‘Got A Little Crush On You': Man Gets Anonymous Email From LinkedIn Admirer
A man from Jaipur got an email from someone who couldn't message him on LinkedIn.
A man from Jaipur got a surprise after receiving an unexpected email from a stranger who couldn't reach him on LinkedIn. The unusual message — sent as a workaround — has since taken the internet by storm. Kartik B posted on LinkedIn about how someone went the extra mile to contact him. Since the anonymous admirer couldn't message him directly on LinkedIn, the individual searched for his email and sent a thoughtful note that was polite, warm, and honest. Kartik joked in his caption, saying, 'LinkedIn is the new Tinder/Bumble/Hinge, they say," as he shared a screenshot of the email.
The unknown sender started with a polite hello and explained how the stranger was using someone else's email for privacy. The message that followed was open, full of kind words, and a bit nervous. The stranger admitted, 'You don't know me, and I don't expect anything — I just needed to say this." The anonymous user also said he found Kartik's profile 'really very cute" and loved the 'positive vibes" he gave off.
The unknown sender also complimented Kartik's portfolio and ended the message with a kind line: 'I hope you're always happy — you deserve it."
Although Kartik didn't reveal who sent the email, its genuine and heartfelt tone touched many people online. Social media users praised it as a refreshing and honest moment in today's polished, filtered digital world.
Within just a few hours of being shared, the post received over 500 views and multiple comments from users reacting to the heartfelt message.
However, not everyone agreed with the post being shared online. Some raised concerns about whether it was right to make the message public, even without revealing names, sparking a bigger conversation about privacy and boundaries in the digital age.
A user said, 'Damn, it might have taken her so much effort and confidence to email you like this and you just made a post about it. And now she's gonna feel a bit embarrassed. You shouldn't have done that."
Another commented, 'People whose screenshots go viral on LinkedIn would be crying after seeing this."
'Better than purposeless hi, hello, and flirty creeps," an individual wrote.
Many people thought the email was a nice change from the usual professional posts on LinkedIn.
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