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Daily Mirror
2 days ago
- Entertainment
- Daily Mirror
'My husband married another woman but we're still together, it works for us'
A man who married another woman after 12 years with his wife has shared how the trio keep both relationships going, despite what others might say about their unusual dynamic When it comes to relationships, couples come up with their own rules that work for them, their values and personalities. Some pairings are more unconventional than others. One man, Colton Winder, has opened up about his unique situation. After being married for 12 years, his wife "let him" tie the knot with another woman in a lavish ceremony, all while remaining with his first wife. He spends one night dating one of his wives, and the next night dating the other. Colton lives in Utah, US, with his wives Tami and Sophie. Together the three of them have five children, who they raise together in what they describe as 'plural marriage.' In a video, shared on YouTube's Love Don't Judge, Tami said: "When Colton and I got married we both believed in plural marriage, eventually it got to the point where we thought if we're supposed to find a wife we will, and we did." However, it took some time for the wives to get adjusted, creating tension within the family. Colton said there were "hard times" as "personalities didn't match at the beginning". Sophie told Truly: "The hardest part was realising that Tami and I didn't know each other very well. We didn't understand each other's personalities." Colton added: "There were misunderstandings…sometimes it kind of felt like I was standing in the middle of a tornado". When Sophie first came into the family, the wives lived separately. "I didn't know what to expect," Sophie said. Once they all moved into together, however, things flowed a lot better. Sophie said: "One of the other misunderstandings that I had was feeling like a wife. You make a lot of comparisons. I felt like I was falling short." Tami admitted she gets jealous when Sophie goes on a date with Colton. She says they will each go on dates with him individually, and then they will go on a date as a three. Sophie and Tami have separate bedrooms in the house and each have a separate physical relationships with Colton. The women do not have a sexual relationship. "It's more of a sister relationship," said Sophie. However, she admits it's hard having her partner "gone every other night" when Colton is spending time with Tami. The family also prioritises spending time with their kids. Tami told Truly: "Our kids have brought us together, they make us feel like a proper plural family." Tami said: "I think I have a really good relationship with Sophie. It's taken a lot of work to get here but I think we've worked really hard to get here and really become sisters." On Instagram earlier this year, Colton issued a message after their family received a lot of judgement. The husband said: "These two wonderful women have experience some criticism over the years for the choice they make daily, to live in a plural marriage. "The simple truth is that these are strong, independent women that are perfectly capable of making their own decisions, and they choose to be wives and and mothers in a plural marriage. "You may disagree with their choices, and that's okay. We're not asking you to agree. All we're asking for is the freedom to make out choice, and to live our faith."
The Irish Sun
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- The Irish Sun
My hubby of 12 years got a second wife – he tries to make time for us both but it's hard
A WOMAN has revealed what it's like having a husband who also has another wife. 'A WOMAN has revealed what it's like having a husband who also has another wife. Tami Winder met her husband Colton 13 years ago, and the pair have been married for 12 years. Advertisement 2 Colton is married to both Tami and Sophie Credit: Youtube 2 The pair admitted that plural marriage can be hard Credit: Youtube The couple are both Mormon and revealed that despite the Mormon church outlawing plural marriage, they still have always believed in "plural marriage". They remained a duo for a number of years before meeting Sophie, who became Colton's second wife. Both ' sister wives ' have a physical relationship with Colton, but are not intimate with each other. For the first two years of their plural marriage, Sophie and Tami lived separately, so that they could ease into polygamy. Advertisement Read more real life stories When they finally all moved in together, Sophie and Tami realised that they didn't know each other at all, and struggled to adapt to their clashing personalities. This led to a number of misunderstandings, with Colton revealing that he sometimes felt like he was "standing in the middle of a tornado ." Cowboy Colton now spends alternate nights with his two wives, which they both agree is one of the "hardest" parts of the marriage. Tami revealed that at times she feels like she is "falling short" as a wife, which is why Colton has a second wife. Advertisement Most read in Fabulous Exclusive However, he insisted that his first wife is "perfect" the way she is. Tami said that she often feels jealous in the relationship, especially when Colton goes on a date with Sophie. First Dates hosts