What Is a Micro Wedding? Here's Everything You Need to Know About This Rising Trend
Planning a wedding is a huge undertaking—and an equally large investment. As a result, you and your partner may find yourself questioning the size of your affair. Instead of inviting hundreds of friends and family members to your nuptials, you may decide to host a more pared-back celebration, specifically when it comes to the guest list. Rather than issuing invites to distant relatives and former co-workers, a micro wedding allows you to simply invite your closest loved ones to the occasion. And as a result, you're typically able to save thousands of dollars, which you can then put toward other aspects of your big day or your future together.
Meet the Expert
Beth Helmstetter is the founder and creative director of Beth Helmstetter Events.
Alicia Fritz is the founder of A Day in May.
Annie Lee is the principal planner at Daughter of Design.
In addition to saving you a bit of money, a micro wedding allows you to spend quality time with loved ones on your big day—something that is much more difficult at a 300-person celebration. "A micro wedding can breathe," says Beth Helmstetter, the founder and creative director of Beth Helmstetter Evetns. "The day isn't about moving 200 people from ceremony to cocktail hour in 20 minutes. It's about building in moments for conversation, for quiet, for soaking in where you are and who you're with." Ultimately, a smaller guest list may offer you the ideal way to tie the knot with your partner, allowing you to just focus on the aspects you truly care about.
Curious about the essential components of a micro wedding? Here, we asked the experts to break them down. Read on for everything you need to know about such a celebration.
Related: The Ultimate Wedding-Planning Checklist and Timeline
What Is a Micro Wedding?
"At its heart, a micro wedding is an intimate gathering, typically 20 to 50 guests, where the focus is about connection and intimacy," says Helmstetter. However, even though such a celebration may have fewer attendees than a traditional ceremony, the intention, design, and experience may be amplified, she adds. By inviting only a small group of loved ones to your big day, you'll be able to put more of your budget toward other aspects of your nuptials.
Why Micro Weddings Are Currently Trending
Micro weddings became incredibly popular during the COVID-19 pandemic, allowing couples to say "I do" in front of just a handful of loved ones. However, experts believe that these smaller celebrations are here to stay. "The pandemic may have sparked the initial shift, but couples quickly discovered the joy of being fully present with every guest, and that's not something people want to give up," Helmstetter says.
5 Key Components of a Micro Wedding
While every celebration is unique, there are five key components that tend to appear at every micro wedding. Here, the experts break down the significance of each one.
A Unique Venue
"The best micro wedding venues feel like a natural extension of the couple's life together," Helmstetter says. "It could be a centuries-old Italian villa, a hidden beach cove, or a chic private home." With a pared-back guest list, more options are available to you—from the bar where you had your first date to the backyard of your childhood home. The venue you select can also help you determine exactly how many invites you have to give. "If it's your favorite restaurant, for example, find out the capacity of their private dining room, then cut down your guest list until there is space for everyone at the table," says Annie Lee, the principal planner at Daughter of Design.
An Emphasis on the Food
Due to their size, micro weddings can often take on the feel of a decadent dinner party. "Food and drink should feel like a central part of the story," Helmstetter says. Alicia Fritz, the founder of A Day in May, agrees, reiterating the importance of making such an affair feel personal to you and your interests. "With a smaller wedding, you may choose to put emphasis on the dining experience with thoughtful wine or cocktail pairings, and service ratios that allow guests to be cared for at a nearly one-to-one level," she says.
Intricate Designs
By reducing the number of loved ones invited to your nuptials, you may find yourself able to spend more on other areas, such as décor. Fritz notes that with a micro wedding, your designs can often become more labor-intensive. Maybe you opt for hand-painted menus or select custom furniture pieces. You also may integrate more personalized touches into your big day. "Rather than starting with a color palette, I often encourage couples to begin with meaning," Helmstetter says. "Incorporate heirlooms, pieces from your travels, textiles that have a history."
A Focus on the Guest Experience
A micro wedding includes only your closest family members and friends—the people who you truly couldn't imagine not being there. As a result, there's often even more of a focus on the guest experience. "Because each attendee has been hand-selected with care and intention, amenities and comforts can be elevated as well, such as luxury transportation, curated welcome gifts, handwritten notes, or even bespoke excursions," Fritz says.
A Different Relationship With Key Vendors
Even with a micro wedding, you'll likely still want to have a photographer, a sweet treat, and beautiful linens. However, with a more intimate celebration, the role of these key vendors will look a little different than they do at a traditional affair. For example, you'll likely have a shorter shot list for your photographer—and may opt for a treat from your favorite bakery instead of a multi-tier cake. As a result, negotiate rates with your vendors based on your specific needs. Looking for extra support in doing so—without breaking your budget? Consider hiring a planner on an hourly basis, Lee says.
Frequently asked Questions
How much does a micro wedding cost?
As with all weddings, the cost of a micro wedding depends on your personal choices. Typically, you can expect the cost to be at least 50 percent less than that of a traditional wedding.
What are the benefits of a micro wedding?
Reduced costs are the biggest benefit of a micro wedding. The smaller scope of the event, particularly in terms of guest count, also lends itself to greater intimacy and a more meaningful experience with guests.
How many people attend a micro wedding?
Typically, a micro wedding includes a guest list of no more than 50 people.
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