Malaika Arora on co-parenting son Arhaan with ex Arbaaz: We have our boundaries

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Malaika Arora opened up about life after divorce, saying that co-parenting with Arbaaz Khan 'comes with its own challenges' but over time they have found a healthy balance. In a recent interview, she admitted facing blame for choosing herself first, but added that the decision made her happier and also helped her son, Arhaan, grow up in a more positive space.advertisementIn an interview with Pinkvilla, Malaika reflected on the challenges of co-parenting and the criticism she faced post-divorce. 'Co-parenting has its own challenges but, after all these years, I think we have found good balance. Plus, Arhaan is now a grown-up kid. He is 22. He knows what he has to speak to his mother and what he needs to address with his dad. The situation is clear, we have our boundaries,' she shared.Malaika also addressed the impact of divorce on children, saying, 'Very often, subconsciously, we put our fears on our children. We shouldn't do it. Kids should never know what their parents are going through, I will not let my child be affected by any of those things happened in my life.'
Speaking about choosing herself, she admitted it wasn't an easy decision. 'People think it is wrong to put yourself first. But, what is the harm in putting yourself first? I felt, at that point, I needed to be happy. Too many people pointed fingers at me and said, 'What a selfish decision.' But I feel that decision has helped me become a better person. I am in a happier space. My kid is in a much better and happier space,' she added.Despite parting ways, Malaika said she and Arbaaz have maintained respect and balance for their son. 'Even though we moved our separate ways, we chose separate lives. But I think the core essence of our child and maintaining certain decorum not just with him but also our family, we have maintained it. That is a good example to show. Today, I am in a much happier place,' she concluded.On the work front, Malaika continues to be a popular face on Indian television, having judged shows like 'India's Got Talent', 'Jhalak Dikhhla Jaa', and 'India's Best Dancer'. She was last seen as a judge on 'Hip Hop India' Season 2 alongside Remo D'Souza, hosted by Manisha Rani, streaming on Amazon MX Player.- EndsTrending Reel