Hiker films an ‘amazing and terrifying' encounter with a mountain lion
'I have been hiking in Ojai for over 15 years and had never come across a mountain lion before,' Courtney Rasura told Edhat Santa Barbara.
Fortunately, she knew what to do during the encounter. She didn't run, and kept talking to it, instructing the cougar to 'go away' and repeatedly saying 'no, no, no.' She even gave out a roar.
Rasura captured the close encounter on video, and Edhat posted it on Instagram.
On Thursday, Rasura had been hiking Gridley Trail for around four miles and hadn't seen anyone else. She told Edhat she usually plays a podcast when hiking alone on certain parts of the trail to alert wild animals.
When she returned into cellphone range, she was looking at her phone, then glanced up and saw a mountain lion coming toward her. She started taking video.
'I was really hoping my yelling would make it go away, which it did, but after it retreated into a bush, it came back onto the trail.'
And it slowly walked toward her, looking at her, before deciding to exit the trail and climb the hillside. He retreated out of sight in some bushes.
Rasura passed by while looking over her shoulder to make sure the mountain lion wasn't following her.
'It was an amazing and terrifying experience all at the same time,' Rasura told Edhat.
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