Upskirted, assaulted, accused of faking their music skills: Why female DJs need to be 'bulletproof'

Sky News

27-04-2025

To see Koven's Katie Boyle perform live is beyond impressive. Hailing from Luton, she is one of the most influential women in drum 'n' bass today, an artist who pioneered the art of singing live while DJing.
Although she's now been doing it for 12 years, her vast knowledge doesn't silence the trolls online.
"There is a real bad misogyny online against women," she says of the industry, with plenty of critics refusing to "believe they're doing what they say they're doing, and that's been quite a hard thing to combat".
Koven is a duo. In the studio, Boyle collaborates with producer Max Rowat; live, she performs and mixes alone. They have just released their second album, Moments In Everglow.
While both Boyle and Rowat are equally involved in making tracks, a minority of very vocal fans still refuse to accept she does anything other than sing.
"I will always be accused of the male half doing more on anything to do with technology," says Boyle. "The amount of comments [I get] to say, 'she didn't make this'. No explanation as to why they think that it is, just purely because [I'm] a woman, which is just mad."
While Boyle loves performing live, there are moments, she admits, where being one of the few women on the scene can feel unsafe.
"I've had some awful incidences," she says. "I had someone run on stage and completely grab me, hand down my top, down my trousers, while I was on the stage, which is crazy because you think that's happening in front of an audience. I mean, this guy literally had to be plied off me.
"That was when I did think, 'I need to bring someone with me to most places'. I didn't feel safe travelling around by myself."
'You get trolled for everything'
Sadly, Boyle isn't alone. Over a 30-year career, DJ Paulette has scaled the heights of dance music fame, playing throughout Europe, with a residency back in the day at Manchester's Hacienda.
"Let's just say I have two towels on my rider and it's not just because I sweat a lot," she jokes, miming a whack for those around her.
"I've spent time in DJ booths where I've had a skirt on and people have been taking pictures up my skirt. People think upskirting is a joke... and I got fed up with it." Wearing shorts, she says, she still ended with "people with their hands all over me". Now, she sticks to trousers. "But we shouldn't have to alter the way we look for the environment that we work in."
She admits, in order to stick it out, she's had to bulletproof herself. "You get trolled for everything, for the way you look - if you put on weight, if you've lost weight."
Not only is the discourse towards female DJs different online, she says, she has also been repeatedly told by those working in the industry that because she's a woman, she has a sell-by date.
"I went for dinner with three guys... one of them said to me, 'you know Paulette there is no promoter or organiser who is ever going to employ a black female DJ with grey hair', and they all laughed.
"That was them saying to me that my career was over, and I was in my 40s. At the time, I felt crushed... I think it really does take women who have a real steel will to make their way through."
'I will not stop talking about it'
As the great and the good of the dance world gather in Ibiza for the industry's annual International Music Summit, with dance music more popular than ever there is of course much to party about.
But for BBC Radio 1 broadcaster and DJ Jaguar, one of this year's summit's cohosts, some serious conversations also need to be had.
"You can get off the plane and look at the billboards around Ibiza and it's basically white men - David Guetta, Calvin Harris, and they are incredible artists in their own right - but the women headliners, there's barely any visibility of them, it's awful."
She adds: "I will not stop talking about it because it is the reality."
Trolling and safety are also big concerns. "You're in these green rooms, there's a lot of people there, drinking and doing other things... and I've walked into green rooms where I felt incredibly uncomfortable, especially when I was a bit younger. I was on my own, it's like 2am, and you have to watch yourself."
Male DJs don't have the same stories
She says she has female friends who have had drinks spiked when they were DJing. But her male friends? "They don't have the same stories to tell me."
Creamfields, arguably the UK's biggest dance festival, is emblematic of the gender imbalance. It remains one of the least representative festivals in terms of female artists, with last year's line-up more than 80% male.
Laila MacKenzie, founder of Lady Of The House, a community that supports and tries to encourage more women into dance music, says the talent pipeline problem isn't helped by the current discourse online.
"There is a real damaging factor how people can be really nasty online and really nasty in the media and how that actually may discourage and demotivate women from stepping forward into their talent," she says.
In reality, for so many women working within dance music, the trolling can be so unpleasant that it's drowning out the good.
"There is so much positivity and so many lovely and supportive people," says Boyle. "But unfortunately it feels like the negative and the toxic energy is just louder sometimes."