I'm making serious money on OnlyFans but my boyfriend hates it. He's offered to pay me to stop... should I accept? VICKY REYNAL has the surprising answer
My partner knew at first and was supportive, but now he's asking me to quit and says he'll give me £800 every month if I stop, so I can pay my bills. I don't know if I should stop just because he asked, and if I should accept the money?
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