5 tips to correctly apologise after an argument, without compromising your views
Arguments, whether with a friend, partner or family member, can leave a lasting emotional toll. From the Oasis Brothers (thankfully, we are getting that reunion!) to Taylor Swift and Kanye's long-standing tension and even the public fallout between Prince Harry and the royal family, celebrity feuds remind us that unresolved conflicts can stretch on for years.
However, whether in the spotlight or behind closed doors, knowing how to apologise effectively can make all the difference in moving forward. To shed light on the power of a sincere apology, Mental Health Expert Stephen Buchwald of Manhattan Mental Health (a leading provider of therapy and counselling services) shared his insights on how to apologise effectively while maintaining your own perspective.
'As humans, we crave connection, but pride often gets in the way. A genuine apology does not automatically translate to giving in. It is a catalyst to acknowledging emotions in a healthy way and eventually fostering healing.'
Apologising does not mean admitting fault for everything. Simply put, it is acknowledging the other person's emotions while staying true to your own.
According to Stephen Buchwald, here's how to do it effectively:
Holding onto resentment or guilt can be emotionally draining. Studies show that genuine apologies can reduce stress, improve relationships and even boost self-esteem.
Stephen Buchwald said, 'Apologising allows both parties to move forward. It lightens the emotional burden and promotes inner peace.' Whether it is a family dispute, a disagreement with a friend, or even a workplace conflict, knowing how to apologise the right way can make all the difference and if you are struggling with communication, seeking professional support can help you navigate emotional challenges with confidence.
As the Oasis feud reminds us, unresolved arguments can last a lifetime but with the right approach, making amends does not have to mean losing yourself! If anything, it means valuing connection over conflict.
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