When the price isn't listed, I ask. So should you.
If an item doesn't have a price, I will make sure to find out what it is. But, honestly, sometimes it's awkward to ask.
Recently, I was eating lunch with a friend. I was going to surprise her and pay for her meal.
I asked the server about the daily specials and decided to order a branzino dish. My friend liked it as well and mentioned she might order it, too.
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