Confirmed! Mary Kom says divorced under Kom customary law; refutes buzz of any other relationship

Hindustan Times

01-05-2025

Days after Hindustan Times first reported separation between Olympic medalist MC Mary Kom and her husband Karung Onkholer Kom (popularly known as Onler), the boxing icon has publicly confirmed the development.
In a post on her X (formerly Twitter) account, the six-time world champion shared a two-page letter, which appeared on an advocate's letterhead, 'in response to the Hindustan Times article…' and the subsequent media coverage surrounding her personal life.
Mary Kom's statement reveals that she and Onler have, indeed, parted ways. The divorce, as per the statement, was finalized on December 20, 2023, with mutual consent under Kom custoary laws. It was carried out in accordance with traditional practices, in the presence of both families and elders, who served as the adjudicating authorities. Mary and Onler married in 2005 and have four kids together.
Earlier, Hindustan Times had reported that Mary Kom and Onler had been living separately and that she was facing personal difficulties.
The statement acknowledges the emotional toll the past few years have taken on the athlete. "Over the past two years, my client has been navigating a deeply challenging time in her personal life, particularly with her ex-husband," the statement reads.
The same statement addresses the rumors about her relationship status. 'The rumors regarding my client's relationship with Mr. Hitesh Choudhary or being involved with another boxer's husband are completely unfounded. These claims should not be propagated by any media platform,' it reads.
Mary and Onler's met in 2000 in Delhi, when Onler, then a student in Delhi, came to Mary's aid after she lost her luggage en route to a competition. The couple married in 2005, welcomed twin sons in 2007, another son in 2013, and adopted a daughter in 2018—a move Mary had long hoped for, saying she always wanted to raise a daughter.
Reportedly, Onler, a trained footballer, chose to step away from his own sporting career to support Mary's dreams, often managing the home and children while she trained and competed. Over the years, Mary has publicly credited Onler as her pillar of strength.
'He's my pillar, my backbone,' she once said in an interview, reflecting on his support throughout her boxing career.
Both Mary and Onler have four kids — twin sons born in 2007, another son born in 2013, and in 2018, they adopted a daughter.
The Padma Vibhushan boxer was also appointed the Member of Parliament in 2016. She has several national honours to her name, including the Arjuna Award. She was awarded the Padma Shri (2006), the Padma Bhusan (2013), Padma Vibhushan (2020). She also runs the Mary Kom Regional Boxing Foundation.