Woman Who Claims She's 'Favored' by Her Parents Says Sister Is Upset She Booked a Family Vacation Without Her
The woman went ahead and booked the trip for her family and parents anyway
She said this caused her sister to get "upset," which is something she feels bad about
A woman says her sister is "upset" after she booked a trip without her.
The woman shared in a post on Reddit's popular "Am I The A------" forum that she opted to book a vacation at an international "beachy" locale for her family of three and her parents, who also agreed to come on the trip.
She noted that she was 'fairly close' with her sister and even checked if her sister and her family would be able to come on the trip as well. However, her sister told her that there was an issue with her baby's name on his birth certificate so he didn't have a passport yet and they wouldn't be able to go.
Despite this, the Reddit user said that she went ahead and booked the trip anyway, but since then she said that her sister's attitude had changed toward her.
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'Now my sister seems cold and upset at me. Is it wrong that I booked a family vacation with my parents without my sister?,' she asked.
'I don't know when her baby's passport will be ready, and don't want to wait,' she continued. 'I also think it will be nice to have fewer people going, it means my parents can watch my son while me and my husband can go on a few dinners / excursions on our own.'
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The woman shared that she is often more 'favored' by their parents, so she can understand why her sister may feel that way. However, she also noted that if her sister went on the trip, she and her husband would've 'subsidized part of her trip, as her sister has 'financial troubles' due to credit card debt.
She said that because of her sister's financial situation, her husband 'doesn't particularly want to travel with my sister's family and thinks that we will end up having to pay for them too much,' while pointing out a prior trip that she paid for her sister to go on last month.
'Either way I feel bad because she is acting upset,' the woman wrote before opening up the forum to comments.
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Several people noted that she shouldn't worry too much about it as her sister wasn't able to go. One person wrote, '... you gave her the invite [and] she couldn't swing it.....can't put life on pause waiting on passports, don't let the guilt trip ruin the real trip.'
Another person chimed in: 'This summer you wanted to go to the beach with your family and very nice you invited your parents. you offered it to your sister but something SHE is doing has prevented it from happening for her, so you can go ahead.'
'If they couldn't go for legal reasons (passport) I don't understand how you could be the [a------] in this situation,' another person wrote. 'This was your trip and travel plan, and just because they cant go doesnt make you an [a------] for doing something you wanted to do.'
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