Guest at Highlands wedding travelled 16 hours to be asked to leave
A woman who travelled 16 hours to attend a friend's Scottish wedding was left gobsmacked when she was asked to leave post-ceremony.
The guest was buzzing in anticipation of the event, which was being hosted by her workmate. However, her elation turned to humiliation when she was unceremoniously told to exit following the ceremony.
Writing on Reddit, she said: "I was absolutely mortified." She had relished the beautiful ceremony alongside another colleague, eagerly awaiting the chance to snap photos with the bride and settle in for the wedding breakfast.
But upon arrival at the reception, she was met with bewilderment as her name was absent from the seating plan.
She continued: "We get to the venue and like everyone else are checking the table plan for our seats, and still checking, but can't find our names. The Master of Ceremonies comes over and asks to see our invites. He flatly states we were only invited to the church and evening drinks and that we need to leave. It was in tiny small print that our invite wasn't for the meal."
Following the mortifying mix-up, the wedding attendee and her mate promptly "slipped away".
She continued: "Neither my colleague nor I had realised we weren't included in the whole event and the bride later let it slip she only invited people from the office because our boss had told her it was the polite thing to do. We had thought we were friends with her."
Still dressed to the nines, the duo opted to hunt down a nearby café in the Highlands to kill some time for the following five hours, while the remaining guests celebrated.
The Reddit poster continued: "We found a local greasy spoon and have a bacon roll and tea, then decide to go back to the bed and breakfast to freshen up. The lady was furious and tried to feed us up bless her. She then drove us back to the evening ceremony at 7pm.
"By this point everyone at the venue was sloppy drunk as they'd been drinking for five hours, and we find out we were the only ' evening guests '."
The pair attempted to have a good time but departed the wedding at 10pm.
She remarked: "We got a lift from a kind local and went to a local bar where we were entertained by more locals who had heard of our fate from the BandB owner.
"We had the breakfast of gods the next morning and were told if we ever go back to be assured that is not how the local people treat their guests. We had ended up having a fun night because of the locals. They really did save the day in more ways than one."
The guest said she now gleaned a lesson from her ordeal, adding: "I now scrutinise wedding invites and if I'm only invited to the evening part that's cool but at least I'm informed."
However, she did get her own back. She elaborated: "We had put £50 each in the card envelope and chipped in for a beautiful bedding set on her registry at Debenhams so our gifts were worth £100 each. We took the money out of the card and just gave her the bedding."
The wedding blunder sparked hundreds of comments from Reddit users. One person opined: "It is just rude to invite a person to the morning and the evening part but not the eating part. Either you invite them to all or only evening. This grinds my gears!".
Another chimed in: "My cousin did that. We still talk about how inconsiderate it was years later, so much that when my fiancé and I decided on an afternoon ceremony, that was one of the reasons."
"Well that is really rude," another said.
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