!' How a couple discovered a passion for polyamory after settling in the countryside
On a dull Tuesday afternoon in 2019, the businesswoman and author Evie Sage turned up at an ordinary shopping centre with an extraordinary mission: to meet the woman she and her husband had arranged to have a threesome with. It was the first time they'd organised such a thing, and Sage's state of mind was understandably anxious. In a Starbucks, they found the woman they'd been messaging online, and made small talk, avoiding the elephant in the room. 'Shall we do this?' the woman finally asked.
Daily Mail
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Me, You, Them by Evie Sage: I don't get jealous watching my husband have sex with other women. I find it attractive!
Me, You, Them by Evie Sage (Michael Joseph £20, 304pp) On a dull Tuesday afternoon in 2019, the businesswoman and author Evie Sage turned up at an ordinary shopping centre with an extraordinary mission: to meet the woman she and her husband had arranged to have a threesome with. It was the first time they'd organised such a thing, and Sage's state of mind was understandably anxious. In a Starbucks, they found the woman they'd been messaging online, and made small talk, avoiding the elephant in the room. 'Shall we do this?' the woman finally asked. They agreed and headed, all three, to a Travelodge by a motorway, where they enthusiastically got down to the matter at hand. In her eye-opening and unashamedly steamy memoir, Sage (not her real name) explains what led to that Travelodge tryst, and recounts the sexual adventures that came afterwards. She was, she writes, a high-achieving girl, who grew up in a nice house with a loving family. But she was soon yearning for more – as a teenager she wrote in her diary: 'Do not accept an ordinary life.' And though she basked in the attention of boys, her first love was a girl: a classmate who was rebellious and 'stop-traffic good-looking'. The girls spent all their time together, doing normal stuff best friends do (clubbing, drinking, hanging out) along with quite a bit of not-so-standard stuff (kissing, buying sex toys together, falling asleep in each other's arms). But their bond was tested when they went to different universities, and Sage met the man who was to become her husband. When the pair got married, he and Sage moved to a farmhouse close to his parents in the Scottish countryside, and readied themselves for an idyllic country life full of home-cooked bread and children reared in the great outdoors. But the children never arrived – and once Sage had moved from grief about her and her husband's inability to conceive, to acceptance, she set about building a new life: one relieved of responsibility, and bent around the fulfilment of her and her husband's desires. The book skips back and forth in time, and unsurprisingly, the bits set after Sage's sexual awakening are rather more absorbing than those set before. At a sex party in London, she leads a woman into a large cage, and has her way with her in front of the woman's husband, as well as her own (both men end up joining in). At another party, a white pill is presented to Sage on a silver tray; she takes it, and eventually allows an Amazonian 'giantess' wearing long patent boots to whip her so ferociously her mind 'goes blank', but the feeling is 'delicious, clear', she writes. At yet another gathering, she and her husband meet a couple who invite them to join their holiday in Ibiza. The couple take them out on a boat to a cave lapped by azure waves, where Sage gets to know her male host very well indeed, and finds the acoustics of the cave to her liking. The book tackles many of the questions you'd have if your friend told you she'd embraced polyamory. No, Sage doesn't get jealous: she feels her husband's attention is usually partly on her, even if he is physically with someone else; in fact he becomes more attractive to her when she sees him attracting (and administering to) other women. Yes, sometimes she just doesn't fancy the people she has organised to have sex with, and it can be awkward. No, her family doesn't know (she is tempted to tell her kindly father, but realises she never will). And yes, there is a split between Sage's normal self and the self she is at orgies. Sage and her husband run a cottage rental and wedding business, and quite a bit of the book is given over to descriptions of how they got the business up and running. Their clients have no idea what they get up to. After one party in London, she washes her underwear in the sink and hangs it indoors, rather than let it dry outside where people staying in the cottages might see it. It's not that she isn't proud, she explains; she just wants the privacy 'to explore this new adventure alone'. All this adventuring does bring odd moments of peril. At one rather yucky get-together in a private house, Sage is repelled by the advances of a man in a hot tub, who tries to get to work on her in full view of the house next door. (Afterwards, she goes looking for her husband – and finds him under a pile of three women. 'Just checking he's still alive,' she trills at them.) At a hotel meet-up with another couple, a man puts his penis inside her without asking and without a condom. The violation shakes her, and she goes to the bathroom. 'In the mirror, I see a whore, with bleary, smudgy eyes and slutty lingerie', she writes. These moments aside, Sage argues that her new life has freed her in a number of ways: from the responsibility of being 'the sole keeper' of her husband's pleasure, from the conventional life she grew up dreading, from feelings of insecurity. There's nothing like striding through a packed room in your underwear to boost your 'inner confidence', she notes. And, she writes, she and her husband are still very much in love. Yet she knows this sexual gallivanting won't last forever. Some day, she writes, when she and her husband are 'old and tired' and sitting in rocking chairs on a veranda, they will turn to each other and say: 'Do you remember when…'
