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Asking Eric: Husband's emotional affair upends relationship

Asking Eric: Husband's emotional affair upends relationship

Dear Eric: Several months ago, I discovered my husband was having an emotional affair with a co-worker. He shared significant things with her he didn't share with me, sought her advice on how to hide his alcohol abuse from me and talked to her about our arguments, while she fueled the negativity against me and trashed me. He also discussed intimate details of our sex life with her which I never consented to being shared.
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