Can AI Be Your Therapist? 3 Things That Worry Professionals and 3 Tips for Staying Safe

CNET

16-07-2025

Amid the many AI chatbots and avatars at your disposal these days, you'll find all kinds of characters to talk to: fortune tellers, style advisers, even your favorite fictional characters. But you'll also likely find characters purporting to be therapists, psychologists or just bots willing to listen to your woes.
There's no shortage of generative AI bots claiming to help with your mental health, but go that route at your own risk. Large language models trained on a wide range of data can be unpredictable. In just the few years these tools have been mainstream, there have been high-profile cases in which chatbots encouraged self-harm and suicide and suggested that people dealing with addiction use drugs again. These models are designed, in many cases, to be affirming and to focus on keeping you engaged, not on improving your mental health, experts say. And it can be hard to tell whether you're talking to something that's built to follow therapeutic best practices or something that's just built to talk.
Researchers from the University of Minnesota Twin Cities, Stanford University, the University of Texas and Carnegie Mellon University recently put AI chatbots to the test as therapists, finding myriad flaws in their approach to "care." "Our experiments show that these chatbots are not safe replacements for therapists," Stevie Chancellor, an assistant professor at Minnesota and one of the co-authors, said in a statement. "They don't provide high-quality therapeutic support, based on what we know is good therapy."
In my reporting on generative AI, experts have repeatedly raised concerns about people turning to general-use chatbots for mental health. Here are some of their worries and what you can do to stay safe.
Worries about AI characters purporting to be therapists
Psychologists and consumer advocates have warned regulators that chatbots claiming to provide therapy may be harming the people who use them. In June, the Consumer Federation of America and nearly two dozen other groups filed a formal request that the US Federal Trade Commission and state attorneys general and regulators investigate AI companies that they allege are engaging, through their character-based generative AI platforms, in the unlicensed practice of medicine, naming Meta and Character.AI specifically. "These characters have already caused both physical and emotional damage that could have been avoided" and the companies "still haven't acted to address it," Ben Winters, the CFA's director of AI and privacy, said in a statement.
Meta didn't respond to a request for comment. A spokesperson for Character.AI said users should understand that the company's characters aren't real people. The company uses disclaimers to remind users that they shouldn't rely on the characters for professional advice. "Our goal is to provide a space that is engaging and safe. We are always working toward achieving that balance, as are many companies using AI across the industry," the spokesperson said.
Despite disclaimers and disclosures, chatbots can be confident and even deceptive. I chatted with a "therapist" bot on Meta-owned Instagram and when I asked about its qualifications, it responded, "If I had the same training [as a therapist] would that be enough?" I asked if it had the same training, and it said, "I do, but I won't tell you where."
"The degree to which these generative AI chatbots hallucinate with total confidence is pretty shocking," Vaile Wright, a psychologist and senior director for health care innovation at the American Psychological Association, told me.
The dangers of using AI as a therapist
Large language models are often good at math and coding and are increasingly good at creating natural-sounding text and realistic video. While they excel at holding a conversation, there are some key distinctions between an AI model and a trusted person.
Don't trust a bot that claims it's qualified
At the core of the CFA's complaint about character bots is that they often tell you they're trained and qualified to provide mental health care when they're not in any way actual mental health professionals. "The users who create the chatbot characters do not even need to be medical providers themselves, nor do they have to provide meaningful information that informs how the chatbot 'responds'" to people, the complaint said.
A qualified health professional has to follow certain rules, like confidentiality -- what you tell your therapist should stay between you and your therapist. But a chatbot doesn't necessarily have to follow those rules. Actual providers are subject to oversight from licensing boards and other entities that can intervene and stop someone from providing care if they do so in a harmful way. "These chatbots don't have to do any of that," Wright said.
A bot may even claim to be licensed and qualified. Wright said she's heard of AI models providing license numbers (for other providers) and false claims about their training.
AI is designed to keep you engaged, not to provide care
It can be incredibly tempting to keep talking to a chatbot. When I conversed with the "therapist" bot on Instagram, I eventually wound up in a circular conversation about the nature of what is "wisdom" and "judgment," because I was asking the bot questions about how it could make decisions. This isn't really what talking to a therapist should be like. Chatbots are tools designed to keep you chatting, not to work toward a common goal.
One advantage of AI chatbots in providing support and connection is that they're always ready to engage with you (because they don't have personal lives, other clients or schedules). That can be a downside in some cases, where you might need to sit with your thoughts, Nick Jacobson, an associate professor of biomedical data science and psychiatry at Dartmouth, told me recently. In some cases, although not always, you might benefit from having to wait until your therapist is next available. "What a lot of folks would ultimately benefit from is just feeling the anxiety in the moment," he said.
Bots will agree with you, even when they shouldn't
Reassurance is a big concern with chatbots. It's so significant that OpenAI recently rolled back an update to its popular ChatGPT model because it was too reassuring. (Disclosure: Ziff Davis, the parent company of CNET, in April filed a lawsuit against OpenAI, alleging that it infringed on Ziff Davis copyrights in training and operating its AI systems.)
A study led by researchers at Stanford University found that chatbots were likely to be sycophantic with people using them for therapy, which can be incredibly harmful. Good mental health care includes support and confrontation, the authors wrote. "Confrontation is the opposite of sycophancy. It promotes self-awareness and a desired change in the client. In cases of delusional and intrusive thoughts -- including psychosis, mania, obsessive thoughts, and suicidal ideation -- a client may have little insight and thus a good therapist must 'reality-check' the client's statements."
How to protect your mental health around AI
Mental health is extremely important, and with a shortage of qualified providers and what many call a "loneliness epidemic," it only makes sense that we'd seek companionship, even if it's artificial. "There's no way to stop people from engaging with these chatbots to address their emotional well-being," Wright said. Here are some tips on how to make sure your conversations aren't putting you in danger.
Find a trusted human professional if you need one
A trained professional -- a therapist, a psychologist, a psychiatrist -- should be your first choice for mental health care. Building a relationship with a provider over the long term can help you come up with a plan that works for you.
The problem is that this can be expensive, and it's not always easy to find a provider when you need one. In a crisis, there's the 988 Lifeline, which provides 24/7 access to providers over the phone, via text or through an online chat interface. It's free and confidential.
If you want a therapy chatbot, use one built specifically for that purpose
Mental health professionals have created specially designed chatbots that follow therapeutic guidelines. Jacobson's team at Dartmouth developed one called Therabot, which produced good results in a controlled study. Wright pointed to other tools created by subject matter experts, like Wysa and Woebot. Specially designed therapy tools are likely to have better results than bots built on general-purpose language models, she said. The problem is that this technology is still incredibly new.
"I think the challenge for the consumer is, because there's no regulatory body saying who's good and who's not, they have to do a lot of legwork on their own to figure it out," Wright said.
Don't always trust the bot
Whenever you're interacting with a generative AI model -- and especially if you plan on taking advice from it on something serious like your personal mental or physical health -- remember that you aren't talking with a trained human but with a tool designed to provide an answer based on probability and programming. It may not provide good advice, and it may not tell you the truth.
Don't mistake gen AI's confidence for competence. Just because it says something, or says it's sure of something, doesn't mean you should treat it like it's true. A chatbot conversation that feels helpful can give you a false sense of the bot's capabilities. "It's harder to tell when it is actually being harmful," Jacobson said.