1 Underrated Skill That Uplifts Your Relationship, By A Psychologist
A 2022 study published in Social and Personality Psychology Compass offers a powerful lens through which to understand these moments, as invitations to lean into something called 'relational hope.'
Unlike the traditional view of hope as an internal, individual trait, new findings suggest that hope also thrives 'between' people, particularly in close relationships. This emerging model of relational hope proposes that couples can build and borrow hope through three key facets: the wills (relational agency), the ways (relational pathways) and the wishes (relational aspirations) that partners co-create over time.
In other words, even when you can't summon belief on your own, your relationship can become a vessel for it. Hope doesn't have to begin within you, it can actually be sparked by someone beside you.
Here's how relational hope works, and how you can gently lean into it when your self-belief is struggling.
1. Relational Agency
Relational agency is the shared energy you and your partner bring to pursue relationship goals, from rebuilding trust and resolving conflict to simply reconnecting after experiencing emotional distance.
In long-term relationships, motivation naturally waxes and wanes. Sometimes you'll feel hopeful and driven. Other times your partner will carry that load. And that's a skill you want to embrace.
In a 2014 study of 795 married couples, researchers found that each partner's effort directly influenced not only their own relationship satisfaction, but also their spouse's. For example, when one partner reported putting effort into the relationship through care, time or emotional investment, the other partner reported higher satisfaction and lower divorce proneness. This suggests that your partner's motivation can measurably improve your sense of relational security.
The study confirms what many couples sense intuitively. Sometimes, it's enough for just one person to believe. To act. To try. That energy is easily contagious, and relationship effort does not work in isolation.
So, when you're depleted or doubting yourself constantly, remember that letting your partner 'hold the vision' is a form of co-regulation; a temporary transfer of belief that sustains both people.
Your willingness to receive that kind of support says more about your emotional strength than pretending you want to do it all alone. Letting someone believe in you, and in the relationship when you can't, is one of the most courageous relational acts.
2. Relational Pathways
Hope is not just about wishing. It's also about knowing how exactly you'll get through something together. In strong relationships, couples don't rely solely on emotion to get them through. They develop strategies or relational pathways that they can return to when things feel heavy. Perhaps a walk around the block, a rule to pause before arguing, a check-in every Friday night. These aren't random habits. They're rituals of regulation.
In a 2012 study, researchers found that dyadic coping (managing stress together as a couple) is a stronger predictor of relationship satisfaction than how they cope individually.
More interestingly, pragmatic coping, or practical teamwork (like planning, problem-solving and helping each other through action) had mutual benefits for both partners. Emotional support alone didn't show the same effect.
So, when one of you says 'We'll get through this,' 'Let's do what always helps us,' or 'This is tough, but we've been here before and now we have better tools to navigate this,' remember that it's not just words of comfort. These are the rays of hope you've built together. They lower stress, improve communication and remind you that you have a way through, and you've walked it before.
Perhaps the next time you feel stuck, try asking: 'What's something that has worked for us before when things felt off? Can we try that again?'
And remember, you don't need to reinvent hope. Sometimes, all you need is just a reminder of where your experience has helped you store it.
3. Relational Aspirations
When the present feels uncertain or strained, talking about the future that you're building together can reignite passion and connection. These relational aspirations, consisting of your desire of growing old side by side, planning a trip or imagining your future home, serve as emotional anchors during difficult times.
Additionally, this also affirms your commitment out loud. A 2023 study, for instance, shows that committed partners tend to offer more verbal assurances about the relationship's future and spend more time being physically present with their partner.
These small, everyday behaviors like saying 'we'll figure this out' or choosing to sit together after a long day are signs that you're in for a truly shared, supportive future.
The 2023 study also shows that these verbal and behavioral investments actually mediate the link between commitment and time spent together, suggesting that the future lives in daily action.
When couples engage in conversations, even if casually, perhaps about the life they're creating, it reinforces commitment and builds a sense of continuity that makes it easier to navigate the present.
So, next time things feel uncertain, don't be shy to bring up your shared 'why.' Get curious about 'Where do you see us five years from now?' or daydream out loud. Sometimes doing something corny or silly is just what it takes to reaffirm the future you're already investing in today.
Remember, however, that blind optimism in unhealthy or completely stagnant relationships can delay necessary change or mask deeper issues.
Healthy relational hope is active, not passive. If, at any point, you feel off, reflect on whether:
Curious whether your relationship has the hope to carry you through? Take the research-backed Relationship Satisfaction Scale to find out.
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