The Hero Inside: The Sacred Energy of a Father's Love

IOL News

11-06-2025

Anolene Thangavelu Pillay is a psychology advisor with a post graduate degree in psychology from Howard Campus, University of KwaZulu-Natal.
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AHEAD of Father's Day, I want to share a story rooted in both science and heart—a reflection of my journey through loss, love, and resilience.
It might sound almost magical but recent scientific insights affirm what I've always sensed: my father's love continues to serve as an invisible shield, protecting me even when he's not physically here—beyond his body, reaching into a deeper energy that connects us.
I call it my 'protective shield'—an energetic frequency of love that persists beyond his presence. It's a force that anchors me, guiding me through storms and quiet moments alike.
Science suggests that our bonds are more than memories; they're imprints etched into our neural pathways—the connections in our brains that store habits and responses—special kinds of energy that carry our feelings long after those we love are gone.
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What if love, rather than a fleeting emotion, is a living, dynamic force—a sacred energy shaping us from within, beyond physical boundaries?
Behavioral medicine shows how relational influences leave lasting neural imprints that help us handle stress, build confidence, and stay resilient.
These pathways form the foundation of our inner universe and are adaptable, capable of change—paving the way for healing and strength across generations.
What if our neural wiring—and unseen frequencies—serve as an anchor, a lasting link rooted in sacred love and respect?
This invites us into a realm where energy and connection transcend the physical. Love, as a vibration—a wave of energetic resonance—shapes who we are long after the physical presence is gone.
It becomes more than a memory; it's a living force—an internal compass guiding us like a lighthouse in the darkness.
A quiet, persistent energy that supports us through storms and helps us embrace our quirks, illuminating our inner cosmic pattern.
Like a warm fireplace, love maintains bonds of connection, offering comfort and light even in the darkest nights.
Can a father's protective shield transcend time and space? Science confirms that early relationships leave indelible imprints on our brains—neural pathways that influence how we manage stress, develop confidence, and build resilience.
Even when a father is no longer physically here, the love and safety he provided can continue to regulate our emotions.
This enduring, energetic support—what I call the 'protective shield'—persists beyond childhood, helping us navigate adversity.
Recognising this opens new possibilities for fostering resilience within ourselves and future generations.
What if love isn't just a feeling or memory but an active, living force—a sacred energy that continues to shape and sustain us?
Seeing love as a living, energetic force transforms our understanding of grief and healing. It invites us to ask: how can this perspective help us feel more resilient and deeply connected—even in loneliness?
My father's sacred love still flows through my words and thoughts, inspiring hope rooted in resilience, love, and sacred connection.
In this emerging paradigm—where sacred love and modern science converge—I see love not merely as an emotion but as a universal frequency—a sacred energy that influences, guides, and unites us across the fabric of time and space.
Ultimately, I believe that understanding and harnessing these invisible energies—these sacred loves and resilient forces—is vital.
By recognising how love and energy shape our inner worlds, we lay a strong foundation for future generations rooted in sacred love, respect, and unity.
This is the legacy we build—one that uplifts, heals, and sustains the future.
Dad, thank you for sharing a part of your brilliance; keeping me safe within your protective shield is enough for me to find my way back to you.
Today, I fully piece together the fragments of my father's sacred love, allowing it to flow through my writing, inspire my words, shape my thoughts, and fuel my hope for a future rooted in resilience, love, and sacred connection.
By embracing love as a sacred, energetic force, we can revolutionise our understanding of resilience and healing.
This paradigm shift invites us to see love not just as a fleeting emotion or memory but as an active, living energy—an invisible blueprint that shapes our collective evolution.
When future generations consciously nurture these sacred bonds, we transform individual well-being into a resilient, interconnected society.
Imagine a world where love's energetic blueprint is deliberately cultivated—creating communities rooted in respect, empathy, and unity.
Recognising love as a living force, empowers us to reimagine human evolution, guiding us toward a brighter, more connected future—one built on the enduring power of sacred love.
Wishing all dads a day filled with love, gratitude and the recognition of the sacred energy you gift us every day. Happy Father's Day!
*The opinions expressed in this article does not necessarily reflect the views of the newspaper.
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