Oxford University student decided to get a routine body check-up at 26. What doctors found changed her world forever. 'I had big dreams ...'

Time of India

3 days ago

Grieving Dreams and Facing Reality
Brutality of Treatment and Flickers of Strength
Embracing Scars and Rebuilding Life
At just 26, a young woman who had never touched a cigarette in her life was blindsided by a diagnosis that most wouldn't expect—Stage 3 lung cancer. The woman, now a cancer survivor and a student at Oxford University, shared her incredible journey with Humans of Bombay. Through a post shared by the publication's Instagram handle, she narrated her story. At the time she received the devastating news, she was employed as a research assistant at a hospital in Tamil Nadu. Life felt stable, and she was simply focused on building a future. One day, she scheduled a general health check-up , more as a precaution than a necessity. It was meant to be routine, just another box to tick. But what followed completely disrupted her sense of normal.Instead of receiving a clean bill of health, she was informed that her condition was severe and required immediate attention. With no obvious risk factors and no symptoms to hint at anything being wrong, the diagnosis hit like a thunderclap. Alone and overwhelmed, she found herself weeping in the hospital chapel—not because she knew what lay ahead, but because of the uncertainty that had suddenly engulfed her future."I remember crying alone in the hospital chapel for an hour. Not because I understood what was coming…but because I didn't. I had big dreams; there was so I wanted to do… & here I'd just been handed a word that threatened to take everything away..." she wrote.She found herself unable to confront her parents with the news. Having just begun to find her independence, the idea of becoming a burden was unbearable. Instead, she confided in her brother, who then broke the news to the rest of the family. They all rallied around her quickly, though none quite knew how to process what was happening. The next few days passed in a blur of medical tests and emotional numbness. Every moment felt suffocating, and the weight of decisions left her emotionally depleted. Even beginning chemotherapy seemed like an impossible task.That was when a close friend stepped in with a practical solution—he would take charge of the research, make the necessary medical decisions, and allow her to focus on healing, mentally and emotionally. This marked the turning point. She finally agreed to start chemotherapy.What followed was a brutal phase. The treatment took a visible toll—she lost 10 kilograms and developed painful skin eruptions. Mirrors at home were all covered because she couldn't bear to see her reflection. In those darkest nights, she sometimes questioned whether life was still worth the struggle. But somehow, from the innermost corners of her being and from the unwavering support of loved ones, she found reasons to keep going.And then, against all odds, hope returned. The tumour began to shrink. Surgery became a viable option. On December 15th, surgeons opened her chest and removed the tumour. For the first time since the ordeal began, she felt like a victor. She had reclaimed a part of her life.Now, two and a half years later, she continues to live with the emotional and physical remnants of her battle. The scars haven't faded, but her resilience has only grown stronger. Her idea of hope has evolved—sometimes it's just showing up for another scan, and sometimes, it's applying to Oxford University… and earning admission.Though cancer tried to steal her health and derail her dreams, it couldn't extinguish her resolve. Her will to rebuild, her quiet defiance against despair, and her inner fire carried her through. Today, as she walks the grounds of Oxford, she stands as a testament to human strength—not just survival, but revival.