its very first throuple in new series However, she added that if she communicates these feelings to Colton and Sophie, they do their best to "alleviate" her issues. Date night happens once a month, with Colton either going on a separate date with each of his wives, or the three of them going out together. Advertisement Only Tami is Colton's legal wife, as plural marriage is illegal in the state of Utah, where the trio lives. "Sophie is more of a spiritual marriage", Colton explained. What is polyamory? Polyamory is the practice of having romantic relationships with more than one person at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of all parties. It can refer to relationships where one person has multiple partners or spouses, or where all parties are in a relationship with each other, for example in a throuple. According to He added that their way of life is frowned upon and that they live "outside the law ." The trio have three children between them, which they all co-parent, and are aiming to continue to grow their family. Advertisement Tami birthed one of the children, whilst Sophie birthed the other two. Determined to make her brood bigger, Tami is now using IVF, and revealed that she struggles with the fact that Sophie popped out two children in quick succession , whereas she has found it more difficult. "If you're sleeping with the same man, you think it's got to be something to do with you", she said. The trio agree that it can be really hard to live together, but added that it's all worth it because their children make their plural family feel "complete." Advertisement
Scottish Sun
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- Scottish Sun
My hubby of 12 years got a second wife – he tries to make time for us both but it's hard
The two wives revealed that their personalities often clash THREE'S A CROWD My hubby of 12 years got a second wife – he tries to make time for us both but it's hard Click to share on X/Twitter (Opens in new window) Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) A WOMAN has revealed what it's like having a husband who also has another wife. 'A WOMAN has revealed what it's like having a husband who also has another wife. Tami Winder met her husband Colton 13 years ago, and the pair have been married for 12 years. Sign up for Scottish Sun newsletter Sign up 2 Colton is married to both Tami and Sophie Credit: Youtube 2 The pair admitted that plural marriage can be hard Credit: Youtube The couple are both Mormon and revealed that despite the Mormon church outlawing plural marriage, they still have always believed in "plural marriage". They remained a duo for a number of years before meeting Sophie, who became Colton's second wife. Both 'sister wives' have a physical relationship with Colton, but are not intimate with each other. For the first two years of their plural marriage, Sophie and Tami lived separately, so that they could ease into polygamy. When they finally all moved in together, Sophie and Tami realised that they didn't know each other at all, and struggled to adapt to their clashing personalities. This led to a number of misunderstandings, with Colton revealing that he sometimes felt like he was "standing in the middle of a tornado." Cowboy Colton now spends alternate nights with his two wives, which they both agree is one of the "hardest" parts of the marriage. Tami revealed that at times she feels like she is "falling short" as a wife, which is why Colton has a second wife. However, he insisted that his first wife is "perfect" the way she is. Tami said that she often feels jealous in the relationship, especially when Colton goes on a date with Sophie. First Dates hosts its very first throuple in new series However, she added that if she communicates these feelings to Colton and Sophie, they do their best to "alleviate" her issues. Date night happens once a month, with Colton either going on a separate date with each of his wives, or the three of them going out together. Only Tami is Colton's legal wife, as plural marriage is illegal in the state of Utah, where the trio lives. "Sophie is more of a spiritual marriage", Colton explained. What is polyamory? Polyamory is the practice of having romantic relationships with more than one person at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of all parties. It can refer to relationships where one person has multiple partners or spouses, or where all parties are in a relationship with each other, for example in a throuple. According to You Gov, 6.8% of people in the UK have been in a polyamorous relationship. He added that their way of life is frowned upon and that they live "outside the law." The trio have three children between them, which they all co-parent, and are aiming to continue to grow their family. Tami birthed one of the children, whilst Sophie birthed the other two. Determined to make her brood bigger, Tami is now using IVF, and revealed that she struggles with the fact that Sophie popped out two children in quick succession, whereas she has found it more difficult. "If you're sleeping with the same man, you think it's got to be something to do with you", she said. The trio agree that it can be really hard to live together, but added that it's all worth it because their children make their plural family feel "complete."
