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People Are Sharing The Hottest Things Their Partners Do Subconsciously, And It Ranges From Sexy To So, So Wholesome

People Are Sharing The Hottest Things Their Partners Do Subconsciously, And It Ranges From Sexy To So, So Wholesome

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Recently, Reddit user u/Most_Envious_Enby asked, " What's the hottest thing your partner does subconsciously?" From wholesome to sexy, here are some of the most top-voted responses:
1. "When he starts nerding out about something he's passionate about. Yes, please keep talking, babe."
— Yuzare
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3. "When she kisses me goodbye in the morning while I'm still half asleep in bed. Or vice versa when I'm up early for work and see her curled up in bed under the covers, looking so cute (we work different days/times)."
— LivingFree2019
4. "I love it when my boyfriend stretches and his shirt rides up. Makes me weak!"
— ruledwritingpaper
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5. "When his forearm is flexed. Or when he wears a white shirt and jeans and is fixing something. Add in his forearm flexed using a wrench or whatever."
— hockeywombat22
6. "Sometimes he just looks at me and smiles, and I say, 'What?' and he doesn't even realize he was doing it."
— Ok-Poet84
7. "Sometimes, when she looks at me, her whole face just goes soft and tender and it makes me feel like the most loved person in the world."
— rannapup
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9. "Wears a tank top with no bra to bed."
— metoelastump
10. "He talks to the dog and cat and tells them he loves them."
— antartisa
"See also: Listening to my boyfriend being absolutely whipped by our 15-year-old cat in the next room. 'Cassiopeia, you've received milk twice today. This is just untenable. Yeah, you're going to win this argument, baby, I know. Let's go get you some milk.'
— victorianfollies
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11. "He's thoughtlessly kind to the people around him. He cooks extra food to offer to a sick neighbor, notices something broken in someone's home and offers to fix it, and sees someone drop something and immediately moves to help pick it up. It extends to me as well, but seeing him give that same care and consideration to the people around him who offer him no benefit or reiteration is unbelievably attractive."
— witchunavailable
13. "When he says sweet things like, 'How did I get so lucky,' or 'Wow, you are so beautiful.'"
— Small_cat1412
14. "It's not really something she does. When we wake up on weekends, she gets up to use the bathroom wearing nothing but her sweatpants and a tank top, and her hair looks like a supernova. I don't know why, but she's never looked sexier than that. She doesn't do sexy. She just is."
— BleedingRaindrops
15. "When they try to suppress a full-on pearly white smile, which turns into a cute smirk."
— AprilTats
16. "He talks in his sleep and will cuddle up against me and tell me how much he loves me. Even his subconscious likes me. Then he'll sleeptalk about his plans for our DnD campaign so I get some foreshadowing about what to expect."
— othybear
17. "That he notices everything about ME! If I try a new shampoo, he asks if I did something new to my hair. If I try brown mascara instead of black, he asks if I changed something. Any new item of clothing that I wear, no matter how mundane, he'll notice and tell me it looks good on me. He never notices the new item itself, he notices how it's made subtle changes in me. It makes me feel beautiful."
— JaguarStriking7766
18. "When he demands sweet moments. Example: 'Oi, give me cuddles' is hot, and since he is a London lad with the accent, I love it."
— NicteNope
19. "Puts gas in my car when he knows I'm about to drive it somewhere the next day."
— girlsdrivetruckstoo
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21. "When they laugh without holding back, it's like the whole world just gets brighter."
— TheFanFuxion
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