Hema Malini was ‘considering' Sanjeev Kumar's marriage proposal, said no when he turned up in chappals and kurta-pyjama, recalls Aruna Irani
The actress described how Hema Malini was herself considering the proposal but was dissuaded by Kumar's lack of style and presence. 'Hema ji was really trying to go ahead with it… she was mustering the courage… but when she saw him like that, those slippers… that kurta, and that pyjama… there was absolutely no style.' She further added, 'Ek toh waise bhi unki personality bilkul style ki nahi thi… aur kapde bhi waise pehne the… toh sab locha padh gaya.' (To begin with, his personality wasn't stylish at all… and the way he dressed just made things worse.)
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To those unaware, Sanjeev Kumar, known for his deeply emotional portrayals on screen, led a personal life marked by solitude. He never married and passed away in 1985 at the age of 47. One of his most well-known romantic connections was with Hema Malini, and many believed they were close to tying the knot. Their relationship reportedly began during the filming of Seeta Aur Geeta (1972). According to the biography An Actor's Actor by Hanif Zaveri and Sumant Batra, their bond blossomed while shooting the song 'Hawa Ke Saath Saath,' where they were seen skating together on the scenic roads of Mahabaleshwar. The book claims Kumar was serious about marrying Hema.
However, there was resistance on both sides. Sanjeev Kumar's mother, Shantaben, was initially reluctant about her son marrying an actress. But Hema Malini, known for her humility and grace, gradually won her over. Yet the relationship fell apart over a fundamental disagreement. Hema Malini's mother, Jaya Chakravarthy, was adamant that her daughter continue her acting career post-marriage. The Jariwala family, including Sanjeev and Shantaben, could not agree to this condition. The dream ended there. In 1980, Hema Malini married actor Dharmendra. The couple has two daughters, Esha and Ahana Deol.
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