Weddings Are Having a Main Character Moment

Los Angeles Times

3 days ago

Let's be honest. Weddings have always had a flair for the dramatic. But in 2025 that flair comes with a director, a mood board and probably a scene-by-scene breakdown. Couples aren't just planning a ceremony, they're producing an experience. We're officially in the made-for-streaming era of weddings.
Pop culture isn't just showing up in the reception playlist anymore. It's shaping the entire vibe. Whether the energy is romantic, moody, regal or bold, today's weddings feel more like a fully developed storyline than a one-day event. I've seen mood boards with lighting cues, wardrobe notes and playlists labeled 'Act I' through 'Finale.' Couples aren't recreating specific movies, but they're definitely pulling from the same creative playbook.
Let's start with Bridgerton. That show kicked off a full-blown return to garden opulence: overgrown florals, embroidered linens, pastel palettes and string quartets playing SZA. It's maximalism with a wink. Romantic, styled and intentionally over-the-top in a way that feels less like a theme and more like a fantasy brought to life.
On the opposite end of the spectrum? Euphoria-inspired after-parties. These aren't your typical reception wind-downs. We're talking bold lighting, glitter bars, vinyl DJs and second looks that wouldn't be out of place in a music video. The dance floor doesn't just open. It makes an entrance.
Then there's The Great Gatsby. It never really went out of style, but couples are giving it a fresh take. Less flapper, more elevated indulgence. Think blackout lighting, mirrored bars, metallic fringe ceilings and champagne towers that never go out of style. It's a modern Roaring '20s moment: sharp, jazzy, and ready for its close-up.
Now let's talk about Coming to America. One of my all-time favorites. The cultural impact? Unmatched. I've seen couples draw from the joy and power of that iconic wedding scene—gold accents, African drumming, bold custom fashion and entrances that feel like coronations. For many, this isn't about creating a theme. It's about honoring heritage with presence and pride.
Yes, the fashion is rising to meet the moment. Brides are going for sculptural gowns, gloves, capes and color. Some are pulling second looks from vintage dealers or layering heirloom jewelry into modern silhouettes. Grooms are stepping up too with velvet tuxedos, monochromatic looks, and pearls. The black tux isn't gone, but it's definitely not the only option anymore.
Even the planning process has shifted. We used to build color palettes. Now we're building worlds. Couples are referencing film lighting, album visuals editorial shoots, and anything that helps create a wedding that feels layered and personal. It's not about replicating a storyline. It's about matching the mood.
The common thread in all of this? Intention and personality. Today's weddings are about showing up fully. Not just in style, but in emotion and detail. Couples want their day to feel personal, expressive and immersive. And if that means borrowing a little screen magic to bring it to life? Even better.