The Sun
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- The Sun
My hubby of 12 years got a second wife – he tries to make time for us both but it's hard
A WOMAN has revealed what it's like having a husband who also has another wife. 'A WOMAN has revealed what it's like having a husband who also has another wife. Tami Winder met her husband Colton 13 years ago, and the pair have been married for 12 years. 2 2 The couple are both Mormon and revealed that despite the Mormon church outlawing plural marriage, they still have always believed in "plural marriage". They remained a duo for a number of years before meeting Sophie, who became Colton's second wife. Both 'sister wives' have a physical relationship with Colton, but are not intimate with each other. For the first two years of their plural marriage, Sophie and Tami lived separately, so that they could ease into polygamy. When they finally all moved in together, Sophie and Tami realised that they didn't know each other at all, and struggled to adapt to their clashing personalities. This led to a number of misunderstandings, with Colton revealing that he sometimes felt like he was "standing in the middle of a tornado." Cowboy Colton now spends alternate nights with his two wives, which they both agree is one of the "hardest" parts of the marriage. Tami revealed that at times she feels like she is "falling short" as a wife, which is why Colton has a second wife. However, he insisted that his first wife is "perfect" the way she is. Tami said that she often feels jealous in the relationship, especially when Colton goes on a date with Sophie. First Dates hosts its very first throuple in new series However, she added that if she communicates these feelings to Colton and Sophie, they do their best to "alleviate" her issues. Date night happens once a month, with Colton either going on a separate date with each of his wives, or the three of them going out together. Only Tami is Colton's legal wife, as plural marriage is illegal in the state of Utah, where the trio lives. "Sophie is more of a spiritual marriage", Colton explained. What is polyamory? Polyamory is the practice of having romantic relationships with more than one person at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of all parties. It can refer to relationships where one person has multiple partners or spouses, or where all parties are in a relationship with each other, for example in a throuple. According to You Gov, 6.8% of people in the UK have been in a polyamorous relationship. He added that their way of life is frowned upon and that they live "outside the law." The trio have three children between them, which they all co-parent, and are aiming to continue to grow their family. Tami birthed one of the children, whilst Sophie birthed the other two. Determined to make her brood bigger, Tami is now using IVF, and revealed that she struggles with the fact that Sophie popped out two children in quick succession, whereas she has found it more difficult. "If you're sleeping with the same man, you think it's got to be something to do with you", she said. The trio agree that it can be really hard to live together, but added that it's all worth it because their children make their plural family feel "complete."
NBC Sports
5 days ago
- Sport
- NBC Sports
Hamilton Coleman, Nguyen Anh Minh roll in U.S. Junior semifinals
It was an anticlimactic Friday afternoon at the U.S. Junior Amateur. Neither semifinal reached the 16th hole as Hamilton Coleman of Augusta, Georgia, and Vietnam's Nguyen Anh Minh easily advanced to Saturday's 36-hole final at Trinity Forest in Dallas. Coleman, the 17-year-old Georgia commit, took down Vanderbilt commit Luke Colton, 5 and 4. Showcasing great speed on Trinity's massive greens, Coleman made just one bogey while taking advantage of Colton's five bogeys. Coleman went 1 up with a par at the par-5 second and never looked back. A key moment was Coleman's birdie putt on the par-3 eighth, where Coleman lagged a 70-footer through multiple breaks to a couple feet to eventually win the hole after Colton couldn't get up and down. 'It's definitely hard because you feel like you can get away with things but you have to keep reminding yourself to keep the pedal down and not make silly mistakes because that's when the match can slip away from you,' Coleman said. 'So, I really just made sure I eliminated errors, and my caddie has been telling me the whole time, 'Quality golf shots.' It's hard to lose when you're hitting quality shots at your targets.' Colton, the second-ranked junior and 26th-ranked amateur in the world, was coming off a 4-and-3 win over No. 1 junior Miles Russell in the morning and had played his first 81 holes this week at Trinity in a combined 14 under with 26 birdies. But he only carded a single birdie against Coleman, and on the second hole, he injured his left wrist while playing his second shot from a bush and required medical attention. Coleman is trying to become the first player representing Georgia to win the U.S. Junior since Andy Shim, who rallied from 5 down through 18 holes to beat Jim Liu in the 2012 final. The last Georgia recruit to win this championship was Brian Harman in 2003. Waiting for Coleman in the championship match, which will begin at 8:45 a.m. ET Saturday, will be Minh, who would be the first winner from Vietnam. Minh, an incoming Oregon State freshman who is ranked No. 52 in WAGR, won five of the first six holes against China's Qiyou Wu, going 5 up in the process. He only lost one hole all match. 'I'll definitely have to keep myself in the present and hopefully just make putts,' Minh said of what it will take to win Saturday, where a berth in next year's U.S. Open will be on the line. 'It's definitely cool to have a chance to play in the U.S. Open, so that's going to be fun to play for,' Coleman said. 'And you know, I've watched this tournament a lot on TV throughout the years, and I didn't really know how far I'd get into this, but now I have a shot to live out my dreams.'
