When Life Handed Me the Ultimate Plot Twist
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'Southern Voices' is a reader-submitted platform. Today's submission comes from our StyleBlueprint Memphis Account Executive, Faith Pool. If you have a story to tell, see our guidelines for submission here. We love to hear about your wildly wonderful, challenging, captivating (and sometimes Southern-centric) experiences!
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When Life Handed Me the Ultimate Plot Twist
If you'd told me a few years ago that I'd be standing here, planning my dream wedding with the love of my life, I probably would've laughed — and maybe rolled my eyes. After all, my life was headed in a completely different direction, like some unwritten chapter in a novel that wasn't supposed to happen yet.
I was in a season of change, ready to leave behind what no longer felt right. A friend once told me, 'Just because they're a great person doesn't mean they're your person.' That line clung to me like a song lyric stuck on repeat. You know that little voice — the one that whispers for you to take a risk? I finally listened.
The next two years became all about rediscovering myself — getting comfortable with who I was, learning what I wanted, and yes, getting over Memphis. I was ready for something new, mentally preparing for life in Charlotte or Austin. Maybe Florida. New city, new me. That was the plan, right? But as fate would have it, life was about to serve me a plot twist with a side of confetti, champagne, and a little push from my friend Emily.
Enter New Year's Eve at Bar Ware. The room was buzzing with excitement, a perfect snapshot of the kind of night I'd expected — just another champagne toast to a fresh start. But then, there he was. Josh. We ended up at the same place at the same time, and though neither of us expected anything more than a fun night out, Emily clearly had other plans. In true Emily fashion, she made sure Josh and I exchanged Instagram handles before the night was over. And just like that, we were both spiraling into the whirlwind of fate.
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Fast forward to the next morning. Slightly hungover, yet still feeling bold, I slid into Josh's DMs, casually inviting him to a 'hair of the dog' brunch. What was meant to be a quick fix for the morning-after blues quickly turned into something far more interesting. That one message led to hours of FaceTime, during which Josh casually mentioned that he'd had his eye on me for a while. (Smooth, right?) By the end of the call, our first date was already on the calendar. Talk about instant chemistry.
Later that week, we went on that first date, and from the moment we sat down, it just clicked. By the end of the night, we both knew this wasn't just another passing connection. This was something real. Something that felt effortless, natural, and meant to be.
Both having lived in the same city for 10 years, I was shocked I had never seen Josh. After all, Memphis is small — everyone knows everyone, right? But Josh quickly informed me that, in fact, he'd seen me plenty of times. I just never acknowledged him — too busy chatting with everyone around me to notice the guy who'd been right there, waiting.
And then, the plot twist. Five months later, life threw us the biggest surprise of all — we were going to be parents. Fast track much? One minute, I was plotting my escape from Memphis, and the next, I was building a future here with Josh, a future that suddenly felt exactly where I was meant to be.
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And now? We're making it official, because when life hands you a plot twist this good, you don't think twice — you say 'yes' to forever.
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