MAFS UK groom bravely reveals he's an alcoholic in emotional post after TV split
Ross made history on the show as its first deaf groom, but he broke Sacha's heart after struggling with his anger issues.
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The reality TV star has since turned his life around – and found new love with a girlfriend Magda.
In a powerful message to fans, Ross revealed that he's 65 days sober and determined never to go back.
In an emotional post, he shared: 'For everyone who's been asking me about this book – what is it, and what's it done for me – well, here you go.
'I'm finally ready to share it with the world, because I'm more stable now, and my mindset is stronger than ever.
'So yeah… I'm an alcoholic.
'And I'm proud to say that out loud now, because back then, I couldn't.'
Ross credited a life-changing book and the unwavering support of his loved ones for helping him on his journey to sobriety.
'This book has changed my life in so many positive ways.
'I'm beyond thankful to my family and loved ones for putting it in front of me. I know I've been hard work at times, but you stuck by me – and now, I'm in a place where I wake up genuinely happy every single day.
'To be honest, I never read books before. I got the easy-to-read version because I wanted to really give it a go. I've never been great with big words, but this book blew me away.'
MAFS star reveals 15-year gambling addiction and admits he's been through a 'dark time'
Ross explained that he was finally ready to open up about his struggles because his mindset had changed.
'Today, I believe in God. I thank Him every day for where I am now. That's why, in a previous video, I said: You are not on your own. You're NOT on your own.
'I'm 65 days sober – and I've made a promise to myself: I'm never going back. I'm done for good.'
Ross's brave confession comes after his fiery split from Sacha on the show, where tensions flared after he was caught messaging another bride following explosive rows with Sacha.
It was claimed Ross had been secretly messaging fellow show star Erica Roberts.
But now, Ross has turned over a new leaf – and fans are rallying around his powerful message of hope.
Fans thanked him for his honest post, and one replied to his post: Congratulations Tough but worthwhile journey. I'm trudging that road too ODAAT"
Another said: "Love this so much! So brave of you to share. It will be a journey but one you will not regret. I'm 161 days xx"
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