Love Lost After 50: France's New 'Gray Divorce' Wave
With less social pressure, more financial autonomy for women and more opportunities to meet new people, there are many reasons for French couples in their 50s and 60s to separate — and to take pride in their decision.
They loved each other dearly, but they won't grow old together. They've spent decades side by side, often raising children, building assets, enduring setbacks, overcoming trials and tribulations. And then, one day, on the brink of retirement, that love faded. According to a 2021 study by the French Institute for Demographic Studies (Ined), the proportion of divorces involving women over 50 has tripled in 20 years, jumping from 11% in 1996 to 29% in 2016. For men, it rose from 17% to 38%. Separations between couples aged 60 and over have also tripled, to 10% of the total.
'The 'gray divorce' marks a cultural shift,' explains sociologist Serge Guérin, a specialist in ageing-related issues. 'It reveals a desire to build a new version of oneself — to live better, not just longer.'
Far from being 'perceived as a failure,' what is now known as 'gray divorce' — a reference to graying hair — once a rare occurrence, has become 'a normal turning point in the lives of many French people,' notes a survey…
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