I made a fake Tinder account to catch my boyfriend cheating – my revenge will give him self-esteem issues for eternity

The Sun

a day ago

A YOUNG woman has shared how she got the ultimate revenge on her cheating boyfriend.
Emmy Stove was praised for giving the opportunistic man confidence issues that would last for a lifetime.
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Taking to social media, she revealed she had a feeling her boyfriend was cheating and took matters into her own hands.
Instead of asking him outright, she decided to create an account on the dating app Tinder, the same one he was using to meet other women.
Emmy used different pictures in her profile so he wouldn't know it was her and began to message him.
Not long after, she revealed they planned to go on a date.
She said: "(I) told him to meet 'me.'"
While he did turn up for the date, Emmy obviously didn't but he did send him a savage message from her new persona.
"When he did, I texted and said I saw him but left because I thought he was too ugly," she said.
But her revenge plot didn't end there.
Later, when he came home to Emmy with his tail tucked between his legs, she decided to give him the same treatment.
She broke up with him then and there, telling him she didn't find him attractive anymore.
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But the clever woman didn't let him know she knew he was cheating or that she was one of the 'girls' he cheated with to make him feel even worse about being called unattractive twice in one day.
"Hope he has self-esteem issues for eternity," she captioned the post.
The clip was shared on her TikTok account @ emstove22 and it soon went viral with over 1.5 million views and 222k likes.
People were quick to praise her revenge tactic with some claiming she should do it again.
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it's normal to know each other's passwords and use each other's phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: "If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful."
"You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something."
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
"If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don't want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag."
"Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it's an easy way to get caught out," says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner's libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: "Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren't there before."
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
"To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven't walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating," warns Aaron.
One person wrote: "Big fan of your work."
Another commented: 'Him losing twice the same night is gold."
"Ma'am you are a psychological genius," penned a third.
"He's still thinking about that to this day. In fact his new girlfirend has to remind him he's beautiful once a week."
Meanwhile a fourth said: "He was trying to play checkers but BABYYY you were playing CHESS."
"Not gonna lie that's a pretty solid way of handling that,' claimed a fifth.