Woman Spends 'Months' Getting Kids on Bedtime Schedule, but Is 'Back to Square One' After Mother-in-Law's Disastrous Visit
A woman says her mother-in-law's recent visit has caused her kids' entire sleep schedule to change
In a post on Reddit, she writes that her mother-in-law didn't stick to the children's schedule and, as a result, they've been staying up well past their bedtime for nearly a week
Now, the woman worries the damage will be "lasting"A woman says her mother-in-law's recent visit has ruined her kids' sleep schedule — and it may take months for things to get back to normal.
In a post on Reddit, the woman writes that her mother-in-law recently came over for an "out of the blue" visit, spending her week-long vacation in their living room.
"MIL bragged about wanting to take care of the kids 24/7 the entire week," she writes. "That lasted about an hour until she got tired of playing. Which. Fine. They're my kids but don't promise something you can't hold your word on."
The poster made her kids' bedtime schedule very clear, explaining that "6pm is dinner time, 6:30 is wind down time and 7 is bath, pajamas and book time then 8 is when they're in bed for the night."
However, her mother-in-law "wasn't okay" with that timing and "both kids stayed up until 4am because she refused to quiet down."
"From that day forward she refused to let the kids go to bed at their bedtime. Stayed loud during quiet hours," she writes.
"It took me months to get this routine to work. And now it's back to square one," the mom adds. "And she doesn't care. She's never cared about anyone but herself."
While the poster told her fiancé that she doesn't want his mom in their house anymore, the matriarch had "nowhere else to go." The mother-son duo also "got into an argument" about the situation, leading to even more tension.
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"She thankfully leaves tonight to go back home but the damage will be lasting. My 5yr old won't be as hard but my almost 3 yr old (turns 3 in less than 2 days) is going to be a nightmare. She's the reason I started taking bedtime so seriously because she won't sleep. Ever," she adds.
Other parents are weighing in on the situation, with one writing, "After the first night of her disrupting your kids routine, I honestly would have said to her that this visit isn't working out and she can either pay to stay in a hotel for the remainder of the week or she can go home. It's up to her but those are her choices."
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