28 Trends That Are Sadly Fading From Society
So when Reddit user koshurkoor1 asked, "What is slowly disappearing from society that you hate to see go?" it sent me spiralling straight into early 2000s nostalgia. I started thinking about all the little things my future kids might never experience the same way — and honestly, "don't love that." I'm curious if you've had similar musings. So, without further ado, here are some of the most-missed gems from the good ol' days…
"Doing hobbies just for fun. Everything is seen as a side hustle now. If you bake, people ask if you're selling. If you draw, they ask if you're taking commissions. Some things should just exist because they make you happy."
"Dressing to go out in public. I remember when people got dressed up to go 'in town' or 'downtown.' The amount of night clothes, pyjamas, or slippers I see when I go outside is astounding. People can't be bothered to get dressed."
"Human cashiers."
"Nuance. It's nearly impossible for someone to state an opinion without someone twisting it into the most uncharitable interpretation of it. This makes discussion nearly impossible."
"Kids playing outside."
"Local music scenes, and all ages scenes. In the '80s and '90s, we could pack 500 people into a venue, most of them being under eighteen. Youth like music, too."
"Colour in architecture. All the houses are black, gray, and white. Absolutely ugly."
"Creativity. Almost everything is AI now."
"The front porch. Most houses used to have them. They were a place where family and neighbours would sit and talk. Now newer houses don't have them. That particular type of socialization is almost gone."
"Third spaces. For many, it's just home and work now."
"Patience. Everyone wants instant everything now."
"When did it become commonplace not to use headphones in public? The endless sound loops of social media on full blast on public transit? Guess this falls under common decency."
"Privacy. Both digital and real-life. I think it's important to be able to make it in life without giving it all away, still being able to keep healthy boundaries, and sharing things on your own terms. You know, peace and privacy."
"The job market. It's just so hard to get a good job."
"Having spatial awareness about those around you. Stop staring down at your phone and pay attention when you're walking."
"The art of courting and seducing someone. Just like "Video Killed the Radio Star," IMO, the internet killed romance."
"Using basic manners, especially in shared spaces."
"One's ability to own a home. The cost of living and low wages are slowly pricing us out of owning a home."
"Literacy. If it doesn't have an emoji or an acronym, it's not worth reading, writing, or saying."
"A sense of community and knowing your neighbours. Just being a part of something larger."
"Basic respect. People just talk to each other in any kind of way now, like it's normal."
"Attention spans. We need everything immediately; nobody reads books anymore. The TikTokification of information has changed how we view everything."
"Empathy."
"Critical thinking skills."
"Trust. Lying has become commonplace and consequence-free."
"The ability to keep your thoughts in your head and not blurt them out."
"Integrity."
And lastly: "Driving respectfully. It feels like everyone is in such a rush that they disregard everyone else on the road. I'm legitimately terrified to drive on the highway during rush hour now."
Tell me in the comments or the anonymous form below: what's disappearing (or has already disappeared) from society that makes you want to scream, 'NOOOO! STAY!!'? For me, I miss burning CDs and listening to them so much that I knew what song was coming next. Endless shuffled playlists just don't hit the same. I want to tie a moment in time to a perfect mixtape like I did as a teen.
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